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10 Tips for Phone Skills that Kill

By
Home Stager with Home Star Staging

Our job as Real Estate Professionals, whether you are a Realtor, home stager or other industry professional involves first impressions and being prepared for your daily dealings with anyone you come in contact with.  After all, anyone who owns a home, knows someone who does or is in the market to sell or purchase a home is a prospective client. So regardless of what you're doing or where you are, first impressions are key.

Now prospective clients who are in the market for a RE pro may have found you online (GREAT!) through your snazzy website, blogs, articles or other sites where you're on and they were impressed enough to contact you via email or phone. While email correspondence is fine it still keeps the relationship somewhat impersonal and eventually you will most likely speak to the prospect by phone (recommended if they leave you a number to reach them follow up with a phone call!)

But do your phone skills kill? 

You can take that either way, figuratively like the youngsters say or literally. Meaning are they a good or bad?

Over the last month I've realized how important my phone skills are againThey've become what I call my client's first tangible impression of me and my first live "interview" for the job. 

In fact, I have actually been told by two recent clients how important my phone communication was to my company, Home Star Staging, getting the job

You see, both clients had called other home stagers locally and eventually settled on me based solely on our communication by phone.  In these scenarios, I "killed" in a good way and my colleagues killed the deal in the dead way.

Here's a quote from one in an email I received after he had spoken to (as he told me) at least 3 other home stagers that he couldn't quite "connect with":

"Hello Karen, Thanks for talking with me this morning.   Your ability to quickly and effectively communicate what you do and how you do it is greatly appreciated.  Below is [my wife's] contact information and a short summary of our situation.  I am sure [my wife] will call or email you for a consultation next week."

This job has turned into one of my longest and most lucrative contracts as well most rewarding to date.  

The most recent call came this week from a Realtor who was calling home stagers in the Dallas,TX area for a client whose home has been on the market for several months.  He explained what his client needed and that he had "already talked to another lady who said she was going to come in and redecorate the whole place" and that is "NOT", in his words, "what the client needed".  I booked a home staging consultation with his client within a day after our conversation and she's well on her way to getting the house where it needs to be for selling. I've also started a working relationship with the Realtor I plan to cultivate into more partnerships working with his clients before going on the market.

Here are my 10 Tips for Phone Skills that Kill (in the good way)

  1. SMILE before you answer the phone - as silly as it seems smiling before picking up the phone actually helps the tone of your voice improve and it doesn't hurt your mood!
  2. If you don't recognize the number don't answer your phone if you cannot freely talk. Better it go to voice mail and you hear the message from a prospect than answer rudely or hurriedly.  This is one of my biggest peeves!!! Why would someone answer the phone only to tell me that they "don't have time to talk and can you/they call me back later" NO! 
  3. Make it a rule (unless you're in the middle of negotiations or other pressing business but let your current client know AHEAD OF TIME not to answer your phone while with another client.  This is another huge problem with me.  It is the ultimate in rudeness to be in the company of someone I am paying to have MY time wasted by their phone calls. It does NOT IMPRESS someone that you appear to be busy!  Treat your clients as the one and only as a rule - not the exception to the rule.
  4. LISTEN to the client's needs - don't assume you know what they want until you hear them out
  5. Repeat what they've said if you're unsure and ask for more details if you need more
  6. Be prepared with some pre qualifying questions of your own to see if THEY are a client you can help or have to refer them on. A pre qualifying question I ask is, "Where is the home located?"  If it's out of my area I am happy to refer and it frees me and the client from a long phone conversation better saved for someone who can help them.
  7. Know your business and what you can and cannot handle
  8. Don't overwhelm them with information they're not asking for
  9. Always ask if they need additional information or clarification
  10. Always thank them for their call

We're in a competitive industry friends and it's up to you to kill or be killed. It's always good to brush up on those skills. 

 Anyone else have some pointers to share?? 

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Comments(120)

Lesley Wagstaff
Re/Max Results Realty in Vancouver, BC - Coquitlam, BC
For Real Estate and Mortgages

Great advise for everyone in our business.  Since my first day in the sales the phone has always been my best way to prospect.  Having a great phone manner will get the job.  Congratulations on the jobs and the post

Jun 14, 2010 06:26 AM
Jirius Isaac
Isaac Real Estate &TriStar Mortgage - Kenmore, WA
Real Estate & loans in Kenmore, WA

Karen, this is a great list.  I really think the first one sets the pace and if you do not smile before you answer the phone, you are fighting an uphill battle.  It is like having the front to the house look bad when a house is for sale.

Jun 14, 2010 06:39 AM
Patricia Aulson
BERKSHIRE HATHAWAY HOME SERVICES Verani Realty NH Real Estate - Exeter, NH
Realtor - Portsmouth NH Homes-Hampton NH Homes

Listening is key.....Less talk and more "listen!"

Good post today, thanks.

Patricia/Seacoast NH

Jun 14, 2010 06:41 AM
Pete Deininger
Breckenridge Associates - Breckenridge, CO
Breckenridge Colorado Real Estate (970-389-0372)

Karen,

Many great points here, but #1 is the one that I've found myself using most lately. I make it a point before I pick up the phone for every prospecting call to SMILE and let that wash over me. It really does have an impact on the conversation.

