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Did You Have A Great Thought Interrupt YOUR Day Today?

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Lola Audu~Audu Real Estate~Grand Rapids, MI Real Estate

I had a number of errands to run today.  It's one of my rare office days when my schedule is my own to do with as I please - within the boundaries of getting my work done of course.  The day is gorgeous in Grand Rapids, so my youngest son and I take off in the car to enjoy being together and being outdoors.  He's immersed in a new book, so I pop in a Tony Robbins CD from his "Get The Edge Series."  He momentarily perks up to listen and then decides his book is more interesting.  I settle down. We're together...teenager & Mom...and this is a good thing... and it is enough. 

colorful creativityI've received the series as a gift several days ago.  As Tony begins to talk, I drift in and out of my private thoughts.  Then something he says arrests my attention.  He is asking a question...Did you have a Great Thought Interrupt Your Day today? 

It's a rhetorical question...the point being made that great thoughts rarely interrupt our days.  They come during moments of contemplation, relaxation or fun.  Seemingly from nowhere, ideas arise, solutions emerge and opportunities all of a sudden become visible.  But how...

You have to make time to Create!  Creation is an artistic discipline which must be nourished to thrive.  Creativity needs the spacious landscape of downtime...relaxation...to enable its effervescence to bubble to the surface.  As I listened to the CD, there were several insights that emerged. 

1.  Creativity must be Nourished & Protected.

For many years, I have devoted the first hour of my day to quiet contemplation and devotional reading. It is at these moments, when my mind is freshest and my thoughts have not yet begun to race unabated, that inspiration has aroused fresh passion within mydandelion soul.  Most of my teaching on spiritual life has been written during these times.  While my level of mental and spiritual stimulation is not always on "high alert", I have always been refreshed and more relaxed in starting my day this way.  The days when this time has been rushed or omitted have left a slight disjointed unsettling feel to life's activities.  Consequently, these moments must be treasured and protected. 

2.  Creativity Requires Time to Flourish.

A big mistake which I have often made or been tempted to make when I have an inspired idea is to talk about it...to anyone and everyone.  Experience has taught me that not every receiver of information is tuned in to give helpful or wise counsel and support.  Creative ideas are seeds.  They do need to be planted and worked into the soil. Inappropriate exposure will kill an emerging seedling of an idea.  Criticism, skepticism, scorn and misunderstanding are poisons that will effectively cut off its young life.

3.  Creativity Thrives on Expectation.

dandelionsThe 1989 Movie, "Field of Dreams"  the character Terrence Mann (played by James Earl Jones) encourages Ray (played by Kevin Costner) with this famous quote "If you build it, they will come" famous.  In a similar way, creative instinct also forces you out on a limb with reference to expectations. Expecting to be inspired has a way of creating opportunities for inspiration and creativity.  It's a matter of perspective. 

The fact is that inspiration is all around us.  We usually don't see it because we are walking around with our "eyes wide shut."  Creativity abounds within the peculiarities of nature.  It dances with delight in the mischievous smile of a child.  It mesmerizes within the dramatic flair of artistic expression.  Creativity jives with the beat of the drums or glides on the strains of the violin.  If you live in expectation...Creativity will come!

4.  Creativity is Invigorated by a Sabbath Rest.

I realized, only recently, that my understanding of the Sabbath was very shallow and misguided.  Earlier this year,  I picked up a fascinating book by a Jewish Rabbi, Rabbi Daniel Lapin called "Thou Shalt Prosper.  Ten Commandments for Making Money." 

In one section of the book,Rabbi Lapin writes about Consecrating Time for Forecasting and the power of being able to understand the soft, subtle signals that coming events send into the future.  According to Lapin, the reason we miss these signals is because we have neglected the necessary quiet time to take note of them.  To hear these muted messages, we must be willing to block out noise.  Only then will we be able to hear the soft and quick tread of rapidly approaching trends. dandelion

Lapin writes: "the practice of Sabbath...a day of rest may seem to be governed by primitive rules, but its effect is to "create a tranquil oasis in time and space from which the future can be effectively contemplated.  For 25 hours each week, Jews are required to put aside all work-related objects and activities ....It is a regular weekly period of time during which their beings are set on "receive mode" rather than "transmit mode."

