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Selling Like a Catholic School Girl

By
Commercial Real Estate Agent with Matthews Capital Markets NMLS 2415712

Have you ever heard of a "natural-born salesperson" ?  The enterprising kid who organizes the neighborhood car wash grows up sell derivatives to hedge funds.  She's described as a "natural-born salesperson".

That's not fair.  She worked hard at it, probably since age six. 

I listened to a training presentation by Greg Frost today, President of Frost Mortgage in Albuquerque.  Greg recounted a funny story in his presentation and expanded upon it at the cocktail hour, sponsored by American Brokers Conduit.  Let me start off by saying that I relate to Greg Frost.  He's an old-school originator and the first billion dollar producer.  We chuckled over a beer about our "first sales managers".  

Graduates of Catholic grade schools have an unfair advantage; we were trained in sales early in life. 

 

nunNow, some of you will relate to this.  Your parents spent money to send you to Our Lady of the Lakes School and bought you the uniforms and textbooks. What did we do on our first day of Catholic grade school?

The boxes showed up.   Boxes filed with candy bars...the product.

Sister Mary got up and talked about how tasty the candy was...product knowledge. Sister Brigid told us to knock on all of our neighbor's doors and ask for their support...the sales plan. Sister Margaret invited two children to "rehearse" what we would say...role playing. Finally, Monsignor Sharkey came in and had us say a prayer for the children trapped in the Godless world of Communism...the compelling reason.

Sister Brigid was my first sales manager.  She was very effective in her tactics.  I was a pretty competitive child and wanted so much to win the trip to Dorney Park but had some stiff competition.  Her name was Analisa Salvatore. She was a tiger and Sister Brigid knew how to work our impressionable minds. 

"Mr. Brady, please stand up and tell the class how many candy bars you sold last night."  (I was six so I was afforded the courtesy of the title)

"Five, Sister Brigid"

Sister Brigid continued to poll the room, saving Analisa Salvatore for last.  Now mind you, I grew to despise Analisa.  Not only was she beautiful, pigtails flowing in the breeze, she was smart.  Apparently, she was pretty darned successful, also.

"I sold eleven candy bars, Sister Brigid !" 

Analisa went on, in detail, about her tireless prospecting, practiced pitch in front of the mirror, and superior closing skills, complete with a flip book about the starving children in Africa.

My point is this.  There is no such thing as a natural-born salesperson.  Sales takes training and practice. Products change.  Pricing changes.  Marketing strategies fail.  Consumer tastes evolve.  It is imperative that you train yourself in the art of salesmanship, over and over again.

Training isn't enough.  You have to implement the skills you learn and perfect them with rote repetition.  I sold five candy bars my first day of Catholic grade school but visited some fifteen or twenty houses.  You'll never sell everybody, no matter how good you are.  But each no, when analyzed, brings you closer and closer to the next yes.

Not everybody can be Analisa Salvatore...but we can certainly model her success.

Comments(70)

Carole Cohen
Howard Hanna Cleveland City Office - Cleveland, OH
Realtor, ePRO
Brian, I know you are trying to be serious but I can't help it, I am humming Billy Joel's Only the Good Die Young :-)   And of course you are right, you are The Man!
Jul 21, 2007 12:42 PM
Brian Brady
Matthews Capital Markets - Tampa, FL
858-699-4590

I know you are trying to be serious

Well...not that serious, Carole.  The topic is but the presentation is all about having fun with it.

Jul 21, 2007 02:41 PM
Monika McGillicuddy
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Verani Realty - Hampstead, NH
Southern NH & the Seacoast Area

Brian,

I didn't attend Catholic school but can relate very much to the early sales skill training. Mine was Brownies and I learned a lot selling those cookies! Funny now that I think of it...I used to try and charm a sale out of people! LOL>

Jul 22, 2007 01:53 AM
ARDELL DellaLoggia
Better Properties Seattle - Kirkland, WA

You are a piece of work.  When I saw this post pop up in The Carnival entries, I thought...what a salesman that Brian Brady is.  Even before I opened it.  By TITLE alone.

Judge = ARDELL; Topic = Catholic School Girl.  Coincidence?  I think not.  I'll take five of those candy bars, Mr. Brady.  In fact...make that ten.

