When I was a young(er) man, back before I was a father of four, or a Realtor, or a blogger, my wife Pam and I used to do our grocery shopping at around 11pm to miss the crowds.  We got to know the nighttime checkers and managers at the local store. 

Recently, Pam reminded me about how I used to buy "camouflage" foods in an effort to make the cashier believe that we were consuming something with nutritive value, rather than strictly junk food.  Today, as I was shopping, I was buying ingredients for a highly decadent Oreo cheesecake that my daughter is making for her Brownie/Girl Scout event tomorrow.  I also loaded up on candy, Tostitos, diet sodas, and other stuff that could never be deemed health food.  Guess what?  I didn't even bother with the camouflage food.  Instead, I was perfectly content to roll my cart filled with snacks to the front.

This struck me as analogous to my blogging efforts over the past couple of years.  When I started out, I assumed that I was "supposed" to write about business stuff only.  At the very least, I thought that I needed to include some market reports as part of the mix so that no one would know that I simply enjoy writing, regardless of whether it results in sales.  Thankfully, along the way, I've had plenty of sales, too. 

When I am teaching others about social media and blogging, one of the most common questions I get is this:

"But what should I blog about?  I don't have much to say."

My answer is a short one: ANYTHING that you feel comfortable writing about publicly is fair game. 

There's no magic formula for blogging, and I don't think you should ever listen to self-proclaimed experts who tell you that you should have 20% personal, or 50% business, or 0% fun.  Just write, and you will become a better writer over time.  Blogging provides another unique opportunity that writers didn't have in the old days - instant feedback!

In the pre-blogging era, authors, journalists, and anyone else who aspired to communicate via the written word would have loved to have comments on their works as they progressed and honed their skills.  You and I probably take this for granted now, right?

I realize that transparency is an overused buzzword in the social media arena these days, but I still think it's an important concept for businesses and individuals using these tools.  Almost every single sale that I have had (including an astounding SIX in the pipeline right now) have come from my willingness to let people get to know me as a person, not just as a real estate broker. 

Writing about real estate all day makes Jack a dull boy.

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148 Comments on Should I Really Care About What You Think? Learning to be more transparent

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I think a certain amount of transparency is good... however, I always stay away from politics and religion and related topics as I have clients from all different points of view.

10:06pm • #1
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I agree with Joan above. But other than that I guess I will post my bunny in the garage post next - LOL. ~Rita

10:09pm • #2
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Jason, I agree, writing regularly makes us better writers and mixing it up is good because nobody wants to read the same thing over and over, we want to know about the person behind the blog.  I think it should be a balance between fun, business and personal.  When you were going through some tough times bloggrs came out of the wood work wanting to give you support and I see that as well, that's building relationships, who are you going to trust a referral to? 

Side note I'm inviting you to jon my new group Commercial Real Estate referral network  .  Do you do commercial?  If not I still would love your  help  getting this off the ground just by joining, you carry weight around here!

10:10pm • #3
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Joan & Rita - We'll have to agree to disagree on this one.  I share that stuff sometimes, too, if I feel like it.  It doesn't have to be inflammatory to be interesting.  The example I have used before is this: my personal physician is a Hindu, and my plumber is likely an atheist.  We don't agree on our faith, but they are good at their respective jobs, and THAT is why I choose to work with them.  I guess my point is that you are very unlikely to lose any potential clients by being honest.  You are, however, more likely to gain some who find common ground with you.  I get a lot of business from this blog, and I don't hide the fact that I am a Christian and conservative on most things (not all).

Debbie - Thanks for your kind remarks.  I don't really do much commercial real estate work, but I would be happy to join your group if you think it will help.

10:34pm • #4
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Jason-

You know I'm with you here, friend. We've got to encourage 3-dimensional blogging. Keep it up!

10:36pm • #5
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Jason, great post.  While many people are insterested in "what" we know the only thing that separates us from the gazillion other people that also know a lot is when they know "who" we are.

10:41pm • #6

Jason, yes, I agree, and think  that people are sometimes a lot more interested (curious) about us as people than as agents.

10:44pm • #7
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Ian - This was pretty much what we discussed at lunch the other day, right?  :)

Charles - Thanks!  I could not agree more.

Barb - There you have it!  That sums it up very nicely.

10:56pm • #8
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Jason,

Yes I use to make Oreo Cheesecakes for my restaurants. 

10:57pm • #9
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Hi Jason,

Your post would have made a great comment to a post I read today.  Or maybe it is? I think you are right about writing what you are comfortable with.  I've heard from a few  new members who felt intimidated by some negative comments left on their first blogs.  Not an encouraging start.

11:10pm • #10
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Larry - I would love the chance to try this one, but I have a feeling it's not for dad consumption.

Jenny - I would love to know which post that is.  Feel free to email me - I am curious.  :)  It's never a good thing when someone is discouraged early in the game.  Sorry to hear that.

11:16pm • #11

Great analogy,  but there's nothing wrong with some healthy food too.  How many entries can you have about market conditions anyway.

11:20pm • #12
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Jason

You are right about just writing and being transparent. The "stuff" that matters will eventually find its way to the keyboard. I like this post and it is certainly fun and helpful.

11:29pm • #13
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Joe - Right you are.  Market conditions alone will not interest people to continue reading further.

