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Remember last year when every news report seemed to point the finger at those "irresponsible" homeowners who'd taken out a mortgage they "didn't deserve"?!?  What?? Those prices were the admission ticket to homebuying then, and everyone I worked with bought at the lowest price they could. So if our Depression continues and a loaf of bread goes up to $10, will we be "irresponsible" for buying at that price?

When I started in RE 11 years ago, I admit that I did judge those in financial trouble. Now with a little seasoning, I have seen so many different scenarios of financial distress, and have still yet to meet someone who maliciously, purposely tried to scam the system. Yet I just had coffee with an agent who was very critical of anyone doing a short sale, no matter what they reason. What a mixed message society we live in. It's fine and dandy for the banks to dump their toxic assets that are a strain and no longer make economic sense (and get government funding to do so), but when it comes to the little guy, it's not OK in many circles.

I'm hoping we can move beyond all this condemnation and heal our economy from the inside out.

Barb Fischer

La Mesa, CA San Diego, CA

619.339.1396

 

5 Comments on Is the season of condemnation over?

FEB
04
2010
425,443 Points 2 Featured Posts Outside Blog Called Shot Master

Hi Barb~  It doesn't make any sense for any of us to judge others.  Until you walk in someone else's shoes, you just never know what you would do!  And any one of us could be in those shoes....

3:52pm • #1

Hi Barb,

 

Great point.  I was selling a short sale about 18 months ago and ran into a neighbor who was extremely critical of the Seller and downright snotty.  Now that neighbors house is on the market.  Whatdya know--it'll be short too!

The old saying of walking a mile in someone's shoes applies.  I think we would all be amazed at how many people are actually hurting if every one talked openly about it...

3:59pm • #2
172,110 Points 4 Featured Posts Outside Blog Attended Rain Camp

I think if we knew the real numbers and the soon-to-be-numbers, we'd all be very frightened. I once heard that most Americans are only 1 disaster away from life on the streets.

4:18pm • #3
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Barb, and that is why when you hire a "seasoned" anything, you are in better hands-we 'get' the bigger picture. It may have to be my next post, as I have been dry for awhile. Good post...and spot on!

7:39pm • #4
FEB
06
2010
403,594 Points 6 Featured Posts Localism Sponsor Outside Blog Hit Router Called Shot Master

Judging is wrong right from the start, but it is a habit that is first off - hard to break and one that creeps into our "human" mines all the time.  Shooo fly don't bother me! I can't afford to judge.

I never have taken the stand that the homeowers were to blame.  I believe it was a combination of not knowing that it would get so far out of hand, and blinders - topped of with a little greed here and there and alot in other places.  Homeowners that didn't do any of this on purpose should not be blamed.  There were some that figured it out and still went ahead and took the "easy" road.

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