When I think about the frenzy that characterizes so much of the real estate experience, I wonder if we'd be much more effective if we worked in ways that enhanced rather than depleted creative momentum.  The average Realtor prides him/herself in being easily and continually accessible.  Downtime is often spent under the dull spell of a droning television set.  Open Houses are routinely scheduled for weekends and vacations are preceded by a whirlwind of activity to wrap things up before we leave. A flurry of appointments and emergencies are scheduled for when we return.  

May this be one reason that as an industry, we've missed some important messages that the market sent us and have found ourselves scrambling to react to trends rather than leading the way to creative solutions?  Perhaps, we have been so busy being busy that we've neglected the vitally important discipline of being quiet enough to observe, understand and then respond appropriately. 

Perhaps in failing to listen and quiet our collective heart and spirit, we have forged ahead without the strength of vision which only comes when you catch your breath, stand still and absorb the messages being transmitted to you.  You might think ...We can't possibly afford to do this...things are moving way too fast.  I challenge you with what may seem to be an absurdity...Perhaps there is too much at stake not to! 

*Editorial note:  This blog post was started some time ago...my day today was far more hectic. :)

*photographs of dandelions are courtesy of Dawn Endico on flickr

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Comments(22)

Lola Audu
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Hi Kimberly,  Thanks for stopping by and commenting.  It is very easy, particularly in our business to be "busy being busy."  It's also ultimately very unproductive.  I find that quiet reflection helps me to recognize the obvious futility of running around in circles and accomplishing nothing.
Jun 27, 2007 03:29 PM
Becca Briggs
Rochester, NY

Very enlightening post! 

I love the part about creativity needs time to flourish! 

Often times at work I will come up with a creative idea, that took days, sometimes even weeks to plan.     However, what I find is that next time someone comes to you with an hour notice and they want you to create something as good as the last one, that tooks weeks to figure out. 

Non creative people do not understand the process we go through to create those ideas. . . that what you do....... as if you were a calculator and you "created" as easy as adding up numbers on a calculator. 

I have noticed that us creative types need more time to refresh than say the calculator types.  Does creative thinking use up more brain cells?!?!? 

Thanks for the great post.

 

 

Jun 27, 2007 04:02 PM
Lola Audu
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Hi Becky,  Thanks for stopping by and commenting.  I do think creativity (or being creative) uses brain cells in a different way...or perhaps even different brain cells. :)  I do find that it takes a completely different type of energy (thinking pattern) for me to create something of value. 

I've found that there are definitely things that can help to stimulate creativity, but perhaps the most important issue is simply giving it enough space to breathe and emerge from our hectic, busy demanding lifestyles.

Jun 27, 2007 04:39 PM
Yvonne Brown
Century 21 Northwest - Gilbert, AZ
Lola - Great post! Creativity is so important in our industry! I get my most wonderful ideas in the shower or when I am driving - 2 times when I am free to contrate on nothing else but the task at hand. The rest of my life is so committed to multi-tasking. I should be taking more time out for creativity!
Jun 27, 2007 06:02 PM
Val Allocco
Staged 2 Sell New York & Long Island - Northport, NY
HSE; ASHSR - Home Stager, for Manhattan, Brooklyn & Long Island

Lola,

Let me begin by saying that I was mesmerized by both the content and excellence of this post - you should write books!  Your writing style is prolific and the visuals enhanced the message that you were trying to send.

I will say that your message has definitely touched something deep inside me.  I seem to rush through every day all the while seeking to accomplish even more!  I have forgotten to take 'quiet time' for me to reflect on where I'm going in life and what I really want to do.

Thank you for taking the time to share this message with all of us on Active Rain!  I will be sure to read all of your posts from now forward!

VAL

Jun 28, 2007 12:16 AM
Kim Dillon
Creative Eye Home Staging - West Chester, PA

Your writing is beautiful!  Probably the result of a beautiful spirit!  The comment on creativity taking time to flourish and discussing an idea before you've given it time to fully develop really hit home with me.  While the "brainstorming" concept is good--perhaps it is one we too often use as an excuse to speak before we've really thought things through.  Thanks for sharing!

