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There's Another Story at Haak's Vineyard -- One That's Almost Supernatural

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Real Estate Agent with Bill Cherry, Realtor 0124242

                There's a Little Known Story at Haak's Vineyard and Winery in Santa Fe, Texas

                                                                  By Bill Cherry

                                                             Dallas Broker-Realtor

                                                           www.billcherrybroker.com

It is totally incongruous that you can weave down the back roads of Santa Fe, Texas, passing fields with abandoned cars and tractors perched on this and that and left to rot, see a nice handful of homes among house trailers and repair shops, and almost at the end of the last street, rising like the Phoenix, find a beautiful mission-style building with tightly mowed fields around it.

That fancy building is the cornerstone of the Haak Vineyard and Winery, and that whole idea continues to promote incredulity among those who have never seen it, much less those who have never been there for one of its free Sunday afternoon wine tastings and jazz concerts.

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WINE MAKERS RAYMOND AND GLADYS HAAK 

            THEIR HIGH SCHOOL PROM

I've known Raymond and Gladys Haak for years. Raymond is the creator. He's the one who follows his dreams, and Gladys is the one who's his business manager; the one who makes sure he is able to accomplish his dreams.

This team of two has made Raymond a band guitarist, a degreed electrical engineer, the developer of mini-warehouses all over the area, and the owner of a very profitable convenience store. The vineyard and the winery are the latest Raymond and Gladys Haak adventure, and it's that total incongruity that convinced me to go see for myself.

Raymond, Gladys and I were sitting on stools at a table. My recorder was going, and I was looking for the story that I would write about them. Superficially I figured it would be some angle about why an electrical engineer and his wife, a former public school district accountant, both in their sixties, decided to roll the dice that a winery would bring them their pot of gold at the end of a rainbow and that it would be down an eclectic road in Santa Fe.

The door to the room was behind me. I felt the spirit of something supernatural rising in the room. I promise I did. And then a small dark-haired young woman with a genuine smile of straight teeth came from behind me and into my vision, and Raymond said, "This is our daughter Bridget."

I don't know how old she is, maybe she's in her thirties, but she looks younger.

Bridget works at the winery. She's got an impressive education - a master's degree from Texas A & M in a computer science field. But it turns out she also has a major problem. She has trouble making decisions, decisions of any magnitude. There was even a time when she couldn't decide whether or not to chew her food or to swallow it, for goodness sakes.

While she was in college, she met and married, and they had a little girl, but the little girl was afflicted with a rare congenital defect that had nothing more than a scientific name. No way to manage it. No way to cure it.

So even with all of the care and the medical treatment, it would eventually take her life. She didn't even make it to kindergarten.

And all of that put such a strain on Bridget's marriage that there was no solution but to divorce, and that's not a decision Roman Catholics make lightly.

Bridget had sung with her sister. She had sung with the various bands.  Singing is one of her tools of self-expression. And even though it was around her from time to time, she never took up smoking or drinking or even experimenting with illegal drugs. Bridget was there to sing, not to adopt a wild life.

One time when she was trying to get her life back in order after she had lost her daughter and then her husband, she went to Austin to see some girlfriends and to hear Austin music.

They were all sitting together in one of the nightclubs when Bridget asked where the restroom was. She got up and headed toward the wall where there were three doors. Like the most vicious and graphic scene of a horror movie, she picked the wrong door. It was an abandoned elevator shaft. She stepped in and fell three floors.

And the most tragic of the results of that fall was a great deal of brain damage. And accompanying that was psychological damage. That came from her own wonderment as to why she had made the wrong choice of doors, a wrong choice that followed what she and her family thought had been a wrong choice of husbands. Both tragic.

Months of rehabilitation followed. She had to have someone with her night and day. And she had to have someone with her night and day primarily because, for an example, she couldn't make the decision to chew her food, she had to be told to. And she'd store it in her cheek until she was told to swallow it.

Fortunately Bridget has responded to the mixture of good therapy plus the passage of time. Now she can make most day to day decisions on her own, but she still has trouble with anything more than that.

So when Bridget Haak comes into the room, a great deal more is added to the gathering's context than just that of the addition of another person.