Trey - That pretty well sums it up, my friend.  The stuff that matters will come out as part of our normal day/week. 

11:33pm • #14
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This is your blog, so blog away. Although I do think it should be real estate focused, not in totally 100% intention but I think you get what I mean. The personal posts tell whom you are, makes you feel real (like this one) and hence, people select to do business with people. Not real estate charts.

Most of my posts have been real estate related but there was once I wrote something totally off-topic. I wrote about the Reviews of several Mineral make-up I tried over 6 months. I thought I'm just going to get a guy who will totally YELL through my post, but I received quite a good response - better than some of my real estate ones for sure.

It never seize to amaze me...

11:39pm • #15
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Loreena - I have had good results from both real estate and non-real estate posts, but as Ian said above, I think it's important to be three-dimensional when blogging.  Thanks for stopping by - I think your first sentence was a great summary.

11:42pm • #16

As a starter a made today my first personal blog. As you mention time and practice.   Now and than we can have some junk food too.

I agree with Joan too.

11:55pm • #17
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Jason, GREAT analogy!  And, look, you've blogged about potato chips!  Who would have ever thought when we first started blogging that we'd be blogging about potato chips?!  LOL

I'm actually writing a post about this very thing--everything that I do or experience becomes a blogging opportunity!  (Well, okay, not everything!) :-)

12:16am • #18
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Jason,great analogy.It is definitely ideal to have a mixture of topics. By the way, nothing wrong with Jack but real estate 24/7 may lead towards boredom. Hahaa
12:31am • #19
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Thanks for the encouragement. I love to write and blogging is a great outlet.

12:38am • #20
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If nothing else if you make your writing fun, you are more likely to write.  In my humble opinion mixing up your content gives many others a chance to see you that might not happen if you stuck only to business or very narrow topic areas.

I for one want people to know who I am, learn if they like me because then in time they may find that they trust me enough to do business with me.

12:40am • #21
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It would seem that anyone who has a blog can decide what makes them the most comfortable, or get the most business, or whatever their objective is and then blog away -- to each their own as they say.

1:06am • #22
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Jason, I was glad to read your post.  I've only been on AR for about 3 or 4 weeks and have been thinking about what I may want to blog about.  I decided I simply want people to know who I am as a "realtor person."  For me there isn't the "realtor" side, then the "person" side.  They are one and the same and what you see is what you get. 

When it comes to boundaries, I think it helps to blog about something you would be willing to talk to a client about face-to-face. 

How often are you blogging.  Once a week?  Bi-weekly, or whenever something strikes you?

 

 

 

1:14am • #23
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I have to say Jason..... I love your non RE blogs most of all.... and when you do blog something RE I will read it only if you make it personal somehow.... housing posts, open houses, market stats blah blah blah.... If I ever had need of a Realtor in in your area... you would be my ONLY choice!

1:18am • #24

I agree with Charles Perkins up there.

"If nothing else if you make your writing fun.."

Why can't you write about real estate 24/7 AND make it fun?!?

It's up to you though. Be yourself. If you are stats person, do stats. Because there is visitor to the blog that has quirky stories about whatever, that is not coming back to that blog, because she wants stats. There is enough people out there for your message and your delivery to resonate with.

1:20am • #25

Oh Jason, how deliciously decadent oreo cheesecake sounds!

Yummy Cheese Cake

Besides thinking of cheese cake I agree with your thoughts on blogging/writing.  If you are going to do it, it needs to be you talking.  NOT a script which is sooooo quickly recognized by most folks when being spouted by many.  Kinda like "talking points".

Sue of Robin and Sue

1:46am • #26
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Writing about the person behind the blog or stuff other than real estate has been very difficult for me. I am going to work on that. Thanks for the advice and the post.

1:56am • #27
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At first, I did find it difficult to find topics to write about. Now I find it difficult to limit my topics ☺☺☺

Helping you live your American dream...

3:13am • #28
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Jason:  I haven't used Facebook very much and what little bit I have use it for was all business.  After a few well intended and well meaning comments about not always making it about busines, and reading your blog, I guess I'm getting the message.  That will be quite a leap for me but I'm going to give it a try.

3:47am • #29

That is true; it is always great to see some different kind of post on Active rain from realtors beside just business. I follow blogs of many people, who share some recipes here. Blogging for me is to share some knowledgeable and good content with your readers. Example you have quoted here to explain your point is brilliant.

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3:54am • #30
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Jason, your comment about camouflage food made me smile.  Did it go to waste or get eaten?

It's interesting how your style has evolved since you started here in the Rain.  I actually see the difference in this post.  Maybe because I haven't been around in a while, it's more readily apparent to me.  This sounds like you, Jason, speaking.  Not that it wasn't you in the beginning.  But somehow your voice rings truer now and I don't even know you, really.  But your post comes through as honest. 

I think a blogger should be true to their personal style.  Write the way you tend to be.  I don't think I've ever stayed away from a particular subject, but I do try to not be inflamatory as I don't like to make waves.  It doesn't always work though.  I've had posts I wish I hadn't written or written differently.  But I've left them up.  It's a learning experience.

