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A MOMent In Time With Our Moms Lasts A Lifetime

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Real Estate Agent with Keller Williams Realty 0575737

MomThis year being my first in my lifetime WITHOUT my Mom due to her passing away last summer got me to reflecting a little deeper on Mother's Day. A lot of these holidays in our lifetime we might think are just plugs for Hallmark, or the flower stores or candy products. But if we live our lives properly we don't dwell too long in the past or wish away where we are right now for the future but instead, live in the

        MOMent.

A MOMent In Time With Our Moms Lasts A Lifetime.

Acknowledging our Moms as special should be every day but I do think it is grand that we ESPECIALLY stop and pause for them annually and tell them how great they are in our lives. Sacrificing their bodies to carry us for nine months, enduring childbirth for us, and getting us going in our lives, when you step back and think about that, you can't really have anyone more important to you living and breathing today than the woman who bore you and got you started in this world.

It is sad of course when our natural Moms are no longer with us but with those MOMents that we can reflect upon we can bring back all that unconditional love they had for us, their being the one person in our lives early on who ALWAYS thought the best of us. Moms do pass on of course with the moving on of time but there are always other Moms. Mother in laws, wives, step Moms, friends that are Moms, brothers and cousins that have Moms in their families, grandMoms, aunts, sisters that are Moms, you can go down the list.

Honor all the Moms in your life this Mother's Day, and tell them how glad you are to have them around.

A very dear woman I know sent along to me this verse honoring mothers entitled "When God Created Mothers" and I think it was attributed to another great Mom out there, Erma Bombeck:

When the good Lord was creating mothers, He was into His sixth day of "overtime" when the angel appeared and said, "You're doing a lot of fiddling around on this one."

And the Lord said, "Have you read the specs on this order? -- 

She has to be completely washable, but not plastic; Have 180 moveable parts . . . all replaceable; Run on black coffee and leftovers; Have a lap that disappears when she stands up; A kiss that can cure anything from a broken leg to a disappointed love affair; And six pairs of hands...

The angel shook her head slowly and said, "Six pairs of hands . . . no way."

"It's not the hands that are causing me problems," said the Lord. "It's the three pairs of eyes that mothers have to have."

"That's on the standard model?" asked the angel.

The Lord nodded.

"One pair that sees through closed doors when she asks, 'What are you kids doing in there?' when she already knows. Another here in the back of her head that sees what she shouldn't but what she has to know, and of course the ones here in front that can look at a child when he goofs up and say, 'I understand and I love you' without so much as uttering a word."

"Lord," said the angel, touching His sleeve gently, "Come to bed. Tomorrow . . ."

"I can't," said the Lord, "I'm so close to creating something so close to myself. Already I have one who heals herself when she is sick . . . can feed a family of six on one pound of hamburger . . . and can get a nine year-old to stand under a shower."

The angel circled the model of a mother very slowly. "It's too soft," she sighed.

"But tough!" said The Lord excitedly. "You cannot imagine what this mother can do or endure."

The angel asked, "Can it think?"

"Not only think, but it can reason and compromise," said The Creator.

Finally, the angel bent over and ran her finger across the cheek. "There's a leak," she pronounced. "I told you you're trying to put too much into this model."

"It's not a leak," said the Lord, "It's a tear."

"What's it for?" asked the angel.

"It's for joy, sadness, disappointment, pain, loneliness and pride," The Lord replied.

"You are a genius," said the angel.

The Lord looked somber.

"I didn't put it there," He said.

 

Bill Gassett
RE/MAX Executive Realty - Hopkinton, MA
Metrowest Massachusetts Real Estate

Gary sorry to hear that you Mom is no longer here. I am sure today is a tougher day without her around. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

May 09, 2010 12:32 AM
Missy Caulk
Missy Caulk TEAM - Ann Arbor, MI
Savvy Realtor - Ann Arbor Real Estate

Gary, what a great post both in honor of your mom and all the moms.

May 09, 2010 02:03 AM
Kristin Johnston - REALTORĀ®
RE/MAX Platinum - Waukesha, WI
Giving Back With Each Home Sold!

Gary, I am so glad I caught your post today....great one, really!  I thank you for sharing it with all of us!

May 09, 2010 03:13 AM
Debe Maxwell, CRS
Savvy + Company (704) 491-3310 - Charlotte, NC
The RIGHT CHARLOTTE REALTOR!

Hi Gary!  Your tribute to your Mom and all Moms is just beautiful.  Thanks for sharing on this special day.  Keep the lifetime of memories close in your heart.

May 09, 2010 05:30 AM
Sally Dunbar
Lyon Real Estate, Fair Oaks CA (Sacramento Area) - Fair Oaks, CA
Fair Oaks Realtor - Fair Oaks Homes for Sale

Gary - thanks for that on mother's day.  I had never read that.  I know you will honor your Mom by being who you are, and by carrying on the supportive nature she instailled in you.  Happy Mother's Day to you, because you had a good one!

May 09, 2010 06:26 AM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

Bill: I appreciate your thoughtfulness.

Missy: Moms are just terrrific. Happy Mother's Day to you.

Kristin: You are welcome. ALWAYS nice to hear from you.

Debe: Appreciate your beautiful words.

