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Do We Need Anti-Bullying Laws in Massachusetts?

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Legal books and gavelDo We Need Anti-Bullying Laws in Massachusetts?

 

In the wake of recent suicides of children who had been tormented by their classmates the Massachusetts Senate has unanimously backed an anti-bullying bill. 

Intended to protect school children against bullying attacks by their peers, the bill is going after, not only the behavior on school grounds but will also prohibit the use of e-mails, text messages and other on-line hostility.  

Bullies have always been part of the "growing up" experience and some children are more susceptible to these kinds of attacks. But, there has been a real explosion of bullying tactics that have been unleashed on kids through the use of cyberspace.  

Along with the social aspects of sites like Facebook, Myspace and Twitter, the torment of some children through the use of these venues continues long after school is out.  

The anti-bullying bill will attempt to clamp down on cyberbullying by putting schools in charge of prevention plans with regard to texting and emails. 

But who is ultimately responsible when children decide to form gangs and pick on their weaker classmates?  Some of this behavior is obviously learned at home or certainly not discouraged. 

Anything that protects children, particularly the most vulnerable of them, is important to consider and should be addressed.  The suicides of 11-year-old Carl Walker-Hoover and 15-year-old Phoebe Prince over the past year, both victims of school bullying, should not go unanswered.  

But, where is the responsibility of the parent who allows his or her child to harass and torment their classmates?  Most parents I know are caring and concerned about how their children treat others. 

I think we need to seriously question those who are not.

 

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Steve Shatsky
Dallas, TX

Hi Claudette... this is a serious topic.  It periodically seems to come up in conversation (usually after an incident or suicide) and, while I don't believe there is a simple answer, I do believe that we have an obligation to protect children who are victims of this behavior and hold the offending children and their parents responsible. 

Mar 23, 2010 04:07 PM
Steve Shatsky
Dallas, TX

Hi again Claudette... I just saw this online after commenting on your post.  Check out this story: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/03/23/deerfield-beach-middle-sc_n_509548.html  

Mar 23, 2010 05:25 PM
David Dee
RMX REALTY - Alhambra, CA
Real Estate - San Gabriel Valley (L.A.) & N. Orang
Claudette, it's sad too the consequences of this occurring. Protecting children should be a serious matter to consider. Parents of the bullies need to discipline their kids to mitigate some of these mishap.
Mar 23, 2010 06:32 PM
Carla Muss-Jacobs, RETIRED
RETIRED / State License is Inactive - Portland, OR

In the olden days, when I was a kid -- you'd tell your mom and pop, and then they'd go up the street and have a little talk with the neighbors.  It was settled without school, laws, etc.

Mar 23, 2010 06:48 PM
Craig Rutman
Helping people in transition - Cary, NC
Raleigh, Cary, Apex area Realtor

Teaching acceptable behavior, in my opinion, begins at home. Parents need to be the first line of defense.

Mar 24, 2010 12:07 AM
Claudette Millette
The Buyers' Counsel - Ashland, MA
Buyer, Broker - Metrowest Mass

Steve:

Thanks for that link. That story is so disturbing. This is, obviously, not just happening in Massachusetts.  There are more frequent occurrences of this all over the country. I do think the parents need to be held accountable when their children are harassing other kids.

David:

Absolutely.  I know that it is tough to raise children right now but I do think that kids who do things like this are not being given the best direction at home.

Carla:

You are right about that.  I know what my parents would have done...  Some of these kids are telling their parents about the abuse and it does not seem to be stopping it. Your point about the "olden" days - I think there was more direct involvement from the adults when things like this happened.

 

 

Mar 24, 2010 12:12 AM
Elizabeth Bolton
RE/MAX Destiny Real Estate Cambridge, MA - Cambridge, MA
Cambridge MA Realtor

Hi Claudette ~ I imagine most bulliers (sp?) grow up to be parents so I guess we can't assume all parents are teaching the right lessons. I'm glad that attention is focused on this. The two cases where children committed suicide in the last year are heartbreaking. 

I'm not sure the response was much better in the past. What has made things much worse however is the online bullying - now a kid is bullyed 24 hours a day - even when home.  I don't have kids but if I did there would be no tv, no cell phones, no electronic games, no computer - call me a Luddite but I think it would be a much better way of life. 

Liz

Mar 24, 2010 12:48 AM