Congrats on your feature. =)

 

4:28am • #31
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GOOD MORNING JASON!  Back in the early days when I would just stalk blogs like yours because I was afraid and always concerned about "what, why, who", etc.  Now it is what you say.  I think one of the best things to remember is to write what you want based on who you are - be careful not to offend (even though you might anyway) and it will be alright! -- Gabrielle

5:05am • #32
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I have the perfect answer. ..what  should we blog about?

Your passion

5:17am • #33
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So Jason, are you going to share that highly decadent Oreo cheesecake recipe, or what? ;-)

5:18am • #34
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Jason,

I am a natural rambler, and a jack of all trades. Just give me a gun, if I have to stay on real estate 24/7. OMG. UGH. Don't I already do that for a living? Good post...enjoy your oreo cheesecake...yum.

5:21am • #35
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Jason - A look back at my earliest posts (on my main site especially) show I was unclear about what I was trying to do.  I was trying to fit into a mold of "real estate" and was trying to force articles out of myself.  Thanks to consistent blogging and an opening up of my thoughts of what to write about (and becoming much more natural in the process) I see that you don't have to be strict in your writing efforts.  Write what's on your mind and you'll benefit from it.

5:26am • #36
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I couldn't agree more. I like reading the personal blogs. It tells me that person is a human being just like the rest of us. I have read blogs that would make me laugh so hard and that is priceless! :)

And Jane said it best, "Just give me a gun, if I have to stay on real estate 24/7" Ditto!

5:39am • #37
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Jason, thanks for this post. As a relative newbie to AR I have found myself wanting to not blog more than I have wanted to blog. Your thoughts have made me open up a little to more blogging.

5:43am • #38

Jason your post had me at the picture of the snack aisle.  After that, you could have written about anything and I would have read it!

I definitely would like to have a piece of Oreo cheesecake.  The more decadent it is, the better.

5:53am • #39
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Good post Jason!  Thanks for the insight.

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Hey Jason,

Definitely on point about being ourselves as we write. I was expecting Katerina to make a comment or two about the benefits of being more than 2-dimensional in our writing here. She tackles politics, religion, real estate, and everything inbetween on her blog, and credits much of her success to God first, and then to the fact that people actually flock to her because she has taken a stand on what many people may find controverial. Writing like that does make one "real" to people who read it. As long as that's not the only thing we write about - have you seen Billie's latest post? Ha! She cracked me up about that - it shouldn't be a problem.

6:03am • #41
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Jason, I sometimes wonder if the people who write solely about real estate and market reports spend every second of their time in the car with their buyers talking solely about real estate.

Can you imagine three hours on a weekend driving around with clients and spouting out market statistics the whole time?

NO!  Rather, we talk about our lives, our dreams, our ambitions, our interests, our hobbies, our experiences, funny stories, and try to connect with our clients.  More importantly, we listen to our clients discuss their lives, their dreams, their ambitions, their interests, their hobbies, their experiences, and their funny stories.

I have never had a client stop a discussion and tell me "I don't want to talk about my kid's soccer games or my marathon training any more.  Let's turn the talk back to the absorption rates in that Springfield subdivision."

Online behavior should mirror offline behavior.

Most of my clients who come in the door because of my blog tell me that they feel like they know me already.  They've watched my YouTube videos.  They've read my so called "MeMes" (remember those!)  They know where I've been, where I am, and where I'm going.  They've shared similar vacations.  They've run the same marathon.  They've read the same books, have the same heroes, and eat at the same restaurants. 

In short, we've established rapport before ever meeting in person.

Nobody has ever walked in the door just gushing about the latest market report or "oohhh... that post you wrote about appraisals..."

6:15am • #42
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Definitely "Food for Thought" I need to expand out and go for the gusto! Thanks for the encouragement!

6:20am • #43
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Jason - While I wholeheartedly agree with your entire post it is YOUR first comment back that says it all for me.  Despite the differences with you, your plumber and your physician you "employ' them based on their ability to do the job and do it well.  That's all you had to say!  But, no, you had to bring potato chips into this whole thing!  ;)  Fantastic post as always and I still remain one of the "I don't really care what you think" kinda people!

6:32am • #44
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Hi Jason, I am transparent to a fault and I write whatever I've moved to write when I sit down at the computer.  It's funny because sometimes, I'll be going through the day and something will happen and it's as if a lightbulb went off in my head, because suddenly, a post idea is there!  Even when I write real estate posts, I try to weave them into a story of our lives here in West Chester.  In my everyday life, my transparency isn't always a good thing, but I've learned it's just something that is, like my brown eyes or my height.  Part of who I am.  Have a great day Jason!

6:34am • #45

OMG  now i am pissed ... not at you Jason....i will RE-WRITE  my comments again since they were errased... here is my story ...first i get up everyday at 6 am turn on lop top and go straight to AR...its been 8 hours and I need a fix...I am typing in the dark not to wake the family...after I typed Jason a nice comment I have to type the graphic  below at 6 in the moring in the dark... i must have typed a letter incorrectly in the code,  beacause after i spent time writing such an exquisite comment i hit submit comment below and RED letters come up saying i typed the code wrong..that is fine however...why did the code  monster...aka...AR...require me to re-write my entire commment...why was my comment erased...why could it just not stay where it was and i type in a new security code?

Ok  done...now to remember my original comment about Jasons blog....

