sunshineHow often do you hear that?  This is a "once in a lifetime" whatever- deal, chance, event, feeling, opportunity.  And what do you always do when you hear that phrase?  You agree.  Because it's true.  It really is, most likely, something that will only happen once.

Why was I thinking about this today?  I don't know.  I was cruising along in my minivan (yeah, yeah, I know....) alone, for once.  I had the radio on and the windows down and a song came on that was talking vaguely about once in a lifetime chances.  I was in a good mood.  I'm still in a good mood.

And I thought about that idea... once in a lifetime.  And I thought about how great it is that every day is a once in a lifetime opportunity.  It is a chance for me to:

  • be a good mother to my children.
  • enjoy the relationship I have with my loving and supportive husband.
  • breathe fresh air, enjoy the sunshine, and smell the roses.
  • help someone buy the home of their dreams.
  • help someone sell a home so that they can buy the home of their dreams.
  • listen to a friend in need.

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I have the opportunity to make every day my "once in a lifetime" day.  How lucky can you get, right?  Every day has the potential to be the day I will remember for the rest of my life.  Of course, I will not remember each day I spend for the rest of my life.  But I will remember a collection of them.  I can remember that these months, or years, were happy and productive, even if  the individual days fade into the background.

Besides, maybe tomorrow will be the day I remember for the rest of my life.  When I wake up in the morning, I'm going to prepare for that.  And if tomorrow isn't it, maybe the next day will be.  I know one thing for sure: when my once in a lifetime day comes, I'm going to be ready for it.  I'm going to be expecting it.

Besides, you get what you expect, right?  So, are you going to be looking for your once in a lifetime day tomorrow?  And if it comes, will you be ready for it?

 

16 Comments on Once in a Lifetime...

JUL
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2007
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Christina,

Nice motivational post - you are so right about being a mother - they grow up so fast.  It seems like my kids were toddlers just yesterday!

As a side note, most of the "once in a lifetime" chances people offer me now are ways to separate me from my money!  I have almost become numb to that particular phrase. 

8:46pm • #1
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Rita- You're right!  The very phrase makes me a little uneasy because it is so overused in the wrong way.  Thanks for the comment and have a great day tomorrow!
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Christina, what a heart felt post, you added it to the right group. So many times we take life for granted, our kids for granted and our husbands. YOu have such a positive attitude toward it and articulated it so well.
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I long ago realized that life is way to short to trip on things and best to utilize my time to enjoy. Humans tend to take a lot of things forgranted. (like when my electricity went out two nights ago)
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Christina - what a beautiful post - it's important to always remind ourselves of this. Have a great weekend.
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2007
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Christina, it really is important to truly enjoy those "once in a lifetime" moments, even when they happen every day! Rolling your windows down?   Syracuse must be quite a bit cooler than many of the areas up there!  My brother in Michigan was telling me it was quite hot the other day.
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such a positive message - should take you into a positive week - keep on singing and having great moments that lead to great days
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Christina,

What a lovely post, you've brought a smile to my face and a very long day, thank you for that. Sure sounds to me like you have your priorities straight! Btw, you remind me of my daughter, she's a wonderful young woman with 2 small children, and you have the same name, Christina.

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Missy- Thank you.  I really try to remember all the good things every day!

Sally- Yes, it is easy to forget what we have that's great when we are always striving for something more.

Cyndee- Thanks!  You have a wonderful weekend too.

Chris- Yes, it was a beautiful day here in Syracuse yesterday.  Low eighties with sun... plus, I like to roll the windows down whenever the kids aren't in the car because they don't like the wind!

Thesa- Thank you very much.  I am looking forward to great week.

Lynda- Wow- that's interesting that your daughter has the same name and everything!  I hope you have a better day tomorrow!

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Christina--Thanks for the beautiful reminder to stop and smell the roses everyday!
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Christina, this is an amazing post.  The day is mostly what we make it. I try to start my day off right and make it good.  And of course spend some time with my special little ones that like you said, grow up very quick.  I can't believe my daughter is already 10! 
10:56am • #11
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Teri- Thanks for reading.  I hope you find some wonderful roses today.

Stephanie- Thank you very much.  The days do fly by so quickly.  Grab some while you can!

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Good post. However, as far as media goes, most once in a lifetime offers are trivial stuff. A once in the lifetime chance to get a burger at such a low price. A once in a lifetime chance to fly to Reno at half price.
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Christina, Such a nice post to read before I start my day. Today and everyday is going to be my "once in a lifetime" day. Here I go.
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Christina - truer words were never written. Cyndee and I have been married 21 years next week and we waited to have our boys - being my second time around I never take for granted how fast it all goes by.  
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2007
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Christina - I love hearing your kids are TOP PRIORITY and your HUSBAND is right up there too!!  You seem to enjoy the SIMPLE THINGS which make the bigger things extra special when they roll around!  YOU GO GIRL!!!  Thanks for sharing a smile and happy thought on a Monday morning!! 
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