It was 1948. 3 years after the war ended and 3 years before I was born. Our neighbors invited my mom my 5-year old brother to their kid's birthday party. In the middle of the party somebody asked my brother what he would do when he grows up.
"When I grow up, I will get a machine gun and tra-ta-ta-ta-ta-ta-ta... kill all the Germans in the world", declared Mark.
Our neighbors were ...Germans. Germans, who lived in Russia since Katherine the Great, but ...Germans. They were exiled to Central Asian republic of Tajikistan by Stalin because they were Germans... It was very awkward. But I can't judge a 5-year old. The word "German" was the same as Nazi, it was used everywhere, in the movies, books, radio... We were saying "Germans came", not Nazi came. "German army", not Nazi army. We hated all German, and my brother Mark just said what he heard everywhere.
During the war my mom was a doctor. In 1943 their military hospital suddenly got several wounded Germans from a nearby front line, and there was no one in the Hospital, who could speak German, and they asked my Jewish mom, who knew Yiddish, so she could easily understand German, to help translate at the interrogation, but the captives yelled "Jude", and spit in her face, and refused to talk... And at night she tried to kill them. She was demoted to captain, but she was not court marshalled...
I can't judge her, she lost her husband (my brother's father), she lost both her parents...
I have not forgotten about any of this. But I do not hate German. The Germans I know and do not know did not kill my grandparents... I do not look at Porsche and see dreaded heavy German tanks "Ferdinand", built by Porsche (That was actually his first name: Ferdinand Porsche)
I drive Mercedes and do not think that during the war Mercedes-Benz was a key to the construction of Nazi Germany's Luftwaffe and war machine. My son drives BMW, which produced motorcycles that you see in the movies, military trucks and engines for planes. I know that my Mercedes has nothing to do with use of slave labor.
We all have to move on. But never forget. I am trying to do both.
Jon,
I think the problem then as now is identifying people by their country or race of origin, as apposed to who they are!
"Our neighbors were ...Germans. Germans, who lived in Russia since Katherine the Great, but ...Germans. They were exiled to Central Asian republic of Tajikistan by Stalin because they were Germans..." Just like today's bigots Stalin was wrong! Katherine lived from 9 July 1762 to 6 November 1796 by WW2 these were Russians!!!!!!!!!!
Personally, I'm an American! Not a schizophrenic hyphenated dysfunctional, ethnic freak. I am a Euro-centrist, there is no other logical explanation for the American miracle! My Great, Great, Great Grandfather Jacques emigrated here from France in 1608, for freedom to practice his religion. Jacques's son Anton was the father of my Great Grandfather Robert Stephen Saxby Archambault, who fathered my Grandfather, William Jennings Bryant Archambault. I'm proud to be William J Archambault Jr named for my father.
I judge people by who they are not accendens of birth! You my friend are an American! If you must hypthane you are an American-by-choice!
Bill
PS: So many of my Michigan friends and clients are Jewish, but I could never understand them driving VW Bugs to college and Mercedes to work! But, the biggest absurdity was promoting gun control!