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     I've been very fortunate to have had quite a few settlements over the last few months. Sitting at one settlement in particular last week brought a very important factor to mind--a MAJOR factor in why I decided to go into real estate in the first place.

We as real estate professionals are not just selling bricks and mortar...we are selling hopes, dreams, memories and commitments that have become part of that home.

     Great real estate deals sometimes come out of unfortunate situations. There are many people losing their homes because of lost jobs and income, lost marriages--while there are other first time homebuyers; for instance, that are benefiting quite nicely by another's misfortune. Such is the way of the world, I know...

     While sitting at that settlement table last week, I looked at my buyers side of the table--so full of happiness and joy at their first home together as newlyweds...then across the table at the sellers, who were divorcing and moving out of their family's home with tears of sadness streaming down the wife's face.

     I just feel the need to remind my colleagues that we as real estate professionals have a duty to our clients to not only handle their transactions with the utmost detail and efficiency but even more important in my opinion, to respect and take into consideration any and all emotions that go along with that transaction. Be courteous and kind... your clients have put their lives in your hands and we must nurture and respect that part of their real estate transaction as well!

Faith!

Faith LaRosse

Keller Williams Realty

542 N. Lewis Rd. Limerick PA

610 996-3195

www.SoldbyFaithLaRosse.com

 

 
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7 Comments on 2009 The Two (Emotional) Sides to the Settlement Table

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2009
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Faith, thanks for sharing your commentary on why alot of us are in this business. It's not just about making money but to be of service and share in fulfilling hopes and dreams.

7:45am • #1

Faith - you are so right - like you I have been across the table lately for quite a few settlements with 1st time home buyers - the delight & pride are so great to be a part of!  It reinforces why I am in the business, especially during this challenging market.

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Here...we do not have buyers and sellers in the same room....I think it's better that way...and your Mrs. Seller most probably would have preferred it...there are joyful closings for everyone...and then the ones like you described when privacy is the thoughtful part of the closing.

7:55am • #3
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We have a tough business. There are times of sadness and great joy at times.

7:59am • #4
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Faith -

I completely agree.  There are few things more intimate and personal than the roof over your head.

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That is very interesting Sally and David..you're right-those sellers and probably many others might prefer the privacy.  What WAS nice to see was the commeraderie between the buyers and sellers AFTER settlement...hugs and consoling each other...times like that re-ignite my faith in humanity.  Thanks for sharing!

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Thank you Faith for your blog.  As a virtual short sale assistant I don't sit at closing tables but I do deal with the sellers everyday.  It is heartbreaking sometimes.  The Realtors I work with are always so kind and compassionate with these unfortunate folks.  I am very proud of each and every Realtor I work with.

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