In working with clients it is a give and take exchange with the dialogue and the information. Ultimately though with a professional's expertise you want to
Lead Them To Where You Want Them To Go.
This is not manipulation but presenting the best options for their situation and is helpful. It is done with lots of open ended questions that elicit long responses. Learning about everything they want. Not short answer type questions like who? what? and when? but more why?, tell me more, explain that to me in greater depth? How does that make you feel? A lot of why? questions too. As more elaboration follows AND YOU BE QUIET AND LISTEN, you know what your next open ended question is to go down the path you are trying to lead them, if there is a fit.
Are women better at this? The road to a man's heart is through his stomach!! A lot of women are great cooks!! Hmmm...
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