Copyright 2007 - William S. Cherry

All Rights Reserved

 

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Comments(10)

Chris Tesch
RE/MAX Bryan-College Station - College Station, TX
College Station, Texas Real Estate
Great story William!   We always have to look for those wrong doors, don't we?
Jul 17, 2007 06:33 PM
Rhonda Meredith
RE/MAX Top Realty - Pearland, TX
I love Haak's. That $7 a glass dessert wine is so GOOD!
Jul 17, 2007 07:39 PM
Jo-Anne Smith
Oakville, ON

Intriguing and sad story, Bill. Wonderfully written with emotion and from the heart. You see and pick up all of the nuances that would escape the majority and out of it you weave these beautiful stories. Thank you for another great one that leaves me to ponder more than just the words on the screen.

Jo 

Jul 17, 2007 09:02 PM
SHAUN WREN
LICENSE IS NOT PLACED - Lakeland, FL
Bill- Thanks for the great story. You are surrounded by history in your area. Thanks for sharing it.
Jul 18, 2007 01:40 AM
BILL CHERRY
Bill Cherry, Realtor - Dallas, TX
Broker & Wealth Coach

Thanks to each of you -- Shaun, Jo, Rhonda and Chris -- for your thoughts about Bridget Haak's story. 

The Haak's wine is truly wonderful and it's won some big awards.  Rhonda's exactly right about the goodness of their famous dessert wine.  We keep at least two bottles here all of the time. 

Patty's our wine expert, and she thinks that dessert wine is as good as Brennan's Snapper Pontchartrain or Galatoire's Filet Foie Gras with Shiitake Mushroom and Truffle Oil Demi-Glace.

You can read more about this incredible adventure of Raymond and Gladys' as well as order their products and find out if and where they are available in your area by going to their web site. www.haakwine.com.

Finally, I've found that all people and areas of the country have great and interesting histories.  The way I discover them is to not go into the research with a list of predetermined questions.  I go in with no questions but one, here it is:  "Wonder why I'm here?" and then I freely let my discoveries take me where the story is intended to go.

Jul 18, 2007 02:46 AM
Jo-Anne Smith
Oakville, ON

Bill, thank you for the travel/writing tip.  It's amazing what happens when you step out the door and just let your intuition guide you along, isn't it? Hmm, that culinary delight sounds quite interesting, perhaps I will have to see if it is on the net and get back into the kitchen. I can think of a few people I would like to invite over for dinner...you and Patty would be included however you're too far away !

Jo 

Jul 18, 2007 04:58 AM
Joan Mirantz
Homequest Real Estate - Concord, NH
Realtor, GRI, CBR, SRES - Concord New Hampshire

 Bill...

You always seem to choose the right door...perhaps that is why you feel so for Bridget?

Jul 18, 2007 04:52 PM
BILL CHERRY
Bill Cherry, Realtor - Dallas, TX
Broker & Wealth Coach

Jo and Joan, thanks for taking the time to read my junk and to comment -- especially giving your insight.

Like everyone else, I've had my own shocks and major disappointments.  Fortunately, I came on earth with the "I'll get through this" gene.  So, so far for me my life has been an interesting journey rather than one solely defined by its ups and downs.

And Jo, you'd REALLY enjoy a friendship with Patty, just as she would with you.  One of my college girlfriends who finally decided thirty years later that I was worthy of her hand.

Jul 18, 2007 10:28 PM
Jo-Anne Smith
Oakville, ON

WoW, Bill !  It sounds like there is a fascinating story in there. 30 years later?  Hmmm. I have some interesting parallels in my own life with someone who is currently pursuing me. We were in high school chemistry class together all those years ago.

I'm glad you're happy, Bill. She sounds like a gem and is an excellent match for you. Now if only you both had grown up in Galveston !

Jo 

 

Jul 19, 2007 03:22 AM
Anonymous
Michelle

Thank you so much for the story on Bridget. I worked with her back in the '90s and have often wondered how she has been doing since her accident. It made me smile when I read your words about her "genuine smile." She was always quick with her genuine, beautiful smile, even after all that she had been through. I'm glad to hear that she's doing okay -- and hasn't lost her smile! Thank you again for the touching story.

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