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To Recommend or Not to Recommend, that is the Question

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Real Estate Agent with McGraw Realtors

PainterBeing in Real Estate, I often find myself being asked to recommend a painter or electrician or heat and air company or other such services.  Brian Buffini recommends keeping a directory of service providers and making it available, which is a pretty good idea.  So, when I started my first networking group, those in the group became my "go to" people.  But then, after I had made a recommendation to one of the members, they dropped the ball.  This upset the client and made me look bad. 

The lesson I learned (after that happened a couple of times) was to keep a recommendation directory, but to be very careful who you recommend.  Today, I only recommend people who I know are reliable.  For example, when I recommend the insurance guy, I know that not only will he make the call, but he will take excellent care of the client.  He does this time and again.

So the question becomes, "How do I know if someone is recommendation ready?"  Here's my criteria for adding someone to the Bob Haywood recommendation list...

1. I like to know the person for a while.  I have known a painter who I recently have begun to recommend, since he was in Junior High school.  Today he is a small business owner.  He's just getting his feet on the ground.  But he is honest, has fair prices and does a great job.  I knew that he would be a great recommendation because I have known him for so long.

2. I usually will make one recommendation once I've decided to give someone a "test run."  This follows getting to know the person and observing their work ethic.  After they do the job I always follow up to make sure the client was pleased with the work.  I also want to be sure that the vendor felt like they had a good experience too.  Did I do well giving them the information?  Do they have a comfort level working with me?  Is this a good fit?

3. I listen and/or ask others about the person whom I want to recommend.  In our small town, your reputation is easily known.  This is not so much true in Tulsa, so you have to learn about people.  Obviously, you can Google the person's business.  But word of mouth is often the best way to find out a general opinion of those of us in the business world.

4. If a recommended vendor has an issue with one of my clients, I inform the vendor of what I know and ask them to follow up.  How they handle the situation tells me a whole lot about their character, maturity and business practices.

There are those who say that we should never recommend any business providers because there is too much liability.  Maybe that is true, but I find that being able to provide good recommendations to my clients helps me to be a trusted resouce and a good friend.  Futher, I find that as I seek to provide good service to my clients, that I become the recommended resource for others in business.  Knowing who to recommend and being able to be recommended makes good business sense, especially in a tough economy.

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Pam Turner, REALTOR®, e-PRO®, SFR
Century 21 Belk Realtors Dalton GA - Dalton, GA

We use a 'vendor list' form in our office and give them several names - the client has to pick.

Jun 16, 2010 01:32 AM
John Thomas
E3 Green HOMES - Boulder, CO
EcoBroker, MSEE, MBA

Bob...you make some very good points. It is essential to qualify recommendations to preserve our professional integrity.

Jun 16, 2010 01:34 AM
Lorrie Semler, REALTOR® in the Dallas area. Call/text 972-416-3417
HomeSmart Stars - Addison, TX
Real Service. Real Results. Real Estate

Have several names in each category and let the client choose which to use. 

Jun 16, 2010 01:40 AM
Richard Weisser
Richard Weisser Realty - Newnan, GA
Richard Weisser Retired Real Estate Professional

I once had a client that wanted me to repaper a bathroom because I had recommended the paper hanger. Lesson learned.

Jun 16, 2010 01:44 AM
Linda Scofield
Toccoa, GA

Bob I agree with your statement "being able to provide good recommendations to my clients helps me to be a trusted resouce and a good friend. "  When a person asks for direction, it is good to have suggestions. Great Post.

Jun 16, 2010 01:44 AM
Michael Delaware
North Sky Realty LLC - Battle Creek, MI
REALTOR®, CRS, GRI

I always try to give them multiple names if I am placed in a position of being asked to recommend someone.  I also recommend that interview them, to make sure they want to work with that person or company.  Your post gave me some new ideas on how to appraoch this.  Thanks.

Jun 16, 2010 02:07 AM
Lorraine Sayer
Monument, Black Forest, Falcon, Fountain homes - Colorado Springs, CO
Realtor ABR,CDPE,GRI - Colorado Springs,CO RE/MAX

If we aren't the Go To person I think clients will find someone else that is. I want to be their resource. Having said that I'm also careful to recommend at least 3 names and tell the client to interview and I put a disclaimer in the email that states," these are some business professionals that have done a good job in the past for clients." I also make absolutely sure they know to verify CURRENT license and insurance.  I could tell you stories about contractors letting insurance policies lapse in today's economy:(  It is tough to get on my list and I usually test them out on my own home or rentals first. 

Jun 16, 2010 02:18 AM
Joan Cox
House to Home, Inc. - Denver Real Estate - 720-231-6373 - Denver, CO
Denver Real Estate - Selling One Home at a Time

I have a "Local Partners" tab on my web site.   These are companies/individuals that have been used by me, or other clients and recommended.   If I get two negative calls on anyone, they come off.   Simple, and is available to my database anytime they need someone.   Win-Win!

Jun 16, 2010 02:31 AM
Team Honeycutt
Allen Tate - Concord, NC

Like others, I usually have several names to choose from.

Jun 16, 2010 03:04 AM
Mark Brian
Silver Star Real Estate LLC - Anderson, SC
Anderson SC Realtor

I hate when someone I have recommended does a poor job and makes me look bad for referring them. A list is the best bet for service providers.

Jun 16, 2010 03:06 AM
Anna "Banana" Kruchten
HomeSmart Real Estate - Phoenix, AZ
602-380-4886

Bob I've had my 'preferred partners' list for years and it's worked very well.  I normally have 3 of each industry and I have a disclaimer that is up to them to make the choice whether the vendor is good for them. If I get wind of bad service - off they go on my list.  They don't make me look bad - they make themselves look bad. We can't 'control' others actions - and my clients know that every once in awhile somebody drops the ball.  I ask them to let me know about the expience with the vendor - either good or not so good (hopefully never horrific)

Jun 16, 2010 04:36 AM
Deborah Byron Leffler BzyBee Real Estate Lady!
Keller Williams Realty Boise - Nampa, ID

Good post...i think it is important to be a go to person...then they are always thinking of me when they need information...thus will call me when they know of some one who is buying and selling!

Jun 16, 2010 05:28 AM
The Scott Loper Team Bux-Mont Premier Properties
Keller Williams Real Estate - Montgomeryville - Lansdale, PA

Hi Bob,

We struggle with this one.  We want to be the go to person for all our clients' needs but sometimes "good help is hard to find."  We also find that the painter or handyman who was good one year, may not be so good the next year (too busy, personal issues, higher prices).  We try not to have pre-set lists as we don't want to offend the guy who is not on the list.  I agree that how they handle a situation is a real test of their character.

~Lisa

Jun 16, 2010 06:29 AM
Shannon Lewis
Beringer Realty - Champaign, IL
Realtor, Broker - Champaign-Urbana, IL

I think our clients expect us to be able to recommend service providers. I like the idea of having more than one recommendation in each category, but depending on the type of service, that can be hard to come by in this area. I know lots of bad service providers and not so many good ones in certain industries. Having said that, if I feel like one vendor is far better than the rest, then I will recommend just that one, but am also careful to tell them that they may use whoever they choose.

Jun 16, 2010 06:37 AM