I had the hardest time in the beginning thinking of something to write about, couldn't get 2 sentences out...i was always thinging real estate biz...now look at this comment...I may have to make this a blog for myself...anyway....forget Nike and "Just Do It"  I prefer W. Clement Stone better"DO IT NOW"...do it now and write something, it does not always have to be about the biz we are in... I will get more comments...good and bad about this little comment than writting  about some listing 3 bed 2 bath listing that I have...thanks Jason for sharing

Danadevine

http://www.findmyfloridahome.net/StaffProfiles.aspx?ID=594938

7:05am • #46
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You bring up one of my pet peeves at grocery stores.  The cashier who makes commnetary about the products I'm buying.  I hate that.  They see something strange and want to know about it.  It's not that I'm unfriendly but  it makes me think about what he or she is going to ask when I get up there with a box of condoms or something like Preperation H.  Thank God for the new self sevice check outs.

I do agree with you about not worrying about what to write about.  I love to write and use ActiveRain mainly for an outlet where I can get feedback.  It hasn't gotten me much business but I do enjoy it.  I try to be transparent and not worry about what might offend someone or affect possible business relationships. 

7:06am • #47
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Hi Json,

I laughed at Deb's remark "who thought we'd be blogging about potato chips!" Great analogy and it is your blog, your style and it is a way for people to know you. Transparency is good! Thanks for all your insights.

7:12am • #48
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OK I will admit to the camo food...and I also will admit to writing and deleting posts because they were so "not" business!

7:32am • #49
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U Scan is great... don't have to worry about what the cashier thinks.  Problem is the healthy food because produce often takes longer... then again if you don't use the U scan  the cashiers that don't know their  veggies can be a chore too,"you just rang up my savoy cabbbage as bok choy...."

I think everyone who* wants to  just needs to jump into blogging / social media and see what works for them.... I listen to the social media gurus and use a megaphone when they say something like "ActiveRain is good...." when they say "shame on ActiveRain" I say... well it is usually more a sound than words.  

* I think some who don't necessarily want to, need to jump into social media as well.

I write a lot of market reports on ActiveRain but my big blog, ColumbusBestBlog.com is largely devoid of real estate.  Other than the RSSes (plural of RSS?  RSSi) for my ActiveRain outside blogs.  Well and I posted some Zillow info recently and got a comment from "zillowhater."   RE agent? 

 

 

7:32am • #50
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Jason, I'm not even sure it has much to do with what we assume people think.  We write about things that concern us, and we get feedback from our statistics that tell us how many others cared to read our efforts.

7:50am • #51
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Jason:

Do you really mean I don't have to do those market statistics posts? I have been struggling with that. I feel that since I have such an aversion to doing them, maybe I should listen to my heart. I am always interested to read about how bloggers are actually getting their business. I guess it makes sense that readers would like to see some personality.

I do also have a fondness for potato chips...

 

8:00am • #52
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I totally agree Jason.  I've heard some bloggers say this was for "real estate" only... But then why does AR have a tab for "off-topic" posts?  Write about anything!

8:13am • #53
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Jason,

Right on!  Somewhere the other day I read something about blogging to establish yourself as a real estate expert!  I laughed.  For me, blogging is not to establish me as a "real estate expert".  The word expert is a big word.   There's a lot that I don't know but I find out if I need to and I don't mind saying "I don't know." 

Blogging is to let my clients, possible future clients, customers, fellow agents etc know who I am so they can figure out if they want to do business with me..

That includes sometimes blogging about the grocery store.

Thanks!  Great post.

8:18am • #54
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Jason...

It's easiest to write about what you know! When people ask what my blog is about all I can say is "you'll have to see for yourself!"

8:21am • #55
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Well then I guess I managed to dodge the "dull boy" description because I NEED to write more about real estate! Folks who read my blog probably learn more about me than is really needed but I am completely transparent! Jason, this is a great post but now I have a craving for a bag of Fritos...No wait, pork skins!

8:22am • #56
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One other thing...where was this picture taken? I do not recognoze a single bag of those snacks?

8:23am • #57
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Great stuff, as always, Jason. There is no magic quotient for what percent of your posts should be business/ personal/ fun.

Writing whatever you are comfortable putting out to the masses should be what you blog about. By writing from the heart, your chances are much greater that it'll be something folks want to read.

Market reports and statistics, although important, might imply that you know your numbers, but they don't endear you to potential clients.

How can anyone know if you're a good fit to be their agent if they don't know who you are?

 

8:26am • #58
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Oh, and another thing!

Congratulations on not only the featured post, but being the featured member of the day here in the Rain!

8:27am • #59
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Jason there is no doubt that you are the Seinfeld of blogging. You can make something out of nothing and make it great - LOL

8:28am • #60

I agree.  We probably get bogged down about the thought of blogging with regularity because we 'think' we need to blog with professionally laid out designs and topics.  Showing our personal side is just as important I think.

8:29am • #61
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Mix it up and have a little fun along the way.  I like to scoll through the most recent ten posts and see what's missing, then add the serious, funny, photo or hard core real estate post to the mix. 

8:32am • #62
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I keep my blog almost exclusively focused on real estate but I try to write in a conversational tone and interject my personality and my personal life into it as I'm writing.

I have a personal blog - not RE related at all - and I guess get my fix of all-over-the-board writing there. Not sure my clients want to see pictures of my poison ivy (the subject of my last post). Or maybe they would...

