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Are Your Clients "Thinking" And "Hoping"? - Seeing Two Words In A New Light

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Real Estate Agent with Kimberly Howell Properties (210) 646-HOME

A little kid hoping their dreams will come true at the wishing well.

photo courtesy of mollypop

Finally...a connection.

I had a call today from Stacy Jones of The Jones Team in Katy, Texas, we've been trying to connect for awhile now, but today we finally spoke.  It was a conversation about real estate and technology (mostly websites) and I thoroughly enjoyed it.  It's always great connecting with other agents and just sort of bouncing ideas and thoughts back and forth.  The call went on for about an hour and I think we both took away a few things while chatting.  Sometimes in the middle of a conversation about something, a light goes off in my head and I hear something so pure, so true, so right that I jot it down as soon as I can (in this case, it was during the conversation - sorry if I seemed distracted for a moment, Stacy).

Thinking and Hoping - never saw the two so clearly.

I'm not great with quotes, so you'll have to excuse me for paraphrasing (and I hope Stacy won't mind), but the quote went a little something like this:

Your client already thinks you're competent.  They hope you're honest.

It's a pretty simple quote, but when I heard it the bells went off in my head.  I had to think this one through some more (and of course, blog about it).

Thinking you're competent.

When Stacy said "thinking" there was no implied "maybe" or any kind of doubt that you (the agent) might not be competent.  Think about it for a second.  The consumer hires an agent for a reason - they believe, no...they think that we are competent at our jobs.  They may have found out someone wasn't, but they are placed their trust in the fact that you know what you're doing.  They assume you know how to do your job.  They are sure you know the neighborhoods.  They hired you because you're the expert...a professional that does this job day in and day out.  Even if you're new, they know that you know (or will find out) what is needed in order to successfully complete their transaction.

That consumer just placed a lot of faith in you...don't mess with that.  Know your industry and know your job.

Hoping you're honest.

The second half of the quote struck me a bit.  We're all honest right?  That's all a big part of ethics and just being a good agent.  But step out of your shoes and put on the consumers...is the agent honest?  How do you know?  You have no prior proof of their honesty.  You don't know if they lie, cheat, and steal.  You know very little about them, except what they've told you.  What if they lied about all of that?  Although, I sure hope that's not a rampant problem, there's no real way for the consumer to know that right off the bat.  They have to build that trust-relationship with you.  They need to grow into the belief that you are the most honest person they've ever met.  Until then, until you've proven your honesty, they can only hope.

The consumer must hope that you will be absolutely honest with them...don't stand in the way of that.  Demonstrate your honesty through your actions.

I'll probably never hear those two words in the same light ever again.  Stacy's point went on to discuss how we're not selling houses (the house, price, location, etc.) do that.  We are selling our service.  We are selling us.  We want them to pick us over all the other agents.  But that's a post for another day...

The Somers Team
The Somers Team at KW Philadelphia - Philadelphia, PA
Delivering Real Estate Happiness

Matt - Great quote and insight !  Honesty is so crucial to build one's business.  Doing the right thing and being charitable and having goodwill when the times are right really build character and the knowing of your clients how honest of a person they are dealing with.  That, in turn, really helps that client feel comfortable in referring that person as well.  Is sooo important !

Dec 08, 2009 07:36 AM
Matt Stigliano
Kimberly Howell Properties (210) 646-HOME - San Antonio, TX

Chris and Stephanie - I was just really blown away by the idea between them thinking you can do a good job and hoping you'll be honest with them.  They have to already have some sort of sense that you know your industry - otherwise, why did they hire you?  However, they can't 100% know you'll be honest with them - they can hope you will be - but until you show it...it's nothing more than a vague hope.

Dec 08, 2009 07:43 AM
Ty Lacroix
Envelope Real Estate Brokerage Inc - London, ON

Matt

What a thought provoking blog, I'll be like you now when I hear or speak the words thinking and hoping, those words have more meaning now in a different light!

Thanks

Ty

Dec 08, 2009 08:38 AM
Greg Nino
RE/MAX Compass - Houston, TX
Houston, Texas

Matt,

the picture goes well with your post. I often tell my newest buyer's agent the same thing. A consumer doesn't know you are incompetent in most cases until you say or do something otherwise.

Dec 08, 2009 08:48 AM
Richard Weisser
Richard Weisser Realty - Newnan, GA
Richard Weisser Retired Real Estate Professional

Brother Matt...

It's hard to prove to a client that we are competent and honest. All we can do is try our level best to be the person that we want them to be!

Dec 08, 2009 12:27 PM
Jeanna Martinez
RE/MAX Access - Schertz, TX

Matt - This is a great article and you are so right (although it is something we don't really think about much).  I have found exactly the same thing with my new buyers (most of which are first time homebuyers) they have faith in our competence but we often have to prove our honesty! 

Dec 08, 2009 01:51 PM
Steve Shatsky
Dallas, TX

Hi Matt... I love this post for a number of reasons.  First, as Greg pointed out, the picture goes SO well with the text, and second I LOVE the subtleties of words and language.  You captured the spectrum of "Thinking and Hoping" beautifully. 

Dec 08, 2009 01:56 PM
Bill Gillhespy
16 Sunview Blvd - Fort Myers Beach, FL
Fort Myers Beach Realtor, Fort Myers Beach Agent - Homes & Condos

Hi Matt,  Well, this is a very interesting  topic.  Seemed pretty obvious at first read but as you struggled through it to better understand it I was struck by how simple and true it really is.  The division between competency and honesty is laways right

Dec 09, 2009 12:27 AM