For the last 5 years, once a week I have participated in a mentor reading program at a local school. This has turned out to be a personally rewarding event , so the 30 minutes a week seems like the least I can do to help make a difference in a child's education. Many of these kids are from lower economic levels and many are from broken homes. The combination of the two is quite common also. And to top things off sometimes just when it seems I have made progress with a kid I discover he or she has moved. Often times the move is a result of being evicted or other family crisis. Naturally I can't get involved there, but I still wonder if the student will continue to read and progress.....or will they digress? Usually I will never know.

But for the most part the kids I have had the good fortune of working with do well ,and it is indescribably rewarding to have a student come into a semester with a chip on his shoulder , mumbling when spoken too and fighting you the whole way ...and then a few months later running into class wondering what took you, the mentor, so long to get there. And by the end of the semester they are reading fairly well and with a big smile on their face.

So why is something so positive like this such a challenge?  Because every now and then a student comes along that you just know is going to sink. I then tell myself that all my other problems at work or in life, don't hold a candle to the difference a little patience and perseverance can make with that kid. I can't throw up my hands and walk away.

So every time I even think about not showing up for that 30 minute a week visit I consider the consequence .  So I think I will go another year helping young minds hold on to hope with the power of reading.

 
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Hi Trey.  I think this reading program is often overlooked as a means to help out the community.  When children can experience some success you never know how that will affect their future.  Keep up the good work.

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You're a good man, Trey!

Thank You,

Bill

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Trey what a fantastic thing you are doing to help the kids of your community

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Hey Trey,

Your post is one of the most heartwarming I've read in a very long time. Good for you for doing and such great work and sharing it with us here.

Your comment about "to top things off.just when it seems I have made progress with a kid I discover he or she has moved". Trey just because they're not present, does not mean you haven't made a difference in the lives of another. NO doubt in my mind that you've not had an impact! Good for you...that's what it's about in life.

 

 

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Guy,

Thanks for the supportive words

Bill,

You are too kind. I think you are too.

Heather,

Thanks. Lots of people try to help in this program including education students at A and M ...but most come and go.

Lynda,

Thanks for the kind remarks. I know it makes some difference as you say even though I don't always get to see it.

11:56pm • #5
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Hi Trey... you're like an onion... just when I think that I have you all figured out, you peel another layer away and I am even more impressed.  Good work, my friend! 

1:20am • #6

Great job Trey.

I have been a tutor to both ESL and math students.  It was very challenging working with ESL students, but rewarding when they started making the connections.  Math tutoring was far easier for me.  It is amazing what you learn from those you are working with.  Sometimes they can come up with some very creative solutions.

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Dude.....you're a rock star.  Don't get discouraged.  Keep going.  You're an inspiration for me.  Keep up the good work.  You'll never know until you go through the gates as to the impact you've made.

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Steve

I didn't realize I was such an enigma...LOL

Thankyou for the kind words.

Theodora

You are right.  Love to see them do it themselves.

Larry

Thankyou sir for those gracious remarks!

7:45pm • #9
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Trey back in my day when you did something really good or made a good grade on a paper they gave out  Gold Star's. Here's one for you my friend. You are trulyl and inspiration.

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Carl and Ceil

Thanks !! I will keep it in a safe place...my heart. :O)

8:21pm • #11
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Trey, in these category of activities, so often we are the ones that get more out of it, plus you never know the great seeds YOU are planting. You are to be commended for such a great mentoring program.

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Thanks Gary! I consider you a mentor for so many of us "students" here on Active Rain.

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Howdy there Trey

You sure are an inspiration, to folks that know and that are around ya. Just from the bit of time, that I've known ya here in the AR community. I know your not at all a quitter, my friend 

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That is really fantastic that you make the time to do this!

your friend in Charlottesville Virginia!

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Dale

I am inspired by many just like yourself. Thanks for all your positive support.

Charles

You are right about just making the time . I guess we get to the point in life where you can just sit back and wait for stuff or instead  go out and do stuff. I prefer the doing part plus it feels good! :)

 

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