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Are you *Fun* to work with?

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Real Estate Agent with RE/MAX of Spokane 77217

In the past 8 years I have been enjoying a steady and sucsessful real estate career. I have had all kinds of buyers and sellers, closers and lenders.

I have worked with some really stressed out people, and I must say, those crab apples are missing out!

I enjoy the journey, not just the rewards. I get involved in a fair amount of messy details in people's lives which could be an opportunity to be crabby.

I make a conscious effort to be fun to work with. Now what does this mean?

Take it easy. Get your ego out of the way. Don't get your panties in a bundle. Shine it on. Let go and let God.

Stop trying to be the general manager of the universe. Respond instead of reacting. Never lose your sense of humor. Listen. Be affirming and empathic. Be gracious and kind. Be truthful without being rude.

Laugh out Loud. Realize the only person you have control over is yourself. Walk a mile in someones shoes.

Don't assume things. Accept the limitations of the day. Get your beauty sleep. Practice the golden rule.

Don't be stingy. Don't take things personally. Gratitude goes a long way. Attitudes are chosen, if you are fun to work with, you will use less mental and physical energy, and preserve more for yourself and your family.

Life is short. Lighten up, and have some FUN! Yes, even while working. I love what I do, and it shows. :)

 

                                             *Don't worry, Be HAPPY!*

BethAnn Long- Tomlison South Inc. www.BethAnnHomes.com

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RE/MAX of Spokane

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Comments(78)

Kyle Shorts
Parma, OH
Aggressive Internet Marketing!

I've always said that if you aren't having fun doing what you do then your not doing what you should. Yes, there are good clients and well lets just say not so good but at the end of the day those who have fun and love what they do go home with a smile on their face.

Nov 24, 2009 12:58 AM
BethAnn Long
RE/MAX of Spokane - Spokane, WA
Realtor, CRS, e-PRO, CLHMS Spokane Wa Real Estate

Marte! Let's meet half way for COFFEE! A dog in the wedding party, that is the BEST!

J. Phillip: first of all, this was my grandfather's name on my dads side. John Phillip. Second of all: Seeing the upside in life makes you live longer!

LIGHTHEARTED, UPBEAT, VISUALIZE, LOOSEN UP, DANCING ,FRIENDS FOR LIFE, these are all great additions to my post!

Irene:love the toolbox!

Missy: I think there's a blog in your comment! Love it!

Gary: I will read your blog and let you know! hahaa!

Tinker: what a cute name. I will get that ring tone:)

Clint: good point!

Nov 24, 2009 12:59 AM
Paul McFadden
Responsive Pest Control - Seattle, WA
Pest Control, Seattle, WA.

Beth Ann. I would hope so. I try not to sweat things too much. Most of the time the deals we do take care of that! Congratulations on your featured post!

Nov 24, 2009 01:57 AM
BethAnn Long
RE/MAX of Spokane - Spokane, WA
Realtor, CRS, e-PRO, CLHMS Spokane Wa Real Estate

I apologize if I missed somebody in responding. Between my kids, dogs, and having *FUN* I tried to catch you all!

Paul: thanks!

Nov 24, 2009 02:08 AM
Mary Bowen
Coldwell Banker United, Realtor - The Woodlands, TX
Real Estate At Its Finest!!!

I agree you need to be light hearted in these stressful situations.  It makes everyone's life easier. Often the agent is the one who sets the tone.

Nov 24, 2009 02:17 AM
Patricia Aulson
BERKSHIRE HATHAWAY HOME SERVICES Verani Realty NH Real Estate - Exeter, NH
Realtor - Portsmouth NH Homes-Hampton NH Homes

Fun is important for us and for our health. So go have fun and be fun to be with.  It's catchy!

Patricia

Nov 24, 2009 02:40 AM
Derek Meyer
AmeriTitle - Bend, OR
AmeriTitle

Most of my clients became close friends. Im not sure If I'm fun, but im good at creating relationships!

Nov 24, 2009 03:13 AM
Damon Gettier
Damon Gettier & Associates, REALTORS- Roanoke Va Short Sale Expert - Roanoke, VA
Broker/Owner ABRM, GRI, CDPE

Good points!  Way too many people take themselves way to seriously!

