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Write Your Life: It's a Journey to be Remembered

By
Real Estate Agent with eXp Realty

My favorite times of the day occur when I wake up in the middle of the night and the first 30 minutes in Charitathe morning before I get out of bed to start my day.  Why these 2 times?  Because my thoughts are more clear during these times than any other time during the day.  In the middle of the night I look back on yesterday and journal my thoughts, actions and feelings.  I write down what I'd like to happen during the day that is upon me and all of the things that I am grateful for.

The first 30 minutes before I get out of bed (if I'm not running late); I like to spend that time setting the tone for my day with spiritual reading, writing, reflection and thanksgiving.

 

Journaling:  It's our life on paper and well worth the effort.  Write your life one day at a time. 

Two-thousand ten (2010) is here already.  Where did time go?  So much can happen during the course of a year that it can sometimes be difficult to keep track of it all.  I don't just mean our world of real estate.  That's the easy part to track.  After all we are in a business where documentation is required for everything.  But what about the other areas of our lives?  How well documented is it?  You know, things like:

  1. What are you most grateful for?
  2. How you felt the moment your children or grandchildren walked into the living room and saw all of the toys and presents under the tree (and the expressions on their faces)Tristan
  3. Did you have any times during the year where you felt like you've come full circle
  4. If you set personal goals last year, do you recall when you realized that you had achieved each of  them and how you felt at that moment?
  5. What about that vacation with family and friends.  Yeah, yeah, yeah that vacation is probably well photographed, but feelings can only be expressed in words
  6. Don't you just want to be able to replay those feel good moments at just the right times especially when you need a boost?
  7. Life does not come without losses and sometimes a price to pay.  Those can be sad and lonely occasions, but they can spark life changing events that set you on a new course (in loving memory of Warren H. Brown, Jr.).  Keep a track of what started it all (good, bad, happy and sad).
  8. There are so many moments that bring us tears, laughter, pure joy, hope and a bevy of other feelings, emotions and memories to be cherished and passed along

Commit to personal journaling and write your life one day at a time. 

Dana Couch-Davis
Kendall Haney Realty Group - Memphis, TN
CRS, GRI, ABR, SRES

Charita I enjoy those things too.  Just a little time to reflect on life and the life ahead of us.

Jan 01, 2010 08:56 PM
Gita Bantwal
RE/MAX Centre Realtors - Warwick, PA
REALTOR,ABR,CRS,SRES,GRI - Bucks County & Philadel

It is a great idea. Our children and grand children will treasure it some day.

Jan 01, 2010 08:56 PM
Charita Cadenhead
eXp Realty - Birmingham, AL
Serving Jefferson and Shelby Counties (Alabama)

Dana and Gita I first started keeping journals of some sort about 15 years ago.  It is just incredible to be able to look back over your life and see how far you've come and what you've been able to endure to make you stronger.  And it creates a legacy for our kids (think Bridges of Madison County and The Notebook).

Jan 01, 2010 09:26 PM
Norma J. Elkins
Elite Realty Group - Morristown, TN
Realtor - Elkins Home Selling Team

I am writing in my journal this year --- I love to go back and read - good luck to you!

Jan 01, 2010 09:54 PM
Charita Cadenhead
eXp Realty - Birmingham, AL
Serving Jefferson and Shelby Counties (Alabama)

Thank you and the best of luck to you in 2010.  Be prosperous!

Jan 01, 2010 10:03 PM
Rob Thomas
Prestige Homes of The Tri Cities, Inc. CALL....423-341-6954 - Bristol, TN
Bristol TN-VA & Tri Cities Agent, ABR, GRI, e-Pro

Charita...I've always wanted to do this but just never took the time...maybe this is the year!

Jan 02, 2010 12:39 AM
Charita Cadenhead
eXp Realty - Birmingham, AL
Serving Jefferson and Shelby Counties (Alabama)

Rob it only takes a few minutes a day to write down your thoughts whatever they may be (just like Active Rain except it's more of a personal journey).  It is very rewarding so I hope you get a chance to do some journaling this year (even a little is better than none at all). 