Regardless, lots of information without any fun is, well, not fun.

Stay tuned for a poison ivy post.

8:35am • #63
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As you know....I don't play the politically correct game.  Not to be a renegade, but just to be transparent.  I want to work wtih likeminded people.  I can't stand it when people try to pleae everyone.  I like it when I get with folks who are genuine....good or bad....take em or leave em.  Great post dude.

8:42am • #64

I agree with you that we need to mix business with a little bit of everyday pleasure so that clients can relate to what we are saying. Got me hungry now.

8:50am • #65
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Jason, what a great post and a compelling reason to share more personally instead of just professionally.  I have grown some this way and know it is true, but still struggle with it!

8:51am • #66

I love you Jason... and I agree with your additional comments as well. I never would have started blogging until God told me to. I wear my faith on my sleeve, chest, head and anywhere and everywhere. It's called love and it is never wrong to love others... and to clarify, I'm talking pure love not lust. A love in spite of not a love because or if. All my emails have A Kingdom Owned and Operated Business in my signature... I am Blessed to be the last successful real estate advertising mag left in our county. There are others... but we still maintain the best exposure and success... only by God's Blessing... you are a Blessing to AR and everyone else in your life.... I love you Jason and you are the king of bloggers.

8:52am • #67

Hi Jason. I keep my blog real estate relate. I have other blogs too which I write in a conversational tone. To each his or her own though I notice that some people are writing about writing posts. I find that amusing LOL ~ Lana

8:53am • #68

Interesting and thought provoking. Just what a blog should be. thanks.

8:59am • #69
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Thanks for the post. it reminds me that peope tend to work with people they know, like, and trust.  Outside of personal interaction, what better way to establish some connections with people than through blogging and social media?  Oh, and thanks for not being ashamed of your faith, it's an important part of my life as well.

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Jason, we are all people, not robots and everyday get spun, sold something, some service or survey from someone. So when blogs done on just the area, or just your experience with raising a family in your home town, or helping out with the local civic group...that shows who you are, what the area you live in is all about. Real estate blogging is soooo much more than sticks and bricks. Or should be. Otherwise..just dial in realtor.com and drone out going down thru the images/copy. You need the human element to complete the experience.

     That is why video is huge...to not just see your smiling face...but to hear you herding the kids, see you heading down the aisle of the local grocery with four kids in tow and loading the cart with chips, dips and other items while the muzak plays clarinets and Bobby is paged for check out bagging from out back in that local store you shop at. And Mom on camera, kindly scolding you about some of the purchases when you get home. ("Moxie...who's going to drink this Moxie?" she asks as you munch on an oreo in your kitchen, dog barking, phone ringing.) Reality tv is trying to show something honest, real but much of it is pimped, sensationalized. You can be and should be Mr "Down to earth broker, family, community blogger man".

9:03am • #71

Whew! I feel vindicated!  Even though I LOVE to talk and will at times have been known to produce a look on the persons face that I am talking to that says "is she EVER going to shut up", I find it hard to think of something to blog about.  I find it easy to comment on anothers blog and when I am in bed at night I think of all these wonderful things for my blog, but when I start putting them "on paper" it doesn't sound right so I just erase it thinking no one is going to want to know about this.  I have much to say and much to learn - Heck, I have even written a book.  Anyway, I now feel freer to "let my hair down"! Thanks Jason!

9:08am • #72
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I do like the personable blogs and I am still working on my blogging feet. Enjoyed the post and the feedback.

9:15am • #73
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Jason, thanks for the encouragement that we can be ourselves and still do good business!

9:17am • #74
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Jason: Nice post. I agree with you. We want to see the full picture, not just the industry pundit! In fact, the more real we are, the more our blog attracts! Thanks again!

9:23am • #75
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I enjoyed reading that one!  Now that you have given permission for people to blog about anything (almost), I think we are going to see some much more interesting entries.  I hope I don't have to see anymore on the extension of the tax credit (my apologies to those who were getting the word out to their SOI) but it's taking up page after page of the blog list.

9:27am • #76
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Jason, speaking of transparency, they say by the time we are age 90, we just tell people anything we darn well please, cause we drop all pretense.

9:28am • #77

How about turning us on to your recipe for the Oreo Cheesecake!  Now THAT would be a good thing to blog about :-)

9:36am • #78
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Maybe we should petition for a "junk food" channel.  That way readers in the AR Lounge can munch away to their heart's content.

9:38am • #79
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Jason:  Amen ... allowing people to get to know us. That's what it is all about ... making a connection with people so they have an opportunity to know that we can be trusted.  Seems like the older we get the more willing we are to expose ourselves and be vulnerable ... aka ... don't care what others think. What freedom!  Thanks for your post ... it will inspire those who are still stuck on what to write and let go of worrying about if it is "perfect" or not!!!!

9:41am • #80
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Awl, I love this post and I totally agree. At first it's like pulling teeth but if you stick with it you really find your voice, sometimes a voice you didn't even know you had. Thanks for posting!

9:44am • #81
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Thank you for the reminder Jason, I am a fairly new blogger and often find myself wondering what to write about! I have a fantastic life and why wouldn't I share those experiences too?! I know I enjoy working with people I know something about, so why wouldn't someone else?

