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Teaching is just like being a Realtor

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Real Estate Agent with HomeSmart Realty West CalBRE #01458572

My owner is a Realtor with Century 21 Award in San Diego.Itshak Perlman is coming to San Diego this coming weekend. More importantly, he's bringing his violin with him, and even more important than that is that he's going to play his violin in a recital open to the public.

Perlman is one of my four favorite violints, the others being Joshua Bell, Yehudi Menuhin, and Isaac Stern. Tickets range from $30 to $300, and a certain someone in this household, who grew up playing the violin, was able to get us tickets to go see him play his violin.

Itzhak PerlmanPerlman is 64 now and spends a lot of time teaching and mentoring young students. I was reading the preview in the paper — and we don't usually get previews in the paper — and one thing that Perlman said about teaching struck home:

  • Teaching is not just saying what you think, but how you say it. Do you say it with kindness? Do you give constructive criticism? How does the student feel at the end of the lesson.

It's pretty easy to transfer that to real estate:

  • Being a Realtor is not just saing what you think, but how you say it. Do you say it with kindness? Do you give constructive criticism? How does the Client feel at the end of escrow?

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Jim Frimmer, Realtor
Century 21 Award Mission Valley
California DRE License #01458572
619-729-5701
jimfrimmer@century21award.com
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Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
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Jim,

i stopped by to say a couple of (wise) words and run, and was caught by the music, and spend way more than 6 min it takes for the piece...

I was at his performance here in Daytona. It was a pleasure...

Also, he sometimes utteres afew words, and with his incredible sense of humor, you have the audience burst in laughter.

I envy you... in a good way

Jan 18, 2010 03:11 PM
Gary Coles (International Referrals)
Venture Realty International - Las Vegas, NV
Latin America Real Estate

Jim,  I'm thrilled that you will get to see his performance.  I'm glad that you included the short video so at least I got a sample of what you will be enjoying.  Hope you have a great time.

Jan 18, 2010 03:14 PM
Darren Revell
Keller Williams Realty Temecula Valley - Temecula, CA

thank you for the sample.. have a great time...

Jan 18, 2010 04:21 PM
Terry Chenier
Homelife Glenayre Realty - Mission, BC

Jim,

Great post. You get to see him in person? Good for you.

Jan 18, 2010 04:35 PM
Janice Roosevelt
Keller Williams Brandywine Valley - West Chester, PA
OICP ABR, ePRO,Ecobroker
Jim: What a delight to hear this first thing in the morning. It is so true about hearing HOW something is said before WHAT.
Jan 18, 2010 10:40 PM
Suzanne McLaughlin
Sabinske & Associates, Inc. (Albertville, St. Michael) - Saint Michael, MN
Sabinske & Associates, Realtor

Jim, Nice analogy.  I'm sending you something later that you might enjoy!  I love Perlman, as well. 

Jan 18, 2010 11:47 PM
Betina Foreman
WJK Realty - Austin, TX
Realtor, C.N.E., with WJK REALTY
So Zoey plays the violin?!? Quite a talented kitty to be sure! I hope you and Russel enjoy the show! ;)
Jan 19, 2010 01:27 AM
Carra Riley & Declan Kenyon
Brokers Guild Cherry Creek Ltd - Westminster, CO
Helping people Transition at all ages!

Jim...What a nice surprise to go to his concert.  I agree that it is more important how you say something than what you actually say.  Have a great time.

Cosmic Cow

Jan 19, 2010 02:01 AM
Matt Grohe
RE/MAX Concepts - Des Moines, IA
Serving the metro since 2003
JIm: Great violin piece and nice post. Question is how'd that cat arrange to get you tickets?
Jan 22, 2010 03:45 PM
Eldon Hendrix
Hendrix and sons Home Inspections - Holiday, FL

Great post Jim.  Enlightening analogy about the teaching.  I'm sure the recital is one of a lifetime.  Have a great week.

Eldon

Jan 27, 2010 12:03 AM
Jim Frimmer
HomeSmart Realty West - San Diego, CA
Realtor & CDPE, Mission Valley specialist

Hey, everyone.

Thanks for stopping by and commenting.

I have read all the comments, but since this post is rather old, rather than making comments here in my post to each and every one of you, I'll just let everyone know that I have read all the comments and if there are any questions, I'll answer those. Otherwise I'll simply post this comment and then head over to your blogs soon to visit and do some reading and commenting. I hope you'll have a nice welcome mat out for me!

I'm still fighting to get an escrow closed that was supposed to close last week. As soon as I get everyone to jump through all these hoops, I hope to get back to being more regular here at ActiveRain rather than waiting until the weekend to do all my posts and reciprocal comments.

Don't forget to let your cat come out to play with all the other ActiveRain kitties. Your cat-friendly dogs can come, too!

If you need a great cat book, get yourself a copy of Peg Silloway's The Cat Lover's Book of Days.

Hope all is well with everyone.

Mar 19, 2010 12:42 PM