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ActiveRain and the Social Media Connection

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Real Estate Agent with Liberty Homes RS-#62825

It is without a doubt that we walk hand in hand through ActiveRain to many social media sites. For one,we comingle around these sites with the solid fact that we will make connections with many others whether it be to reconnect with family, friends or to make new acquaintances and business connections.  Sooner or later we meet face to face or at the very least converse on the phone across oceans and miles nationwide and to other countries.

I had an epiphany when ‘traveling' through cyberspace while learning the ins and outs of blogging on ActiveRain and then hopping across the social media universe. The transparency of ‘self' was the focal point of this whole blogging thing and while being ‘social' on all sites. It was this transparency that brought me success.

We all have read many a ActiveRain Success Story here and the first year of my time on ActiveRain I wrote my first one One Year in ActiveRain: Time & Effort Equals Success

The one thing I believed ‘back then' and still do today is what I stated in that post........  

"If it is one thing I have respected are the people who did not change in spirit and in soul along their pathway to blogging freedom and remained themselves......

....The ones who have written from the heart and let their whole persona shine through."

Now, 3 years later of being an ActiveRain Member and I had another realization come to life through another's passing. I may not be able to muster as much time to write many blogs here although my heart is here each and every day.  I attribute my hard work and effort to apply what I learned on ActiveRain in my business model and I bonded with my peers and made astounding connections and friendships.

It is because of those connections I made here on ActiveRain that I went out to mingle on other sites like Facebook to stay connected with those friends I made here on ActiveRain. Without that transparency and bonding I may not have found out about my dear friend Carole Provenzale's passing....  Proof that we did not have to meet face to face to form a friendship that spanned over three years on ActiveRain. I know this to be true.....because my heart aches.

Write from your own thoughts and creativity with conviction, passion, integrity, honesty and respect.

In turn receive business, connections and awesome friendships .....

This is the Power of ActiveRain.

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Celeste "Sally" Cheeseman  is a Realtor-Associate® and Certified Residential Specialist (CRS) with Century 21 Liberty Homes in Mililani, Hawaii. With a sharp understanding that a listening ear is the key to a client's needs  she serves the island of Oahu (Honolulu County) and all Hawaii Military Relocations, Hawaii Retirees, Hawaii Job Transfers and Hawaii Residents, Home Buyers and Sellers.

 

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Comments (25)

William J. Archambault, Jr.
The Real Estate Investment Institute - Houston, TX

Sally,

Sorry about Carole!

I do believe you can make great friends on line! People, mostly school kids used to have pen pals, why should the dough their Grand children's e-mail and blogging friends?

Bill

May 23, 2010 10:55 AM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE

William:  It was astounding how I felt such a connection with many people....and met them face to face...or on the phone...and they were exactly how I 'thought' them to be....all from their written words!

Tammy: I didn't...when I first started I had no clue what blogging was....amazing what over three years did!  And...the business IS a huge bonus...but nothing will replace the significance of the 'connection'!

May 23, 2010 11:11 AM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE

Roy..thanks...and to you too :)

Jane:  It is the best endorsement (and explanation) in my opinion that I can give....it's all about the PEOPLE BEHIND THE WORDS.

May 23, 2010 11:12 AM
Russell Lewis
Realty Austin, Austin Texas Real Estate - Austin, TX
Broker,CLHMS,GRI

Oh Sally, this is the best explanation of all the good parts of Social networking that are available to those who truly are themselves and: 

"The ones who have written from the heart and let their whole persona shine through." 

I was fortunate to meet you and a few others when I first arrived here who encouraged me to be myself and and engage with others along the way. Because of that I have made more friends and connections than I ever could have before the advent of Active Rain. Have a great week my friend!

May 23, 2010 12:02 PM
Loreena and Michael Yeo
3:16 team REALTY ~ Locally-owned Prosper TX Real Estate Co. - Prosper, TX
Real Estate Agents

I miss Carole too. As Active Rain friends and if we are aching for her loss, we can only pray for the children she left behind. Yes, the power of Active Rain is indeed powerful. I didn't know what I signed up to when I joined 3 years ago too.

May 23, 2010 12:51 PM
George Souto
George Souto NMLS #65149 FHA, CHFA, VA Mortgages - Middletown, CT
Your Connecticut Mortgage Expert

Sally, we need to be ourselves in what ever we do, it we are not it shows loud and clear.