Nov 24, 2009 04:03 AM
Kerrie La Guardia
ActiveRain, Community Manager - Kirkland, WA
Let it Rain!

Great post BethAnn!  Such simple acts that can make the world of difference to yourself and others around you!  

Nov 24, 2009 04:44 AM
Stephanie Jarman
Realty Executives - Paola, KS
Realtor Kansas City Homes and Land for Sale

What a good reminder. One of the best testimonials I ever received was that I made the process fun...thanks for the refresher!

Nov 24, 2009 05:14 AM
Shannon Harvey
Allstate - Greenville, SC

Good advice. Reminds me of the Always Wear Sunscreen song. Thanks for sharing.

Nov 24, 2009 05:59 AM
Veronica Sandoval
Baird & Warner - La Grange, IL

I love this! What a great post! Thank you for sharing this.

Nov 24, 2009 08:00 AM
Jeani Codrey
RE/MAX Corridor - New Braunfels, TX
Director of Opportunity & Agent Development

Having fun is actually in my mission statement!  I am known for my sense of humor and my fun personality, so it keeps me sane in this crazy business to always make sure everyone around me is having fun.  Case in point...after a really long, hot day of showing waterfront vacation homes to some clients (a couple with two kids in tow), we got to the last house and they were loving it.  We walked down to the water and I kicked of my sandles,  jumped into the lake knee deep and said, you could be doing this here every weekend!  The kids screamed with delight and joined me and the wife said, "I think we better make an offer on this one!"  I love my job!!!

Nov 24, 2009 09:40 AM
BethAnn Long
RE/MAX of Spokane - Spokane, WA
Realtor, CRS, e-PRO, CLHMS Spokane Wa Real Estate

Jeani: You go girl!

Veronica~ you are welcome :)

Shannon- I have not heard that song...better google it NOW!

Stephanie: my pleasure

Damon: for SURE!

Derek: that is the very KEY to this business!

Patricia: Here's to HEALTH!

 

Nov 24, 2009 09:54 AM
BethAnn Long
RE/MAX of Spokane - Spokane, WA
Realtor, CRS, e-PRO, CLHMS Spokane Wa Real Estate

Mary: yes, we are tone-setters!

Nov 24, 2009 09:54 AM
Ted Canto
American Mortgage Network - Chandler, AZ
Arizonan #1 Mortgage Lender

Real Estate can be so stressful and yes.. Mundane..  It is always nice to let the clients know that this can be and really is an exciting process..   The rewards way outweigh the steps..

Nov 24, 2009 10:02 AM
Sharon Parisi
United Real Estate Dallas - Dallas, TX
Dallas Homes

I like the idea that we are tone-setters!  I enjoy all my clients and learn something from every transaction! 

Nov 24, 2009 12:04 PM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
Buy Daytona condos for heavenly good prices

Really not sure. I can only be myself. If usually clicks. And then it works.

I am sure the range of people we can go along with is very wide. Chances of running into a person, who would immediately cause a strong negative chemistry is not great. With them nothing would help. It would end on a bitter note no matter how you try.

With others just being yourself and honest, is what works for me. If there is a comfortable setting and everyone feels good, it makes it fun.

Just jokes, even the best of them, would not compensate for lack of professionalism

Nov 27, 2009 07:15 AM
BethAnn Long
RE/MAX of Spokane - Spokane, WA
Realtor, CRS, e-PRO, CLHMS Spokane Wa Real Estate

Hi Jon, I am not talking about being goofey or unprofessional with clients.

I agree, just being yourself and honest is KEY!

Sharon and Ted, thanks for stopping by! :)

Nov 27, 2009 12:52 PM
Suzanne McLaughlin
Sabinske & Associates, Inc. (Albertville, St. Michael) - Saint Michael, MN
Sabinske & Associates, Realtor

I just found you through Kerrie Greenhalgh, what a gal.  I like to be fun to work with.  Sometimes the agents on the other side are not knowledgeable and work their butts off to be difficult to get the deal done for their clients and mine.  So I try to lighten them up.  Their clients and my clients want the same end.  We need to facilitate and get out of the way.  Make it happen.  Keep your ego for the big things like little league hockey or whatever. 

Mar 05, 2010 01:03 PM