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In thanksgiving...

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Real Estate Agent with Calcagni Real Estate, Hamden, Connecticut Connecticut REB.0750397

Today's blog is about a topic I hold dear: the joy of having a good neighbor. I grew up in a rural part of the Hudson Valley in New York State. As a child, I learned that a good neighbor was like gold. My parents couldn't stress it enough. Winters were harsh and you might need a neighbor to help if a car broke down or a house lost heat. My parents both worked and we had the basics, just like everyone else in town. Life was simpler then; it wasn't the suburban life I have now. Today, if I need something, I buy it. I don't have to bother anyone - but I know I can. I am blessed to have several good neighbors, and I am thinking about them as I affirm all the good things in my life this Thanksgiving week.

We live life at a breakneck pace. I think most Realtors have a turbo charged inner clock, which lets us handle so many things at once. Now and then, however, it is good to slow down and take stock of what we are doing and what things are important to us. We understand the value of relationships in our business, and we see the value of good neighborhoods, where the homes show that people care. This Thanksgiving, call a neighbor you cherish and tell them how thankful you are for them. If you don't have a good neighbor, perhaps you might want to list the houses on either side of you, and work on finding two wonderful new neighbors. Just a thought.....

The important thing is to give thanks. Once you get into the habit, you start to recognize things you are grateful for. The positive energy this creates affects everything you do and everyone around you. Stay away from negative people - they add nothing to your life. Happy Thanksgiving. I hope you recognize all the good things in your life.

Bill Gillhespy
16 Sunview Blvd - Fort Myers Beach, FL
Fort Myers Beach Realtor, Fort Myers Beach Agent - Homes & Condos

Hi Millie,  I agree.  We live life so often in the fast lane that sometimes we forget those around us.  Have a great Thanksgiving !

Nov 22, 2009 04:50 AM
Sonja Patterson
Keller Williams - BV - College Station, TX
Texas Monthly 5-Star Realtor Recipient for the Hou

Millie,

Thank you for the reminder of what a blessing good neighbors are! I still get together with my former next door neighbor a few times a year for lunch. She was/is like a 2nd mother to me...and such a neat friend!! We always make each other laugh...always a good time!  I will be making her  fudge sometime over the holidays. I was so honored she shared her secret family recipe with me. :)  Yum!

Nov 22, 2009 04:51 AM
Sharon Paxson
Sharon Paxson, RealtorĀ® EQTY Forbes Global Properties - Newport Beach, CA
Newport Beach Real Estate

Millie - what a very nice and appropriate post. It is the time to give thanks and be grateful. Like you - I am incredibly blessed with the nicest neighbors and know that if I need anything they will be there for me. Happy Thanksgiving to you and your family.

Nov 22, 2009 04:53 AM
Millie C. Legenhausen
Calcagni Real Estate, Hamden, Connecticut - Hamden, CT
CRS, GRI, CIPS, MBA, Realtor

Bill, Happy Thanksgiving to you and yours, and to your neighbors!

Sonja, how lucky to have such a caring neighbor, and one that can cook!

Sharon, Happy Thanksgiving. It's so good to hear others acknowledge the blessing of a good neighbor,

 

Nov 23, 2009 01:55 AM