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Today's Thought: Keeping It All Together In Challenging Times

By
Real Estate Agent with eXp Realty

Being a real estate agent can be quite overwhelming. Burnout can come quickly with all that we have to know do to complete a transaction.  There is just so much information to wade through.  Not to mention that real estate laws, rules and regulations seem to change daily.  Not only do we have to stay abreast of changes in real estate law and ethics, we've got to be on top of changes in the mortgage industry as well.  How do you keep it all together?

Each real estate transaction comes with challenges and no two deals are exactly alike.  We can't possibly attend every training class available nor can we read every available book to help guide us through to a successful career.  But what we can do is learn by doing.  We can welcome each challenge with open arms and recognize that our challenges become our training ground and through that training we build an arsenal of valuable information that will continually help make us trusted experts in our field.

There may be a new and more popular term for information overload, but the concept has not changed.  We've got to know what the mortgage company is doing.  We've got to be mind readers and anticipate the actions, thoughts and requirements of everyone and every entity in our transaction.  It's no wonder we're able to keep our sanity at all.  At some point we've got to realize that we can't and don't know it all and that it is impossible for one human being to know every single aspect for the all encompassing real estate industry (from selling, buying, mortgage, lending, title, appraisals, etc). 

 We simply know what we know but we should never stop seeking information and asking questions when we are not sure.  Where we make our mistake is that we are constantly "on" and rarely take a timeout out or relax and recharge.  It's perfectly okay to do so.  It doesn't mean that we  are not as hard working as the next guy.  In fact, it probably means that you've earned that time to yourself.  You've earned that vacation or that Saturday at home cuddling up to a good book and not showing houses.  Even books about your work can be enjoyable as well as knowledgeable.

Taking time out to take care of yourself is necessary in order for us to serve the public.  After all, we don't work for the government, but we are public servants just the same.

Scott Taylor
Realty Center - Orlando - Ocoee - Orlando, FL
REALTOR

Excellent post Charita, thanks. I think you should make this a public post. I think Realtors are guilty of making our jobs look too easy to the public. We should use Activerain to show them the real story.

Dec 13, 2009 01:33 AM
Emily Medvec
eXp Realty LLC - Santa Fe, NM
Broker | Realtor | Serving Santa Fe & Northern NM

Realtors are human like our customers and clients who often forget we have lives outside of real estate usually because we let them by not being clear about time or how we individually practice real estate.

Setting aside rest and relaxation time each day even if it is for an hour will help bring balance back in you life and go along way in preventing burnout in our very challenging work.

 

Dec 13, 2009 02:28 AM
Charita Cadenhead
eXp Realty - Birmingham, AL
Serving Jefferson and Shelby Counties (Alabama)

Thanks Bob for the comment.  This was a lesson learned the hard way for me.  As for making the post public, I'm learning as I go along so I haven't figure out how to make a post public.  If you can offer some assistance, I think it is woth making it public also.

Dec 13, 2009 12:20 PM
Charita Cadenhead
eXp Realty - Birmingham, AL
Serving Jefferson and Shelby Counties (Alabama)

Very well put Emily.  Don't you just want to scream "stop the clock?"  You make a strong point in that people can only treatCharita us the way we allow them to. 

Dec 13, 2009 12:30 PM
Renee L. Norton
Birmingham, AL

Great post Charita!  I think I'm about due some time to take care of myself!

Dec 14, 2009 11:09 AM
Charita Cadenhead
eXp Realty - Birmingham, AL
Serving Jefferson and Shelby Counties (Alabama)

Hey Renee thanks.  I made another post today that put me in front of a firing squad.  It was very interesting.  You'd be proud of how I handled it.  Love ya and I miss ya.

Dec 14, 2009 11:18 AM
Debbie Gartner
The Flooring Girl - White Plains, NY
The Flooring Girl & Blog Stylist -Dynamo Marketers

Hey girl.  Checking out your first post, and it looks like you were a ntural blogger right from the start.

Dec 19, 2010 08:41 PM
Charita Cadenhead
eXp Realty - Birmingham, AL
Serving Jefferson and Shelby Counties (Alabama)

Hey Debbie thanks. This is called I don't know what to write. But as I have just read it again, it looks like it was a good choice.

Dec 19, 2010 10:55 PM