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Buyers: It's Time to Stop... Look ...and... Listen

By
Real Estate Agent with Real Estate West BRE# 701315

 

 If you want to buy a house the best thing you can do is slow down.   I know that sounds a bit strange in a market that is slow..but if you  really want to buy then you need to focus on those things that will help you accomplish the goal. 

Too often buyers are scurrying around looking at open houses, talking to their friends about the market, reading media items and just generally doing everything but thinking about what they need to do and the best way to do it.   If you really want to be a homeowner then you need a plan.

7 things you need to do to buy a home:

1.  Gather all your financial documents together.. that's bank accounts, stocks, check stubs, birthday money from Aunt Jane and Uncle Harry... anything that has a bearing on your finances.

2.  Find a good lender and talk to them about the various types of mortgages, interest rates, the costs of the loan and your credit.  If your credit is bad find out what you must do to repair it.  If you need to save another $100 a month then figure out how many lattes you can't have..  Get your financial house in order before you look at one more open house.

3. Find a good agent.  Call your friends and ask for referrals.  Go to open houses and talk with agents.  Get on the internet and check out agent websites and blogs.  Pick someone who shares information... a lot of information with clients on their sites and in person.  Remember how much you loved your kindergarten teacher because of all the things you learned.... you should like your agent just like that...  for the same reason.

4. Look at property.  Be ready to meet with your agent if they tell you a great property has come on the market in your price range.  If you are  too busy going out with your friends or are just too tired or  not in the mood  to see homes then you might not be ready to buy. Buying a home is a grown-up decision.. if you aren't ready to grow up.. pass until you are ready.

5.  Figure out why you want to buy a house.  If you plan on making a quick buck and selling for a profit in a year then you are not very realistic and may wind up in trouble in the future.  You don't want to be like the idiot flipper who ran off to Australia after bilking lenders out of millions .. what a jerk.   Remember buying is a grown- up decision..if you see a home as shelter for you and your family and as a long term investment that you are willing to make a few sacrifices to obtain.. now just might be a good time to buy.. depending of course  on your market.

6. Be realistic.. start with a property you can afford.. which may not be the one you dream of owning..  Too many buyers want their first home to be the one their parents finally wound up owning after many years..  Don't be house poor.. that just silly. 

7. Listen to your agent not your buddies or co-workers.  If you don't trust what the agent tells you then you need to find an agent you do trust.  Your friends are not in real estate.. they don't know the market.   Your real estate agent  knows the market and will guide you if you pay a bit of attention.. Remember the kindergarten teacher.. she was wise and loving and taught you everything you need to know..or at least that's what the book says..

I know there are a lot of people who don't think this is the time to buy and it may not be for them.  But if you are ready then do it.  Believe me trying to time the market is almost impossible.  Generally by the time you figure out it's time to buy .. the best deals will be gone. 

 

Kaye Thomas
Real Estate West - Manhattan Beach, CA
e-PRO, Manhattan Beach CA

Jeff- It's all common sense.. it's just hard sometimes to get buyers to listen.. It was fun.. I like that place..

Freddy- You bet you will have him as a client forever..Most people want good advice from their agents.. if it means they need to wait .. they will .. no one wants to wind up in foreclosure..

Charles- There is so much negative  stuff out there about our business and agents that sometimes it's hard for buyers to fully trust an agent.. but once they know you are being a straight shooter with them they will follow you anywhere.. We have to earn their trust by our actions.

George- Thanks.. I will post this after the contest but I think one of the rules is that it must stay exclusively within the Carnival until the contest is over..

Tim- Don't you just love it..  had a buyer the other day who brought a friend who was visiting from the mid-west.. told her not to buy here in CA but to go back to Ohio and buy lots of property that he would manage for her and she would do much better... Right.. Ohio the hottest market in town... No offense  intended Maureen..

Sally & David-  Perfect... I couldn't have said it better...

Beth- I'm not sure where that one popped up from.. but it made sense at the time..

Jul 14, 2007 12:13 PM
Kaye Thomas
Real Estate West - Manhattan Beach, CA
e-PRO, Manhattan Beach CA

TLW-

And just what kind of learning experiences did you have in mind?  LOL...  I'm betting she's very good if she works for you..

K

Jul 14, 2007 12:17 PM
Mike Fotiou
First Place Realty - Calgary, AB
Calgary & Area Real Estate
Thanks for your list.  Too many buyers go about it the wrong way and do #1, #2 after they find a house they like...
Jul 14, 2007 12:33 PM
Ann Cummings
RE/MAX Shoreline - NH and Maine - Portsmouth, NH
Portsmouth NH Real Estate Preferrable Agent

Kaye - this is a great post and I love the 7 items you listed in this post.  That's exactly what they need to sit down and pay attention to, especially items 6 & 7.  #7 is CRUCIAL!!  All those people mean well, but they certainly aren't the ones that are going to be either living in that house, making those mortgage payments, or crying about it because they listened to too many 'other' people and not their agent, and they LOST that house because of it.  That is always such a shame when that happens, but when it does, it can be a very good lesson they learned.