Jul 22, 2007 04:40 AM
ARDELL DellaLoggia
Better Properties Seattle - Kirkland, WA
Oh, and I only want the candy bars with the "nuts" in them.
Jul 22, 2007 04:42 AM
Rhonda Porter
Mortgage Master Service Corp. - Seattle, WA
MLO-121324, Seattle Mortgage Lender

Marching Band...that's what did it for me!  My boyfriend and I targeted a specific neighborhood where we thought we would have the best odds at pawning our faux crystal jewerly with animal etchings in them...we were a huge success.  Thank goodness we also had the classic candy bars, too.

And I was a Camp Fire Girl.   Girl Scouts had better product so it was a tougher sell!

Jul 22, 2007 05:51 AM
Brian Brady
Matthews Capital Markets - Tampa, FL
858-699-4590

Judge = ARDELL; Topic = Catholic School Girl.  Coincidence?  I think not.

The post wasn't written with you or the carnival in mind,...however...when I saw who the judges were this week...well, I JUST couldn't resist with this submission.

And I was a Camp Fire Girl.   Girl Scouts had better product so it was a tougher sell!

YOU are the product, Rhonda; the cookies or candy are secondary.  You know that; you're a mortgage leader.

Oh, and I only want the candy bars with the "nuts" in them.

If "nuts" means crazy, Ardell, I have plenty of that here. Thanks for stopping by RCG chix. 

Point of interest to the readers.  RCG  stands for Rain City Guide, a group weblog out of Seattle.  The authors I read there HAPPEN to be ladies.  Beautiful, smart ladies who drive me nuts.  They're a combination of smart, funny, witty, and out there.  Which is EXACTLY the way you should write to your audience.  Sometimes I'm commenting in defense of one of their hypotheses, other days, I want to wring their necks. 

Here's the point.  I read Rain City Guide daily and so should you.

 

Jul 22, 2007 07:53 AM
Tony Gallegos
Cognicorp Mortgage Banking Advisory - Marietta, GA

Brian - Man do I remember the fund raising events at Catholic school. Maybe we should get together and write a book titled:

 Everything I Learned About Sales I Learned In Catholic School.

I also picked up an affinity for sweater vests in Catholic School but that another story!

Great post.

Jul 22, 2007 01:40 PM
Anonymous
Susan Wight
well, this one made me laugh out loud and say, 'Amen!', having been raised catholic, and knowing that our sales tactics were Girl Scout cookies on steroids...only a recovering catholic can say that. It just made me shake my head laughing, and loving the analogy, you nailed it Brother Brian. I'm learning alot! I am also currently taking an interesting Michael Port course, "Book Yourself Solid." I heard him speak, up close and personal at a recent eWomenNetwork conference in Dallas last month...school is never out for the pro, no matter what profession or professed religion.
Jul 23, 2007 07:52 AM
#56
Rick & Ines - Miami Beach Real Estate
Majestic Properties - Miami Beach, FL

All I can say Brian is.....(while moving my head from side to side).....my poor kids, they will get sales training in their catholic school so early on.

This was great and very CREATIVE!

Jul 24, 2007 09:50 AM
Anonymous
Jackie Colson-Miller
I had one of those dolls! I sold my share of chocolate bars and magazines in 12 years of Catholic School...I always wore my uniform...and my dimples...
Jul 25, 2007 01:26 PM
#58
Brian Brady
Matthews Capital Markets - Tampa, FL
858-699-4590
The dimples did it, Jackie.
Jul 25, 2007 05:18 PM
Anonymous
Sue
Very good and creative post.  Sales training is a good thing and I take as much as I can.  In lieu of that, realtors could learn to pause and think before they speak.  
Apr 19, 2008 11:32 AM
#60
Greg Gorman
John R Wood Properties - Naples, FL
Naples Florida Real Estate

This is so true and it all starts early in life! Thanks for sharing.

 

Sep 24, 2008 09:25 PM
Bob Crane
Woodland Management Service / Woodland Real Estate, KW Diversified - Stevens Point, WI
Forestland Experts! 715-204-9671

My wife went to Catholic school but never told me about these early sales skills, I will have to ask her what she learned about sales in elementary school.

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