Was out driving with the kids last night, and my 5 year old looked out the window, very excited.
"Look, Mom, there's a wishing star!!"
My two year old says absolutely anything her brother says, and becomes equally excited. "Stars, stars!"
I heard my son whispering, and figured he was probably making a wish. This isn't something we've ever talked about, but he's very perceptive and has a great memory, so I'm sure he heard about wishing stars somewhere.
A minute goes by.
Then I hear a wail, filled with deep disappointment.
"Mom, why didn't it work?" he cried.
I couldn't help it - I don't normally laugh at the worldview of a child, but I did. Then I tried to explain that wishing stars are fun to think about, but only God can really answer our prayers - and he doesn't always answer right away, and doesn't always agree with us on what's best for us.
Then I asked - "What did you wish for?" What wish, not granted immediately, could have given him that sense of betrayal and taken away a tiny bit of the magic of being a child and BELIEVING? Was it something that I could provide for him?
"I wished I could turn into a cat."
Hmm.
Well, what would YOU have wished for, if YOU could wish for anything?

Penny, I would have to give that some thought, I am already blessed with a wonderful family and have no real needs or wants, so I consider myself very fortunate. Thanks