9:45am • #82
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Jason,

It is interesting that you wrote along this subject....I guess it is another of those steps that we take as bloggers...I was thinking along the same lines yesterday....

9:47am • #83

NIce analogy, Jason. Life would be boring indeed if we only talked about work...

9:55am • #84
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Allow me a self-indulgent re-quote here..... "Writing about real estate all day makes Jack a dull boy"

A-Freaking-Men!!!!

I blog about EVERYTHING! Heck, I just wrote a comic little piece about car-pool tunnel syndrome. ;-)

""Transparency"" isnt about being a real estate expert...Its about being a PERSON! And a person has more than one facet...many more.  So, spend some time writing about those things....those facets....that make you unique. You will not only gain readers, but you will gain CREDIBILITY by proving to your listeners that you arent a real estate robot.

Aside from that, the world opens up for you and you will never be out of material to blog about ever again. Trust me. :-)

9:57am • #85

Hi Jack,

I hear 'ya! There is only so much you can say about the market without becoming redundant and boring. That's how I'm feeling about my blogging lately anyway. I liked your usage of the word analogous. Them's some fancy writin skills! ;)

BTW, Where'd you get your buttons? Can I snag them??

10:12am • #86
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Jason you nailed it. This is a people business. people do business with those they like, are comfortable with and can relate to

Ty

10:14am • #87
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I get annoyed with the "buzzwords" too. I actually blog about things I like to do, the area, fun places, etc. and clients have hired me because they like those same things too! What more could you want? Clients that have the same passions!

10:19am • #88

Hi Jason:

We could not agree with you more.  Staying in touch with your clients AFTER they have bought their house and loading them up with real estate info is not what they want to read.  They want to read about the interesting bits in their new/old environment and what is happening.  Sure, they want to know what the house down the street sold for, or what it's on the market for, but now they want to live and enjoy...Good post!

10:38am • #89
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Thanks for the post. I should write about my efforts to bring transparency to the mortgage industry, but wait that is about business. I should write about the fun we have around the office but being transparent about that would reveal who the real prankster is. I guess I'll figure out how to write about some other transparent item that won't get me in trouble.

10:42am • #90
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Funny but I usually scan these blogs for info and this one is the first I read every word of because it was PERSONABLE.  Thanks for sharing!

10:51am • #91

Are you calling the potato chip aisle nutrition?
Ah, potato chips my favorite vegtables.
Great post, thanks

11:00am • #92
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You gotta love late nate trips to the grocery store...just you and the stock boys!  Love it!  I have done that too and I agree...if you are comfortable with it...blog about it!

11:19am • #93
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Jason, I am always evolving as a blogger.  I try to make a mix of enjoyment with a dash of education and information thrown in.  In other words, I write what I'd like to read.  And I think it is an excellent way to support my community.  That makes me feel good.  Your camouflage foods cracked me up!

11:20am • #94
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Jason,

You are probably one of the most transparent people I know here on ActiveRain.  I have learned about your business, your kids, and even an incident of bad service at a local restaurant.   Through your blogging efforts, I have had the opportunity to get to know Jason Crouch as a person and not just the businessman.  Keep up the great work!!!

 

11:23am • #95

Great post Jason, write about what's going on in your life. This can be a mixture of business, personal and other. Half of a home sale is because of curb appeal; so are you. Be yourself, be honest, and be of service through giving.

Jeff Stone
11:25am • #96

Wow, who would have thought...you're almost to 100 comments on junk food buying, or so it seems.  Entertaining blog! Thanks.

11:33am • #97

Great post! I firmly believe that the best way to maintain a client base and have lifelong customers is to let them see the personal side of you as well as the "professional" real estate side. Pretty much everyone I have ever dealt with prefers dealing with a real person they can relate to in some way

11:42am • #98
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Thanks, Jason. That is a question I asked and still ask. Writing about Boulder City, Nevada has been the answer.

Boulder City Steve

11:44am • #99
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Agreed.... blogging isn't writing the 'Great American Novel' or the 'Business Quarterly'... it's a conversation... we don't just talk about business all the time... Well done.

11:47am • #100

Jason--A great post and good reminder.  We are human first and Realtors second...

Kathy Stankard
12:19pm • #101

Thanks for this post- it backs up what I say to my Realtor clients all the time. I encourage them to reveal a bit of themselves in their "About Me" bios because I believe people want to do business with people.

I also believe that people want to do business with others that seem somehow "like them." They (rightly or wrongly) assume that if you share a hobby or an interest or a belief, then you're a "good person."

That said, I have seen posts that should have been left to a personal journal or diary - and some that should not have been written at all. For instance, I've seen people note on Twitter when they were taking a rest room break. Uhhh... more than we need to know!

Anyway... you're at a great point in life when you can just "be who you are" without worrying about what someone else thinks. Not everyone is going to agree with you and love you for it, but not everyone is going to love you even if you hide behind a phoney front. So what?

Be careful with that junk food, though... we need you to stay healthy so you can keep writing!

Now I have to go... I need to re-blog this post.

Thanks again,

Marte

 

12:29pm • #102
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Very good post. We are in a relational business and people need to see that. With that being said, I use AR to blog more about ways to assist clients and realtors and facebook to connect more personally. 