Ann

Jul 14, 2007 12:51 PM
Kaye Thomas
Real Estate West - Manhattan Beach, CA
e-PRO, Manhattan Beach CA

Mike- Everyone wants to look at open houses as that's the fun stuff.. but doing the other things will make it so you can buy a house.

Ann-I also think that #6 & #7 are the key.. you have to be smart about what you should be buying and you need to listen to the person who is in the real estate trenches everyday 

Jul 14, 2007 01:58 PM
Irina Netchaev
Pasadena Views Real Estate Team, Inc. - Pasadena, CA
Pasadena CA Real Estate
Kaye, excellent information for the consumer.  Great steps for buyers to take.
Jul 14, 2007 02:29 PM
Kaye Thomas
Real Estate West - Manhattan Beach, CA
e-PRO, Manhattan Beach CA
Irina- Thanks.. I think buyers always do better with a plan.. and I think I may transfer this to my website as a report for Buyers..
Jul 14, 2007 03:03 PM
Mitchell J Hall
Manhattan, NY
Lic Associate RE Broker - Manhattan & Brooklyn
Great post Kaye. I would like to send this article to a few buyers especially number 7. I have been working with couples who have mothers that know everything.
Jul 14, 2007 03:38 PM
Kaye Thomas
Real Estate West - Manhattan Beach, CA
e-PRO, Manhattan Beach CA
Mitchell- Please feel free to borrow it if you like..  It doesn't matter where you are located # 7 seems to top the list for all of us..
Jul 14, 2007 03:42 PM
Suzanne Sands
Pavao Real Estate - Somerset, MA
Somerset MA Real Estate

Kaye,

I also love the kindergarten teacher analogy, great tips! :)

Jul 14, 2007 04:48 PM
Wayne McMullan
Royal LePage ProAlliance Realty - Belleville, ON
Quinte Real Estate
Kaye, I agree with you 100%. When Buyers can slow down and take the necessary steps, they will end up with a home they can feel good about. Granted, some Buyers don't have the luxury of time but when they do they will become more knowledgeable and make the right decisions.
Jul 15, 2007 02:45 AM
Kaye Thomas
Real Estate West - Manhattan Beach, CA
e-PRO, Manhattan Beach CA

Suzanne- Kindergarten teachers are amazing people.. most are very patient and caring about their kids and teach a variety of skills to kids who never realize they are being taught so much..

Wayne-It's not so much slowing down physically as it is slowing down mentally..it really is more about organization then anything else..

Jul 15, 2007 03:33 AM
Monika McGillicuddy
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Verani Realty - Hampstead, NH
Southern NH & the Seacoast Area

Kaye

Excellent pointers for all buyers! I especially agree with # 7!!!! Trust is the key. 

Jul 15, 2007 03:46 AM
Kaye Thomas
Real Estate West - Manhattan Beach, CA
e-PRO, Manhattan Beach CA
Monika-We all know there are some bad agents out there who only care about the $.. but most agents really care about their clients and want to help them find the home that is right for them.. I don't know anything about making widgets but I do know a lot about real estate
Jul 15, 2007 04:04 AM
Neal Bloom
Brokered by eXp Realty LLC - Weston, FL
Realtor CRS-Weston FL Real Estate

Kay,

I see so many misinformed buyers who might be killing their own deals based on the decisions they are making.

It's a good time to buy but the buyers need to know that the market will swallow them up if they cannot hold or rent to compensate the down market. There is not much in flipping now a days.

Jul 15, 2007 05:20 AM
Kaye Thomas
Real Estate West - Manhattan Beach, CA
e-PRO, Manhattan Beach CA
Neal- Information is King!  This is a good time for buying in many markets.. we never had much flipping in my area which I suspct is one of the reasons our market has held up so well.. buyers need to get away from the idea that real estate is a short term investment where they can make fast $$.. It never has been and it never will.. Real estate can be very lucrative but it's long term.. once in awhile you an make a quick buck but that's the exception not the rule. 
Jul 15, 2007 05:52 AM
Steven L. Smith
King of the House Home Inspection, Inc. - Bellingham, WA
Bellingham WA Home Inspector
Good advice. It seems that sometimes people see a house, get in a dither, and then have blinders on. Gee, it has termites....no biggie we will have all the crawl space replaced. Their fantasies get in the way of facts.
Jul 15, 2007 05:55 AM
Kaye Thomas
Real Estate West - Manhattan Beach, CA
e-PRO, Manhattan Beach CA
Steven- It's tough being a buyer and making such a huge committment in terms of money and responsibility.. ofteh the fantasy is very different from the reality.. That's where we can help them..
Jul 15, 2007 10:18 AM
Danielle V. Lewis
DDR Realty - Newburgh, NY
DDR Realty
This is an important checklist that first-time buyers should have. I hope all become as well informed as possible.
Aug 03, 2007 12:24 AM
Kaye Thomas
Real Estate West - Manhattan Beach, CA
e-PRO, Manhattan Beach CA
Danielle- The better informed buyers are.. the easier it is for them to reach their goal of buying a home.. thank you for reading and commenting..
Aug 03, 2007 02:35 AM