Dana, Gita, Norma and Rob I hope all of your New Year's goals will be met.

Jan 02, 2010 12:58 AM
Ann Allen Hoover
RE/MAX Advantage South - Hoover, AL
CDPE SRES ASP e-PRO Realtor - Homes for Sale - AL

Hi Charita, this time last year I started a Gratitude Journal and try to write in it everyday.  It helps me get away from negative vibes.

Jan 02, 2010 01:22 AM
Ann Allen Hoover
RE/MAX Advantage South - Hoover, AL
CDPE SRES ASP e-PRO Realtor - Homes for Sale - AL

I just noticed your blog header!  That's a great view of our city!

Jan 02, 2010 01:24 AM
Matthew Naumann
Exit Realty Charleston Group - Goose Creek, SC
Goose Creek, SC Real Estate Agent

Charita,

Great Post. I have tried in the past and this year I need to make it a habit. 

Thanks for sharing,

Matt Naumann

 

Jan 02, 2010 02:48 AM
Charita Cadenhead
eXp Realty - Birmingham, AL
Serving Jefferson and Shelby Counties (Alabama)

Ann you are absolutely right about getting away from the negative vibes through writing.  It is very calming.  As for the blog header; I was riding around the other night and I just noticed the skyline in a way that I hadn't noticed in a long time.  It's beautiful isn't it. 

Matt it's an easy habit to start and if you stop for a while it's okay because you can pick it back up at anytime because life still happens.  Thanks.

Jan 02, 2010 04:03 AM
Diane Williams
Pell City, AL

I haven't written down my life but I have written down the milestones in my sons. Great suggestion!

Jan 03, 2010 06:40 AM
Charita Cadenhead
eXp Realty - Birmingham, AL
Serving Jefferson and Shelby Counties (Alabama)

Diane your sons' milestones are equally as important to the journey.  I'll bet some of your life in entertwined in there somewhere.  Keep writing.  It's also therapeutic:).

Jan 03, 2010 07:16 AM
Sidney Kutchuk - Realty Works Temecula Kutchuk - Realty Works Temecula
Realty Works Temecula - Temecula, CA
Realty Works Temecula

Charita: Very well put and I believe we can learn and improve ourselves by thinking about these things! 

Jan 04, 2010 06:04 AM
Charita Cadenhead
eXp Realty - Birmingham, AL
Serving Jefferson and Shelby Counties (Alabama)

Thanks Jane.   I know I am always open to new lessos and opportunities to improve.  Particularly with the busy lives we lead.

Jan 04, 2010 06:17 AM
Barrie Clulow
My Time Is My Own - Uxbridge, ON

Charita - I am an occasional on again off again type of person when it come to journal writing but I know what ever I leave behind will be treasured by my children and their children and that is as it should be.

Jan 04, 2010 02:53 PM
Charita Cadenhead
eXp Realty - Birmingham, AL
Serving Jefferson and Shelby Counties (Alabama)

Barrie I can just imagine our kids reading our journals in future and rediscovering us.  It will be awesome.  I hope the writing is "on" again.

Jan 04, 2010 05:11 PM
Kate Elim
Dockside Realty - Spotsylvania, VA
Realtor 540-226-1964, Selling Homes & Land a

Hi Charita...One of these days I will get around to keeping a journal.  It is something that I often think about starting and then do not do.  At 72 I have so much catching up to do.  I keep thinking that when I have memories of something I should just jot it down.  That would be a good beginning.

I tend to take many photos and believe that in many ways I am leaving behind a visual journal.  However, there are many things that have happened in my life that I do not have pictures of and those, especially, are the things I should jot down.

Kate

Jan 05, 2010 10:12 AM
Charita Cadenhead
eXp Realty - Birmingham, AL
Serving Jefferson and Shelby Counties (Alabama)

Kate I never would have guessed 72 (great genes).  I just turned 50 on the 27th of December and somedays I can hardly remember my name.  Photos do provide a visual journal and cannot be discounted, but words have so much power and emotion and can compliment your photojournal.  You don't even have to do it every day.  Thanks for stopping by.

Jan 05, 2010 10:26 AM