Sally: Thanks for your kindness. You are a terrific Mom there yourself and have a great holiday.

May 09, 2010 07:20 AM
Peggy Chirico
Prudential CT Realty - Manchester, CT
REALTORĀ® 860-748-8900, Hartford & Tolland County Real Estate

Very nice tribute to your mom and all mothers.  Thanks for taking the time to post it for everyone to remember. I'm sure your mother knows exactly what you are thinking.

May 09, 2010 10:01 AM
Russell Lewis
Realty Austin, Austin Texas Real Estate - Austin, TX
Broker,CLHMS,GRI

Hey Gary, I almost missed this wnderful post but saw it in Patricia's "Week in Review"  I have neen a fan of Erma Bombeck's sardonic for many years and love this quote,

"I take a very practical view of raising children. I put a sign in each of their rooms: "Checkout Time is 18 years."

I adore our children and my wife is an exceptional MOM, God bless all good caring Mom's everywhere!

May 09, 2010 10:03 AM
Gary Woltal
Keller Williams Realty - Flower Mound, TX
Assoc. Broker Realtor SFR Dallas Ft. Worth

Peggy: Thank you for your nice thoughts.

Russell: Love that checkout time phrase, very much planning for that natural state of being an empty nester. Children should grow up.

May 09, 2010 10:26 AM
Cindy Jones
Integrity Real Estate Group - Woodbridge, VA
Pentagon, Fort Belvoir & Quantico Real Estate News

Gary-beautiful!  It has been a hard day as the first one without my mom.  She is missed everyday but especially today.

May 09, 2010 10:28 AM
Norma Toering Broker for Palos Verdes and Beach Cities
Charlemagne International Properties - Rancho Palos Verdes, CA
Palos Verdes Luxury Homes in L.A.

Erma was a great humorist, but she could be very poignant too. 

May 09, 2010 10:37 AM
Andrea Swiedler
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices New England Properties - New Milford, CT
Realtor, Southern Litchfield County CT

Gary, this was wonderful, really. I lost my mom in 2001, and I still miss her, sometimes I even forget for a moment that she is gone. Even when you "know" that the order of the world is to bury your parents someday, we are never prepared for the loss. And they never leave us, that is the good thing.

Erma Bombeck was fantastic, thanks for posting that.

May 09, 2010 10:42 AM
Kevin J. May
Florida Supreme Realty - Hobe Sound, FL
Serving the Treasure & Paradise Coasts of Florida

Simply beautiful Gary.  So glad that I was able to see this post.  Happily, I am able to spend time with my Mom or at least talk to her daily.  It takes a long time to fathom their strength.  Thanks! 

May 09, 2010 11:21 AM
Pippa Mac
Chevaux Group Realtor, The Woodlands and Spring - The Woodlands, TX
The Woodlands TX Real Estate

Gary, what a wonderful blog you wrote!  You always have such heartfelt things you write.  Thank you for sharing!  pippa

May 09, 2010 03:00 PM
Lora "Leah" Stern 914-772-4528
Coldwell Banker, 170 N Main Street, New City NY 10956 - New City, NY
Real Estate Salesperson

Gary - so glad I caught this post (via Pat's week in review).  What a gorgeous tribute to your Mom, and to all Moms on their special day.  I'm ever thankful that I still have my MOM and treasure every moment that I have her.  I can only imagine how special your MOM was to have produced such a caring son ("The apple doesn't fall far from the tree").  Hope your day was filled with lots of special memories and MOMents.

May 09, 2010 04:07 PM
Marte Cliff
Marte Cliff Copywriting - Priest River, ID
Your real estate writer

Gary - a beautiful post. My Mom has been gone ten years now, and I still miss her - and cherish memories of times we spent together. But even better, sometimes I can feel her here with me.

Tonight I'm just home from a 6 hour drive back from my firstborn son's house - because my other son took me to visit him for Mother's Day week-end. I feel blessed to have sons who want me around and who go out of their way to spend time with me. I got to be with both my boys and my precious grand-daughter today.

 

May 09, 2010 04:51 PM
Tanya Nouwens
Immeubles Deakin Realty - Montreal West Island, QC
Montreal Real Estate Broker & Stager

And now I have a tear too...and you and Erma put it there, Gary.  -- Tanya in Montreal

May 10, 2010 01:40 AM
Tanya Nouwens
Immeubles Deakin Realty - Montreal West Island, QC
Montreal Real Estate Broker & Stager

Marte: Congratulations.  You've sure done something right to receive that kind of Mother's Day gift : )

May 10, 2010 01:40 AM
Celeste Chism - Serving You in Crossville, Fairfield Glade, Lake Tansi & Cumberland Cove
Legacy Realty - Crossville, TN
Serving You is My Top Priority

Gary ~ What a great post. I loved the conversation between the Lord and the angel. I too lost my Mom last year and it is very hard. Blessings to you.

May 11, 2010 02:53 AM
Pam Faulkner
Faulkner House Interior Redesign - Herndon, VA
Room Transformations Fairfax & Loudoun Counties VA

This is lovely Gary.  Memories will sustain you through the most difficult times such as holidays and birthdays.  We need things like this piece, and your sharing it, to remind us of what is important.  Thank you!

May 15, 2010 07:09 AM