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Blame Your Life On This Chromosone or How To Understand Patterns

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Real Estate Agent with Keller Williams Realty 0575737

You'll talk to some women and especially from what their fathers told them early on that little Samantha should have been a Sam. Or Jacqueline should have been a Jack. Talk about getting an inferiority complex right out the chute. Did you know maybe you have MEN to blame for this mixup after all?

PatternIn basic genetics the male has XY chromosones and the female has XX chromosones.Therefore the occurrence or absence of that Y chromosone determines the sex of the offspring as the two come together and form either a new XX or new XY. There you have it, something else to blame the man for again.

But the patterns of our lives work the same way. All the things we do for a period of time, then we change, and we do something else. Some people have MASSIVELY COMPARTMENTALIZED lives and you wouldn't recognize them from one period to another. Different husbands, jobs, interests, likes and dislikes. But guess what the big PATTERN in the new pattern that makes sense of it all?

Y

It is that dang Y again

Although this time we would say you behave the way you do in the pattern and groove you are in because of your own personal

                     Y or WHY.

Understand the WHY of what you are doing and what you are doing will make sense.

Blame your gender on those men, those fathers of ours, but understand yourself with the WHY that is behind what you are doing with your life.

Comments (12)

Lyn Sims
Schaumburg, IL
Real Estate Broker Retired

How very true! Good post.

Jan 20, 2010 09:21 AM
Mandy Buchholz
Benchmark Realty, LLC - Murfreesboro, TN

Hello Gary or Garletta which is it. I like how you ended the why controversy or is it the Y. I had lots of fun reading this thank you.

 

Jan 20, 2010 09:27 AM
Mara Hawks
First Realty Auburn - Auburn, AL
Inactive-2012 REALTOR - Homes for Sale Auburn Real Estate, AL

What a beautiful quilt...LIFE portrayed in stitches is always a labor of Love and a work of heART...it seems when you are doing work that you absolutely love, the "Y" is never a question at all, because the answer is in the endless JOY... Cheers Gary ;-)

Jan 20, 2010 10:24 AM
Steve Shatsky
Dallas, TX

Hi Gary... the "why" is self awareness, and it's a gift that many people seem to be lacking.  It takes work getting there, but is worth the effort!

Jan 20, 2010 11:12 AM
Christine Bohn
RE/MAX Professionals - Gainesville, FL
The Bohn Team, Gainesville FL

One's "WHY" is very important.  Why do I choose what I do, what I say??  It's being aware of who we are and WHAT paths we choose in life.  Thanks Gary!

Jan 20, 2010 11:29 AM
Jo-Anne Smith
Oakville, ON

Gary,

As the saying goes ' where ever I go, there i am'.

Jo

Jan 20, 2010 12:01 PM
Linda Greco Rich, ABR, SRES
Exit Preferred Realty - Bel Air, MD
Harford County Specialist

Gary,

And have the courage to change it if you don't like where you are.

Jan 20, 2010 12:21 PM
Don Wixom
RE/MAX Executives Nampa, ID - Nampa, ID
"Looking out for your next move..."tm

I have gone to find myself, if I return before I get back, please keep me here...

Jan 20, 2010 02:58 PM
Not a real person
San Diego, CA

And occasionally your mom or dad greets you each morning not with "Good morning. How did you sleep?" but instead with "You'll never amount to a thing." Some make it, some don't. Y?

Jan 20, 2010 08:16 PM
Eileen Hsu
Douglas Elliman Real Estate - Manhattan, NY
LICENSED REAL ESTATE SALESPERSON

This is a cute post! Hey, who decides on the Y chromosones? Not us ladies! :)

Jan 20, 2010 11:25 PM
Liz Moras Migic
Chilliwack, BC
Chilliwack, British Columbia - Realtor

sometimes its good to know the 'y' - other times it's just best to 'x' it ;)

Jan 21, 2010 03:46 PM
Georgie Hunter R(S) 58089
Hawai'i Life Real Estate Brokers - Haiku, HI
Maui Real Estate sales and lifestyle info

What a creative post!  Only you could take some crafty pictures like these and make it about x and y chromosomes!

Jan 25, 2010 08:51 AM