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37 Comments on Blue Tuesday in Georgia.
You're right, both sides are at fault, and it is my experience that many overextended homeowners like to play the victim. But it is still sad.
Elva I am so sorry for you and that family. For sincere home owners fighting to maintain their home and dignity I can only imagine the tremendous damage done to the mind and relationships of the adults and worse yet if there are children involved.
It's especially hard to understand with a viable offer in hand that the bank wouldn't work with you and them rather than have it go into foreclosure where more than likely the bank will lose even more.
There are many to blame and unfortunately what had created the housing "boom" has now created the "bust" with many more foreclosures coming. Sad, Sad and more Sad.
I agree with Jennifer that these transactions can take a heavy toll on you but with many successes under your belt you have a lot to be proud of.
Sue of Robin and Sue
It definitely is a blue Tuesday, and I understand the frustration. Here we have sales each week day.
Hi Elva -- So sad. In the rare case when I can't help a seller achieve success, even when I know there was nothing I could have done to change the outcome, it affects me for a bit as I take this business seriously and when I see the impact to the seller, it's just hard to accept.
Elva:
Today I was on the opposite side of the same situation. It was Foreclosure sale Tuesday here in Texas, too!. I had 10 days to stop the sale and I got it done. We have a month reprieve and time to sell the home.
I'm sorry you couldn't help your client, but you did your best. They were lucky to have a dedicated agent who really cared.
The emotional toil can sometimes get to you, especially if you allow yourself to care and get involved emotionally with the clients.
I am a CDPE as well, and the calls that come in -- the hopeless situations -- can really get you down.
Hey Elva, what mattered most was where your heart was in this situation. You did you best for your clients and that is all that matters. Keep your head up!
Elva,
I am so sorry for your clients.....and although I have never been in your situation....I can only imagine the absolute frustration....you have done YOUR best....hang in there...sounds like lots of folks could really use your expertise....and with each transaction we learn more and more how to help our clients....
Yes, there is plenty of blame to go around & I have spewed my share of venom about this situation over the last 2 years in lots of directions. But, at the heart of this disaster are PEOPLE with lives, jobs (or jobs lost), children, aging parents, cats & dogs, and DREAMS. That is the cost, the devastation and the heartbreak and no matter who is to blame the result is the same.
Thanks to all the REALTORS out there who care enough to try to help...
Elva, That's a tough situation. You have to know that you've done your best. Those folks were blessed to have you going up to bat for them. Hang in there. Unfortunately, you won't win every battle.
Great post Elva! That fact that you're sad about your client's situation shows that you actually care about them!
Lawrence Yun, the Chief Economist at NAR raised another point of view. How many of us Realtors are guilty because we convinced our clients to "buy just a little bit bigger home?"
Elva, Think of all the people you have been able to help. We as Realtors can only do so much, but you have done so much in the pass. I chuckle when a friend says, "It must be so much fun driving people around and seeing cool houses." They do not realize we are social workers, financial planners, and most of all "mothers" to those we work with.
I'm overwhelmed by these responses. What an outpouring of support! I do appreciate you all.
Elva, Hang in there, you did the best you could! It doesn't always work out, some lenders are better to work with than others. I have found that people always want just a little more house/nicer house, etc. than they can afford..... IF you borrow up to the limit the banks allow it leaves NO room for any emergencies!
You did your best and that is all a person can ask. We need more people that care about the people and not just a commission check. Tomorrow will be a better day.
Hi Elva, I sympathize with your clients. The short sale process has to get better. Agents need better training and banks need better systems. I'm hoping that the amount of short sales coming on the market is going to persuade the banks to streamline the process. Although their version of streamlined and any sane person's version of streamlined will most likely be two very different things. All the best and I look up to you for being a good person and trying to help.
Elva - The government could do a better job of "encouraging" banks, especially those that we, the taxpayers, helped stay in business, to speed up the short sale process. And I'm long past the blame game, just looking for solutions to some huge problems.
Solutions!! That's the new name of the game. Who's got solutions? I still don't clearly understand why the process gets so bogged down.