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Alice in Wonderland

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Services for Real Estate Pros with Obbee.com

My family went to see Tim Burton's new Alice in Wonderland today.  It was a rainy Saturday, making it a perfect afternoon to catch a movie.  I liked the film a lot.  We saw it in Imax 3D- in addition to the colorful characters and eye-popping effects, I thought it had a great message.

It's not giving the plot away to tell you the underlying theme was about the choice we have to either live our lives according to our own ambitions or others' expectations.  It's a powerful thought, really, particularly as the film directs it toward young women.  The protagonist is Alice, of course, and her quest in the movie is to help shift the balance of power between two ruling women.  The male characters are not emasculated by the script at all (they are duly heroic/villainous), but Alice and the queens take center-stage.

Even though I am a man, the film's message resonated with me.  Working in a service profession, I have seen salespeople who have shown up to work at a job, not a career... Folks who regarded sales as just something to do until something else came along... Others who have viewed sales as a last resort, not an opportunity.  I think this happens because these people either are not living their dreams, or they haven't figured out how a job in sales is actually part of their dreams.  It's hard to be successful when you haven't taken ownership in what you're doing.

So what is your dream... Is it to help others?  As a realtor or a mortgage broker, you are helping lay the foundations for families, neighborhoods and communities.  Your role turns houses into homes.  As an insurance agent, you provide security and peace of mind.  As a debt or loan modification counselor, you help people keep the fabric of their financial lives from unraveling.  And if your dream is to make a good living, well, sales gives you the chance to earn as much as you can.

If you're living and working based on anything other than your own desires, maybe you should take your own break to "Wonderland" to revisit your motivations.  Try and step out of your life and look at it from another angle.  Talk to people outside of your comfort zone to get a different perspective.  Like Alice, discover if you're living your life according to your own ambitions or others' expectations.  Take action accordingly.

At Obbee, we truly love working with sales professionals.  They're our favorite folks in the world, real or imagined.  That's why we use the internet to match them up with motivated prospects, offering qualified sales leads in real time.  We may not be in Wonderland, but for us, work is wonderful.

- Dave

Michael A. Caruso
Surterre Properties - Laguna Niguel, CA

It was a great movie! Has a great message for everyone. Thanks for the post! Have a great weekend!

I hope you'll remember me if you learn of anyone moving to "The OC" and I will do the same!

Best regards,

Michael Caruso, Broker ABR ABRM CRB CRS GREEN GRI

2007 President, Orange County Association of Realtors           

Mar 13, 2010 10:03 AM
Debbie Walsh
SHAHAR Management - Middletown, NY
Hudson Valley NY Real Estate 845.283-3036

I went and saw it today as well due to the pouring rain and thought it was terrific.  I love Johnny Depp and Tim Burton always entertains.

Mar 13, 2010 10:25 AM
David Obbee
Obbee.com - Agoura Hills, CA

Michael, Debra & Dedra: Thank you for the feedback, and have a great weekend as well!

Mar 13, 2010 12:28 PM
Charles Stallions
Charles Stallions Real Estate Services - Pensacola, FL
850-476-4494 - Pensacola, Pace or Gulf Breeze, Fl.

I was wondering about the movie and now I will give it a shot. I always like Jonny Depp anyway.

Mar 13, 2010 01:28 PM
David Obbee
Obbee.com - Agoura Hills, CA

Charles: Thank you- I think you won't be disappointed.  Depp is great as the Hatter, too, although a little hard to understand at times.

Mar 14, 2010 12:16 AM
Laura Giannotta
Keller Williams Realty - Atlantic Shore - Little Egg Harbor, NJ
Your Realtor Down the Shore!

Thanks David...the movie is on my must see list, and now I'll be able to look at it not only as entertianment, but a life lesson!

Mar 17, 2010 01:01 AM
David Obbee
Obbee.com - Agoura Hills, CA

Laura: You're welcome, I hope you enjoy it- thanks for the comment!

Mar 17, 2010 08:39 AM