Jun 14, 2010 12:22 PM
Cindy Bryant
Redesign Etc. Home Staging - Houston, TX
"Houston Home Staging Pros"

Great post, it's amazing how rude and obnoxious people can be on the phone.  I hate it when I get the rush-rush vibe, not someone I want to do business with when I'm calling as a customer, not a stager.

Jun 14, 2010 02:31 PM
Cathy Lee
CL Design Services Home Staging - Danville, CA
ASP, IAHSP, RESA Danville, CA

Really good post Karen. There are exceptions when I am with clients and I have to answer my phone but I will explain this before I begin my consultation.  

Jun 14, 2010 04:27 PM
Christine Donovan
Donovan Blatt Realty - Costa Mesa, CA
Broker/Attorney 714-319-9751 DRE01267479 - Costa M

A good set of tips.  I don't typically answer the phone when I'm with a client unless we're trying to show homes, and I'm waiting for calls to see if we can see them.

Jun 14, 2010 06:16 PM
Norma J. Elkins
Elite Realty Group - Morristown, TN
Realtor - Elkins Home Selling Team

Thanks for sharing ---- this is such good info - I am going to pass it on to some of our agents!

Jun 15, 2010 12:10 AM
Palma Minnich
In2itive Design - Charleston, SC
Home Stager, Charleston, SC

I love these suggestions - especially #1 - which I always do. I like it because I can always tell when someone else is NOT smiling when they answer their phone. It does send a very negative message to the caller. I feel like saying, "Uhmm.. Hi. I'm sorry. Am I bothering you?"

I also like Lyn Simm's (#75) suggestion to tape record your conversations. Great idea, especially if you're new to your business or "new" to implimenting these ideas!

Jun 15, 2010 02:00 AM
Joy Carter & Jeff Booker Brother and Sister Team
Keller Williams Parkland/Coral Springs Realty-GreatFloridaHomes Team - Coral Springs, FL
Trust Your Family's Move To Our Expertise!

It drives my team nuts that I will not take calls when I am with a client, unless I have pre-warned the client that I needed to take a call.

My pet peeve are the people that take your call and then say, "I can't talk now".  Why on earth did you answer?   Isn't that what voice mail is for?  Joy

Jun 15, 2010 01:23 PM
Robby Leviton
Metro Real Estate LLC - Kirkland, WA
Knowles Team

Great post! thanks for taking the time to create this fabulous reminder which is mostly logic and courtesy that we seem to forget.

Jun 15, 2010 03:50 PM
John Cannata
214-728-0449 http://TexasLoanGuy.com - Frisco, TX
Texas Home Mortgage - Purchase or Refinance

Great suggestions Karen! This post was definitely worthy of a Gold Star. Your phone skills are VERY important because sometimes thats the only chance you have to sell yourself. If you are fumbling around, unclear, unprofessional, etc. then you certainly will not be getting the business.

Jun 16, 2010 03:14 AM
Anita Carrington
The Dovian Group, LLC - Laurel, MD
Dovian Group LLC, ASP, IAHSP

Wonderful post!

Jun 17, 2010 10:51 AM
Karen Otto
Home Star Staging - Plano, TX
Plano Home Staging, Dallas Home Staging, www.homes

I appreciate all the great feedback and the time you've taken to stop by this blog! I wish I had time to thank each of you personally!

Karen

Jun 17, 2010 02:55 PM
Marchel Peterson
Results Realty - Spring, TX
Spring TX Real Estate E-Pro

Karen, Oh my gosh am I late to the party; 116 comments.  I do love the post and I think phone skills are so important.  My phone skills are what have made the difference in getting my career off the ground 14 years ago.  With the Internet we can let them go but I think they are just as important then as now.

Jun 17, 2010 04:44 PM
Karen Otto
Home Star Staging - Plano, TX
Plano Home Staging, Dallas Home Staging, www.homes

always room for more to the party Marchel!

Jun 18, 2010 02:28 PM
Tracy Lee Parker
RE/MAX DFW Associates - Royse City, TX
Buy*Sell*Rent

Printed for next office meeting! I try to teach my agents to give the price of the home out LAST!

I come from a leasing background and you had to get the customer to the property. These are great!

Jun 19, 2010 12:20 PM
Wayne B. Pruner
Oregon First - Tigard, OR
Tigard Oregon Homes for Sale, Realtor, GRI

My pet peeve is when people answer the phone and they can't stop eating. That bugs the hell out of me.

Jul 01, 2010 05:17 PM
Jennifer Kirby
Kirby Fine Homes - Minneapolis, MN
The Luxury Agent
I am working on the not answering a phone with another client, or business partner for that matter. But it's hard to not look at your phone when a text msg comes in. I also hate when people do not turn off their ringer during a meeting. I do agree with you on not answering your phone when you are to busy. I have run into agents who i am talking with on the phone, then they answer their other phone and are carrying on two phone conversations. Very rude!
Jul 17, 2010 10:57 AM
Karen Otto
Home Star Staging - Plano, TX
Plano Home Staging, Dallas Home Staging, www.homes

Thank you for your comments Tracy, Tigard and Jennifer!

Jul 19, 2010 03:11 AM