What is the most tactful way to say "I don't want to exchange presents this year"?

I've also seen families draw names so that each person is only buying for one other person.  That way you can still give and get gifts as a family but it doesn't have to break the bank.

  A few years ago we decided to stop being the "honorary Aunt and Uncle" to the entire neighborhood...to hear things like..."You can go home now..." "This isn't what I wanted.
  Since parents apparently did not bother to teach their children manners or discipline....we sent a card saying that there were many unfortunate children in the area...and we had (and did...and still do) made a donation in their names to __________(name the charity). Whether you take a dollar a person or a can of vegetables per present...make it count for someone who needs and appreciates it...Hope summer comes on a weekend this year for you folks...I am a River Falls Grad and my brother graduated from Stout...brrrrrrr.

Drawing names is a great way to get a handle on Holiday "overspending".  I've heard of many instances this year where people intend to cut-back in this manner.  I think it's a great idea.  In additiona to this, our family has all decided to throw some money into a "kitty" that will be used to adopt a family through the local Salvation Army office. 

Drawing names works very well, or you could just really piss them off and they won't want to even to talk to you, no less buy a gift  LOL

lol at Gerry!   

 I think many of us have been in this situation and this year especially! 

 Personally, I tend to agree with Sally and David.   Find a charity and make a donation in the name of whomever it is.  Make up certificates that state that a donation was given in their name and give them the certificate.  This way, you can give whatever is affordable to you, you are giving to those less fortunate and the original recipient can do whatever they want. Add to it or just say "thankyou"!!

How would you feel if someone donated to a charity in your name for your Holiday present? To me that is the true Spirit of the Holidays!

Of course if you simply cannot afford to give anything, just tell them the truth. Last year I had to "cancel" Xmas due to an event beyond my control. I just explained and everyone was fine with it. If they are not fine with it, then I would reassess to whom I am giving gifts to!  Happy Holidays!

Another idea if you like working in the kitchen is making baked goods as gifts...one year, I baked a variety of Christmas cookies and gave everyone a homemade goodie tin! :)

Leilani

We have done the pulling of names for the past three years and it seems to work out great. Especially with a big family such as ours.