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8 Characteristics of a Wealthy Woman - Characteristic #7: Confidence*

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Real Estate Agent with Real Living / Home Realty 29202

•    When you have:

•—  Harmony

•—  Balance

•—  Courage

•—  You are Generous

•—  You are Happy

•—  You respect yourself and your property

•—  Risks will translate to opportunities

•—  YOU BELIEVE IN YOURSELF!!!!!!

Are you starting to see how all of these Characteristics build off one another? (see previous blogs for Characteristics 1 - 6)  With increased confidence, you will start to see opportunities where others see obstacles.  You will find yourself stepping out of your comfort zone and taking risks.  You will also find that you are naturally attracting more customers.  People want to be around people who lift them up, not bring them down.

Some people struggle with balance and their new found confidence.  Remember, there is a fine line between self-confidence and cockiness; and being self assured and just plain arrogant.  But, don't' worry.  If you wander into the nether regions of cockiness or arrogance, it won't be long before someone or something will bring you back into reality!  I strongly recommend all of Jeffrey Gitomer's books on selling, networking, etc.  They are easy to read and PACKED with practical information that really works!  You are not on sale!  You are a consummate professional who has invested in your career in order to provide THE BEST service your customer could possibly get.  I am confident of that!  * Based on Suze Orman's book: Women and Money, Owning the Power to Control Your Destiny

Lori Bowers
La Quinta, CA
The Lori Bowers Group

Karen, thank you for this empowering post!

Dec 16, 2009 04:07 AM
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Milly

When you are confident, straight=forward, direct, honest , truthful even if it hurts, yet thoughtful and considerate to your friends, family or customers, it will be impressive and will be a positive asset for you.  Do this and you don't have to remember what you told them before.  Others will have confidence in you and listen to your advice.

Dec 16, 2009 03:11 PM
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