By the way I like the new picture :)

May 23, 2010 01:23 PM
Carol Culkin
Diamond Partners Inc - Overland Park, KS
Overland Park Residential Real Estate

Sally - In terms of friendships, I have gotten so much more out of Active Rain than what I had initially signed up for,and then some. 

May 23, 2010 01:58 PM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE

Thanks Russell!  It is all the good parts of it isn't it :) :)

Loreena: You and me both...and what a joy it's been!

George; No kidding...thanks for the compliment buddy :)

Carol: me too..and look ...we 'met' too :)

May 23, 2010 03:11 PM
Lou Ludwig
Ludwig & Associates - Boca Raton, FL
Designations Earned CRB, CRS, CIPS, GRI, SRES, TRC

Sally

A very well done post, thanks for sharing your thoughts.

Good luck and success.

Lou Ludwig

May 23, 2010 03:18 PM
Robert Vegas Bob Swetz
Las Vegas, NV

Hello Sally and some great posts, information and a wonderful plug to AR and Carole is missed by everyone!

VB ;-)

May 23, 2010 03:56 PM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE

Thanks Lou and Robert! Carole will be missed indeed...and my way of giving a bit of a tribute....

May 23, 2010 04:29 PM
Kathy McGraw
CELLing Realty - White Water, CA
Riverside County CA Real Estate

I actually remember that post and that picture wheel you made :)  Yep, three years later and so many of us that don't post all the time here still keep up with each other either on Twitter or Facebook....me I prefer Twitter :)

I really loved how you wrote this...and like you I know these friendships are true as my heart also aches over Carol's passing, just as it does anuytime one of these friends hurt, are sick, or anything else. How lucky we are to have made these friendships...and I am so glad that I count you as one of them :)

May 23, 2010 06:11 PM
Jason Sardi
Auto & Home & Life Insurance throughout North Carolina - Charlotte, NC
Your Agent for Life

Sis - I remember that wheel as well.  You personify what is right with Social Networking and are a great example of the success that can be achieved through it.  And the outpour of AR members in reaction to Carol's passing is truly extraordinary.

May 24, 2010 03:06 AM
Irene Kennedy Realtor® in Northwestern NJ
Weichert - Lopatcong, NJ

Sally,

The business leads are good, but the friendships made here are great! I share your sense of community and your sadness with Carole's passing.

May 24, 2010 03:19 AM
Barbara-Jo Roberts Berberi, MA, PSA, TRC - Greater Clearwater Florida Residential Real Estate Professional
Charles Rutenberg Realty - Clearwater, FL
Palm Harbor, Dunedin, Clearwater, Safety Harbor

Indeed, Carole's passing is a sad time and it is amazing to see how many posts there have been.

May 24, 2010 04:13 AM
Celeste "SALLY" Cheeseman
Liberty Homes - Mililani, HI
(RA) AHWD CRS ePRO OAHU HAWAII REAL ESTATE

Kathy: It's nice to see each other here.....I suppose no matter what.. I keep coming back...

Bro: I was not surprised... she was loved

Irene: Yea they are!

Barb: yes...but the significance is how we formed the friendships and how social networking keeps us in touch with each other.

May 24, 2010 05:40 AM
Gita Bantwal
RE/MAX Centre Realtors - Warwick, PA
REALTOR,ABR,CRS,SRES,GRI - Bucks County & Philadel

Sally, Great post. We all miss Carole . She was a wonderful person .

May 24, 2010 07:50 AM
Melissa Grant
A Serendipity World - Greenbackville, VA
The Law of Attraction In Life & Business

I do have to say, Active Rain is where it all began and I will be forever grateful. For the friendships I have made along the way, the teachings and being able to share common bonds. It was Facebook that I too learned about Carole and was devastated and shocked but it was Active Rain that led us, all of us together. Wow, I remember those days. I remember the " hometown " feel. The family atmosphere. Carole is going to be missed greatly. I know I will miss her.

May 24, 2010 03:24 PM
Lottie Kendall
Compass - San Francisco, CA
Helping make your real estate dreams a reality

I feel your heartache, Sally, and know that it is genuine -- and that's the point you make so beautifully.

May 25, 2010 03:43 AM
Olga Diaz
COLDWELL BANKER TOMLINSON - Pullman, WA
Potter, Mng Broker, CRS, ASP, ePRO, ABR

Sally!  Great Post!  I agree with you completely!  Have a great weekend.

May 27, 2010 07:58 AM