12:39pm • #103
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Jason, very nice post and easy to read. After almost a year of blogging, I'm still not totally comfortable writing personal blogs, although I do wrote about local events and things not related to real estate. I have this fear that if people knew how laid back and funny I am in real life, they may not feel I could handle their serious real estate needs, so I tone it down and write fairly serious. Maybe you will be my inspiration to break out of my shell next year and I'll be surprised by the results.

12:42pm • #104
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Jason - I agree with you. Sometimes you have to inject some personal flavor to keep your readers engaged. I have a question you might be able to answer. Sometimes I have agents send me an email to 'advertise' a recent blog post. Is that a feature in ActiveRain we can use or did they do them one by one? Do you know? I mean, surely you know. Maybe you'll blog about it ;-)

12:46pm • #105

Jason- You made a great point and I will take that advise. I absolutely struggle to find something to write about and I will absolutely confess I am not a good writer. It will take me some time to be comfortable with it but it is great advise to absorb, Thanks!

1:06pm • #106
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Gotta keep it interesting. To me, that's what it's about. Never did the camoflauge thing at the grocery store..but it's a funny story.

1:07pm • #107
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Jason --- this is such a great point --- I still feel like "I just don't know what to write about" -- after a year, I'm still finding my way -- but I think that an important part is to "just do it" and " find your way".

                                                                                

1:10pm • #108
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Personally I've not found this to be the case.  While people/buyers & sellers/ are nice and friendly I don't think it is the main reason behind why they want me as their agent.  I' am who I am and it works....for the most part. Sometimes, it doesn't....whatever!

Patricia/Seacoast NH

1:12pm • #109
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Thank you for this!  I feel as though I've been writing a whole lot more personal than business lately (with two new grandsons).  If I get too many personal posts in a row, I feel all this pressure to write a business post.  You have taken off some of that pressure!

1:14pm • #110
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Jason- I have been struggling with this for years now. I am just not a wordy person and I have always kept my personal life privte. From virtually everyone. I realize that I need to "open up" especially if I want to expand my circle.

1:20pm • #111
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Made me laugh to read this.  I think the very first post I put on ActiveRain was about my personal motivation for being in this business.  I didn't feel "qualified" to write about real estate.  I mean, yes I'm a broker and yes I feel good about the way I do business, but for me, blogging has always been a way to let my potentional clients know ME, after all I want them to choose ME before they choose a broker to list or sell their house.  Oreo Cheesecake?  that sound good... can we get a photo and the recipe?

1:38pm • #112
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I think it's simply a case of 'like attracts like.' And just like we need balance in our diet, we also need balance in our blogging.

1:48pm • #113
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Jason, I agree. I think that people want to see our human side, and they want to know that we are not one-dimensional. In that way, they can connect with us as human beings. It is also important for people to know that we are passionate about something in the world. Would you want to list with someone who didn't seem to care about anything other than a home sale?

2:03pm • #114
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I think it goes hand in hand.  People are going to come to the blog because it has information they want.  Hopefully the personal stuff helps us get to know people and can trust.

2:35pm • #115
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I think the venue matters. If it's facebook it should really not be all about business. If it's LinkedIn it should, but then we choose where we post. I know that I get far more comments on Facebook when it's persaonal.

3:12pm • #116

Well put, Jason.  Thank you!  That Oreo cheesecake sounds yummy!

3:32pm • #117
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There's ALWAYS something to write about, if you're active in this business. Every day there is a new topic that could be a blog post, on something that happens in the office. Just be real!

4:40pm • #118
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I'm thinking a certain amount of transparency is good, but I do think I also can write about business for a couple days, and from there write about other things. Mixing it up a bit can't hurt anything.

5:09pm • #119
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Jason - this was a wonderful read for me on a long, tired, Friday night.  Thanks for encouraging me.  I am always to hesitant to "BORE" everyone with my thoughts.  Of course I have opinions, and have always kept them to myself.  But, I gotta get "out" more and write things OTHER than real estate.  I don't want to be Jill the dull girl.

5:54pm • #120
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With the internet everything is transparent pretty much isn't. You analogy is so right on my friend. But we work hard enough to splurge a little so eat the whole cake and blog about the diet you will go on.

6:12pm • #121
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Jason, And that is exactly what I love about AR as well.  We can write about anything and don't have to stick with the same subject day after day :)  BTW, I was also a midnight shopper back in the day...no kids and an empty store was the perfect time to do grocery shopping :)

8:12pm • #122
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Hi Jason - I've been spinning my wheels trying to figure out the "right" way to blog so your post really resonated with me. This blogging can be intimidating stuff - especially when you read the posts of the many talented ActiveRain bloggers! I've always enjoyed your posts because they are authentic and give me a feel for your personality.

8:20pm • #123
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I have been writing mostly business with just a tad bit of personal.  I am still relatively new to this so I will expand a little bit.....but.....no jokes or recipes!

8:30pm • #124

Fun post.  I agree with you completely.  Write your passions!

9:01pm • #125
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I agree, write about anything you feel comfortable writing about.  Therefore, I like to share my pets with AR more than business.

9:01pm • #126
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I enjoyed your post and the comments. I will stray away to non-real estate topics, but so far, only a very little personal stuff. I will try to loosen up.

9:45pm • #127
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Thanks for permission to be myself more often!  Sometimes Real Estate just doesn't really express my inner self!!  And sometimes it does!  Nice to have options and leeway.  Have a great week end!

