Cry

Depression is Running Rampant
I've been spending a fair amount of time out and about recently speaking with people.  And what I'm discovering is that quite a large number of people I know are experiencing depression.  Some for the first time in their lives, others are mistaking it for a health issue, still others are greeting an old friend come back to haunt them again.  It doesn't seem to be splitting down any demographic or psychographic that I can identify and it varies from a low-grade dissatisfaction with the world to a full-blown can't get out of bed or make any decisions attack. 

Here are the signs of depression according to helpguide.org

"If you identify with several of the following signs and symptoms, and they just won’t go away, you may be suffering from clinical depression. [You may be surprised - if you're a go-getter like me, you may be depressed and not even realize it.]

  • you can’t sleep or you sleep too much
  • you can’t concentrate or find that previously easy tasks are now difficult
  • you feel hopeless and helpless
  • you can’t control your negative thoughts, no matter how much you try
  • you have lost your appetite or you can’t stop eating
  • you are much more irritable and short-tempered than usual
  • you have thoughts that life is not worth living (Seek help immediately if this is the case)"

Get Aware
If you're not feeling depressed, look around you.  Perhaps someone near you is.  Do you have any friends who have uncharacteristically stopped responding to your emails and calls?  Has anyone dropped off the planet recently?  Is there someone who keeps coming to mind that you keep forgetting to call? 

Get In Touch
People suffering from deep depression are often beyond the ability to respond to your calls and emails.  They are often incapable of making headway on tasks or even getting out of the house.  Do not expect them to reach out to you for help.  You have to reach out to them.  I know you're busy.  But this is important.  Look around you.  Who haven't you heard from in a while.  Reach out to them. 

License to Meddle
Go to their home and pick them up and take them outside.  Get them moving and if they are really bad off, get them help.  Don't be afraid to call the police and tell them you are concerned for a friend's life.  Don't be afraid to make an appointment for a therapist with your friend and take them to it.  Don't be afraid to meddle.  In this one case, I'll encourage a little meddling because someone who is depressed CANNOT do these things for themselves. 

Depression Kills
People who are depressed don't take proper care of themselves.  If they are diabetic or have other health issues, this can result in some serious problems.  And those who suffer from more severe depression may actually consider doing harm to themselves or others.  If you take a moment to take stock and check in on those who have checked out, you are in a position to make a difference.  Who knows?  You may just save someone's life in the process.

 

 

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4 Comments on Depression - The Silent Stalker

OCT
29

The Slient, MOSTLY UNRECOGNIZED, Stalker.  I've had some friends fall really deep into it.  Most, but not all, either got pulled out or pulled themselves out.  It wasn't pretty for those who didn't.

More people need to be educated on recognizing the symptoms.  Your post will help a bit.

And every little bit hielps!

 

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9:25pm • #1
OCT
30
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Kelle, You are so right and how wonderful that you're putting out the information on this "touchy" subject.  So many people think, "Why doesn't that person just snap out of it?"  But not everyone can.  The friends I know that have experience with depression have helped educate me on the topic. 

2:01pm • #2
OCT
31

I see more and more of this and the news doesn't help.  I quit watching newscasts.  I check out news on the Web, I can be more selective that way.  Thanks for writing this...it may save someone's life! 

11:06am • #3
NOV
10
I've been there and I have made my way back more times than I can count. The combination of genetics and life circumstances makes for a very difficult road to navigate. There is no magic with clinical depression recovery. It takes an intentional effort on the part of the depressed person to seek help from medical doctors and professional counsellors. It absolutely takes both approaches. Everyday becomes a battle of giving up or trying one more time. My point for those of you who think you may know a person who is depressed is simple. Show that you care. A phone call saying that you were just thinking about them can literally become a lifeline of hope. An outing for coffee or taking a walk even better. So I agree. A little meddling can sometimes change or save a life and special training to do so isn't needed. If you care, show it. If you think a person could benefit from professional help and can suggest it, do so. If you are not comfortable doing so then speak with a family member, co- worker, or mutual friend. Once recognized help is available that really works. There isn't an overnight cure, it takes time and effort, but it's worth it!
Vickie Sanborn
6:39am • #4

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