AR Friends,

I noticed something in advertising, blogging, social media, print, etc. - People are not asking for what they really want.

I know asking for what you really want sounds simple and I know not everyone is doing it! Is it the fear of looking greedy that's keeping you from asking?  That was my hang up.  

So what's the difference in asking for a $2,000,000 referral and a $200,000 one?  I know $1,800,000 if you are using the American math right? The crazy thing is that I am finding out that the money is the only difference.  I am also finding that I prefer working the bigger referrals.

Don't get me wrong, I still work with the credit challenged and smaller loans but I don't advertise for it anymore.  I just started asking for what I really want... and its working! So my point is: Go ahead take a chance, ask for what you want!

-Ingrid

P.S.  Just so you know...

I want to fund loans on the biggest, most expensive, homes around; to applicants who have great credit and treat me with respect. Then I want them to refer their friends, family, CPA's, and CFP's to me.

It feels good to say that out loud. - IJL

Ingrid Laine
Senior Mortgage Planner
at Old virginia Mortgage
621 Lynnhaven Pkwy, #160
VA Beach, VA 23452
+1.757.270.1578 Cell
+1.757.419.2080 Office
+1.877.223.5482 Fax
Email Ingrid Laine
ingridlaine.com

 
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APR
05
2010
439,223 Points 2 Featured Posts Outside Blog Called Shot Master

Hi Ingrid~  It doesn't hurt to verbalize I suppose!  I have found that my business comes from word of mouth....

8:29pm • #73
100,746 Points Attended Rain Camp

Ingrid,

Your advice applies not only to business people, but to the consumers as well.  Our clients should ask for what they want too!  Those who are successful develop a balance between satisfying the consumer and meeting one's own needs as a business person.  I think more emphasis is generally placed on the consumer's needs though.  Realistically, businesses and consumers are interdependent and can not survive without one another.  Thanks for reminding us to ask for what we want!

Paul

9:34pm • #74
447,961 Points 57 Featured Posts Outside Blog Attended Rain Camp Called Shot Master

Never let anyone every say "not in my market" or "it won't work in my market".  Because it will...  Cheers!

9:59pm • #75
238,686 Points 10 Featured Posts Attended Rain Camp

I asked for a Million Dollar Listing...and I got it!  Now I'm asking for a BUYER for my Million Dollar Listing :-)  It's being worked out as we speak.

10:19pm • #76
447,922 Points 1 Featured Post Localism Sponsor

You got it Ingred, you gotta ask for something or you will settle for nothing.

10:36pm • #77
242,350 Points 2 Featured Posts

It goes along with the "put it out there in the universe" philosophy, Ingrid.  If you ask, they will come.

11:05pm • #78
1,352,557 Points 42 Featured Posts Outside Blog Attended Rain Camp Called Shot Master

Mom always said you get half of what you ask for and none of what you don't.  If you don't ask for the big referrals, how can you get them?

11:26pm • #79
APR
06
2010
561,252 Points 3 Featured Posts Outside Blog Called Shot Master

Ingrid,

Ships tend to sail on the course they are charted.  It's good to have a plan of where we are headed.

Steve

1:16am • #81
166,209 Points 4 Featured Posts Outside Blog Attended Rain Camp Called Shot Master

I agree with Melissa - the clients with the smaller loans often refer you to friends with bigger loans. Don't cut off your nose to spite your face. While imagining big loans coming through the door is great, I would take advantage of the uptick in the market and steer your business in the direction you want to go.

4:33am • #82
333,351 Points 4 Featured Posts

Ingrid

Your post is right on and I believe you will never rise above your expectations until you ask

Ty

2:13pm • #83
APR
07
2010
2 Featured Posts

Hello Everyone!

Thank you all for your kind words of encouragement and for commenting on my post. I was out all day yesterday (broken A/C at my house...brutal) and came back to 83 comments! I have to say wasn't expecting such a response when I quietly typed this the other night. 

I look forward to reading your blog entries as well. I feel very connected to the AR community and love the opportunity to contribute ideas because I get so many great ideas from all of you.

Thanks Again!

-Ingrid

12:16am • #84
APR
09
2010
227,288 Points 7 Featured Posts Attended Rain Camp Called Shot Master

I am totally on the same page! I believe by putting it in the universe and allowing the flow to naturally occur you can get everything you ask for! Often times this occurs through smaller things leading to the big picture. By creating the energy to allow things to easily flow, abundance follows!

12:15pm • #85
APR
16
2010
949,273 Points 8 Featured Posts Outside Blog Called Shot Master

The universe always wants to hear from us first, before delivering what it is we want.    Best to make sure that we are asking for it, or we'll just get that default position!

3:31pm • #86
MAY
10
2010
221,508 Points 12 Featured Posts Outside Blog Called Shot Master

OK Ingrid, if you ever have a buyer over $500K or seller in Colorado, specifically in the Denver market I want your referral ;-)

and I promise I will send my Virginia referrals your way

10:48pm • #87
MAY
13
2010
2 Featured Posts

John Marshall,

emailed ya... only happy messages on the blogs. Hey... I do have family there. Let's keep in touch. I am adding you as an associate if you don't mind. 

-Ingrid

8:35pm • #88
MAY
20
2010
237,916 Points 5 Featured Posts Called Shot Master

Always think big. Pretty simple, but effective. The work is pretty much the same, but the payoff is bigger.

12:10am • #89
2 Featured Posts

Wayne,

Yep. There is a great book called "The Magic of Thinking Big" I believe it's by Dave Schwartz... It's been a while though....

Thanks for the comment.

-Ingrid

3:31pm • #90
JUL
24
2010
338,367 Points 1 Featured Post Localism Sponsor Outside Blog Hit Router Called Shot Master

Just reviewing some of the great featured posts of the past today looking for inspiration and ideas for writing some new content for my lethbridge realtor blog.  This was a great featured post. I accidentally became the local King of the Mobile home market, which was the most work for the least pay possible.

 

I thankfully learned a lot selling those trailers, but now absolutely avoid those low end market properties if at all possible.  The work is actually more than a traditional or higher end home I find.

2:04am • #91
NOV
21
2010
2 Featured Posts

Robert,

Thanks for the compliment! You can use it however you wish if you want. Congrats on becoming King! 

—Ingrid

10:24pm • #92

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