Kim Dillon, Creative Eye Home Staging

Jun 28, 2007 12:48 AM
Lola Audu
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Hi Yvonne,  Thanks for sharing your thoughts.  Productivity and Creativity should not be at odds with each other.  I think that when we give ourselves the gift of time for quietness or focused reflection, we probably enhance our productivity immensely.
Jun 28, 2007 03:11 AM
Lola Audu
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Hi Val, Thanks for stopping by to read and comment.  This message is very significant to me, perhaps because it is an area in which I experience a lot of challenge in keeping a balance.  I'm encouraged by the fact that life is always a "work in progress."
Jun 28, 2007 03:18 AM
Lola Audu
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Hi Kim,  Thanks for your comment.  Learning when to speak and when to keep silent is an important discipline to develop.  I'm a learner under dicipline (a disciple) in this area. :)
Jun 28, 2007 03:21 AM
Rhonda Hay Rawlins
Glastonbury Home Staging - Glastonbury, CT
Wonderful post. Thank you so much. It is so important to take time to reflect and nourish ourselves. There is so much constant chatter around us draining us on so many levels. Rhonda
Jun 28, 2007 11:09 AM
Lola Audu
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You're very right Rhonda, thanks for stopping by to read and comment. I think we live, largely unaware, of the draining nature of "constant chatter."
Jun 29, 2007 02:37 PM
Lola Audu
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Hi Deborah,  Thanks for stopping by to visit and comment.  It's interesting that you note that creative thought occurs when you are walking...and that it comes naturally.  I think stress is one of the greatest barriers to creative thought.  Writing these thoughts down is very helpful for me as well.  I also ask for grace to retain the essence of what has come to mind.  Happy 4th of July!
Jun 29, 2007 04:40 PM
Shell Brodnax
Real Estate Staging Association - Valley Springs, CA
CEO- RESA

Lola,

What an amazing post! So true. My creative thoughts come most of the time when I am driving. I have always loved to drive and don't mind driving distances because I take the time to reflect and come up with great ideas. I even keep a notebook in my car to jot them down. The other time they come to me is when I am trying to fall asleep, which hinders my ability to fall asleep and I am working on how to "turn off" my brain at night.

You are also right about "Learning when to speak and when to keep silent is an important discipline to develop." This was always my downfall in my teens and 20's and early 30's. At 35 I started to learn I don't always have to have a come back and have them less and less now. Now at 38, they are less and it is "hurting" less to keep quiet when needed, but there are still times when the term biting your lip brings an entire new meaning. Discipline is key. Thanks so much for sharing!

Jun 29, 2007 08:05 PM
Sarah Cooper
Real Estate Shows - Hurricane, WV
Lola, this is absolutely beautiful!  Creativity is a process, and we DO SO need down time!  We have to recharge, we have to refresh, we have to stop being so hard on ourselves.  I adored this post.  I'm going to go back and put a link from mine to yours, OK?
Jun 29, 2007 11:09 PM
Lola Audu
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Hi Shell.  This post has spawned an amazing and insightful series of comments.  It's been wonderful to read what you and others are sharing about the creative process.  Unlike many blog posts which come and go in a flash, the savour of this discussion has continued to be enriched as it has aged...somewhat like the grace of true creativity. 

I'm struck by your comment regarding the wisdom you have gained through maturity and also a deeper awareness of the need to nurture stillness and quietness.  Thanks for sharing so eloquently.

Jun 30, 2007 03:20 AM
Lola Audu
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Hi Sarah, Thanks for stopping by for a visit.  I enjoy reading your blog posts...you combine a wonderful spirit of spontaneity and creativity.  If you'd like to link to this post, that would be fine...and a truly wonderful compliment.  Thanks.
Jun 30, 2007 03:22 AM
Desiree Daniels
RE/MAX Tri County - Robbinsville, NJ
lola - first off Love the name...  I have great thoughts interrupt my ever second... Its taking those thoughts and focusing and putting them somewhere that always troubles me.   Beautiful post...
Jul 01, 2007 03:36 AM
Midori Miller
Talk 2 Midori, LLC - Daytona Beach, FL
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Hi Lola-I am a huge Anthony Robbins fan!  I have played that series over and over again!  I love this post and it is so true.  Silence....stillness....thought....action....success... I am a firm believer that we have to take time for ourselves and be quiet and listen....it's those moments that can make you the best realtor vs. mediocre.  Very nice Lola....
Jul 02, 2007 12:40 PM
Lola Audu
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Hi Desiree,  Thanks for your comment...this is a belated response, but I've been out for a short vacation.  I've found it helpful to jot things down on a notepad when thoughts and ideas come to me.  That way, I'm not worried that I will forget them and my brain is freed up to receive other interesting thoughts!
Jul 09, 2007 10:32 AM
Lola Audu
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Hi Midori,  Thank you for such a grace-filled response in your comment.  I appreciate your stopping by.
Jul 09, 2007 10:34 AM