10:01pm • #128
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Jason, thank you for your words of wisdom.  I need to do a lot more of this type of writing.  It's hard to know where to begin but I'll give it a shot.

11:11pm • #129
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Hi Jason--I love reading your stuff.  Being real is "da bomb"  It's so weird, I get creatively "constipated" when I try to write within a format of what others think should be written about.  I love the freeflow and creative outlet that this forum provides.  Keep writing what and how you want and I will too.  BTW, thx for returning my call a few weeks ago.  Ya don't even know me--you're alright.  Thx again

11:18pm • #130
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As I think about the list of AR Blogs to which I subscribe, I am certain that the selection of INTERESTING PEOPLE who have sparked my loyal interest here are absolute proof of the truth of your main argument.

The commonality among them is surely real estate.  But I see on MY list several people with whom I know I disagree on a lot of things - but to whom I would not hesitate to refer business anyway.

11:25pm • #131
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And, you are definitely not a dull boy ; )

 

You do a great job of being transparent and showing everyone how knowledgeable you are about real estate while allowing them to also get to know what a great person you are.

11:25pm • #132
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I am trying desprately NOT to be the guy called, Jack. I am finding my niche blogging-wise....

I used to just do market reports, listings and the group stuff for my group....

I am learning........... I have subscribed to MORE TALENTED bloggers... GONE are the

people whom I was subscribed to because everyone else was subscribed to them......

I am learning from the GOOD examples i am reading...... YOU are one of them, Jay...

=-)

11:27pm • #133
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GREAT analogy, Jason. I hate to admit that when I see YOUR cart in the grocery line, I shudder. My cart is filled with fresh vegetables and organic meats. Can't remember the last time I bought potato chips!

A friend asked me this morning what to blog about and I responded, "write about what you know." Readers want to know you as a person and through your blogging, you two develop a relationship, although you may not even meet or correspond for another year.

Last week I wrote about my timid and abused dog that we adopted recently from the shelter, I wrote about a local business and a new park in my neighborhood. I'm new at blogging but am beginning to see results, slowly but surely.

I learn great stuff here in the Rain. And, THIS is one valuable lesson.

2:58am • #134
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Jason...I think we should all strive for transparency, Being authentic clear represents who we are...I have always thought if you fake it you wouldn't make it.

6:48am • #135
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Hi Jason, I am happy to hear that blogging about anything, is acceptable.  When I think of a subject I want to blog about, I look it up on AR, and there may be 10 to 20 blogs about the subject I thought about blogging.   So, now I just use my own words, and blog about what I think is important, even though there possibly could be some other blogs, about the same subject. Hope this is acceptable. ....

and we also buy cokes, cookies, chips, ect..:) whatever my children want, as long as it is not alcohol or beer, I will buy it for them...   thanks for sharing

7:22am • #136
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Jason, You are right on again as usual.  The way I see it, we write about who we are and what we are interested.  Well, bottom line is I spend more time doing real estate then anything else, so I will write more about real estate then anything else.  But, I do have the other parts of my life family, gardening, etc, and, of course I wll write about that as well.  My interests are all over the place, and I will write about all of it.

11:42am • #137
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Jason, good point, but what about the fact that Jack truly is a dull boy except for his real estate expertise?

7:23pm • #138
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Jason - I couldn't agree with you more.  Real estate information is great, but in my opinion writing personal posts is what a prospective client will connect with.

7:53pm • #139
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Transparency is a good thing!  I think it comes thru even when authors aren't trying...we see your style even when its about real estate! 

7:30am • #140
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Jason,

Just had to come back and say thanks....I am learning to be more transparent...your blog inspired me for the blog I just wrote...It was a good feeling...

5:49pm • #141
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I may very well be a junk food junkie. Lord, have mercy on me! Seriously, I must get rid of the excess Halloween candy, or I might go into a sugar coma!

11:37pm • #142
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Long ago someone who taught us to write said to "write about what you know".  You are right to have a larger variety of subjects to blog about.  I want some relief through out the day and many times pick out the blogs that are not business related to amuse myself.

12:23pm • #143
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Great post Jason. I often write about me and my new wife's adventures. For the first time in my life, I am excited about something besides Real Estate. It is great.

11:40pm • #144
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Jason - I also think it's important to share more than real estate......it gives people a chance to "know" you before they even meet you in person.

Re posts on politics and religion....I don't venture into those waters out here (personal preference)....though I do on Facebook....and I've gotten some flak for it...I'm not going to stop posting what's important to me though, because I don't see the point otherwise.  I created the page to reflect me....and it does....and sometimes it ticks people off, and most times it doesn't. 

Here on ActiveRain, I do concentrate mostly on posts relative to the areas that I serve. Still, even out here in the Rain, I write only about what interests me.

 

No point otherwise, as far as I'm concerned.

 

Living a genuine life means living it out loud.  That's my 2 cents anyway.

 

Have a great day! :)

7:23am • #146
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Fantastic!!!  I have been struggling with writing what I want versus writing 100% about real estate.  I feel better about doing both now!

11:48am • #147
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Fantastic!!!  I have been struggling with writing what I want versus writing 100% about real estate.  I feel better about doing both now!

11:48am • #148

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