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Think carefully before co-signing anything, your future home may be on the line

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Real Estate Agent with RE/MAX Concepts

This was a painful week for a prospective buyer on one of my listings. He found out after getting his offer accepted that a late payment was made in May on a car loan he consigned on last year. The net result was that his credit score dropped below the level needed for him to get a loan.

Most people want to be helpful, and when a family member or friend who seems to be stable needs a cosigner on a loan the temptation is there to lend a hand. After all, you know this person. They are responsible, they pay their debts, they are honest. However, situations can change, and despite someones best intentions, they may not be able to make the payments on time due to illness, job loss, or other unforeseeen circumstances. And when that happens, the cosigners credit is affected.

In most situations where two people are on a loan there is joint and several liability meaning that if one party bails, the other party is on the hook for the full amount of the loan. In the case of a car loan, lets say the person who had agreed to make the payments just stops making them, and refuses to relinquish the property to boot. You could take the other person to court and seek to have the court award the property to you, but in the meantime you would need to pay on the loan to avoid massive damage to your credit. Also, if there is a tacit agreement between you that the other person will make all the payments, you may not be aware if they are being made in a timely fashion. This can be devastating for your credit.

If you are planning to buy a home and you are approached by someone wanting you to co-sign a loan, you should consider what the worst case scenario would be. If the worst case scenario is that your credit would be damaged and you would not be able to purchase the property as a result, then you need to consider that as being with the realm of possibility.

Again, most people want to help a person in need, especially a child or close relative who may not have any credit or who is just getting their start out of college, a divorce, a relocation or the like. In these situations it's important to remember though that your name and your credit are on the line, and if your credit is tarnished, it may take years to recover from the damage.

 

Comments(41)

Bob Haywood
McGraw Realtors - Owasso, OK
BobHaywood.com

Yep, co-signing is not a good idea.  We ended up not co-signing for our kids' cars when they were in high school (if they chose to buy something more than we were willing to purchase for them) because of all the problems that it can lead to.

Jun 19, 2010 02:20 AM
Ann Allen Hoover
RE/MAX Advantage South - Hoover, AL
CDPE SRES ASP e-PRO Realtor - Homes for Sale - AL

I've seen so many people with problems because of co-signing.  Congratulations on your feature!

Jun 19, 2010 02:34 AM
Mark Watterson
Salt Lake City, UT
Utah Real Estate

Co-signing is enabling destructive behaviors more often than not.

Your doing everyone on a favor by just saying no, thank you.

Jun 19, 2010 02:55 AM
FN LN
Toronto, ON

Co-signing loans can create numerous problems.  It is best to say "NO" in the majority of situations.

Jun 19, 2010 04:09 AM
John Elwell
CENTURY 21 Bill Nye Realty, Inc. - Zephyrhills, FL
You Deserve a Full-Time Agent, Not Reduced Results

People should also think twice before adding people to their deeds. What if you put your son on the deed and then he goes through a divorce or gets in an accident caused by him and the attorneys start looking for his assets??? I am not a lawyer so cannot say. But I would advise anyone considering putting someone on their deed to speak with an attorney and get some good legal counselling to avoid problems down the road.

Jun 19, 2010 04:55 AM
Roy Thomas
Sutton Group-Professional Realty - Halifax, NS

I agree. I co-signed once, it went ok but it was first last & only time I'll ever do it. Co-signing for a mortgage huge risk. You credit is on the line for the long term.

Jun 19, 2010 05:07 AM
Richard Strahm
American Foursquare Realty - Lansdale, PA
Lansdale and North Penn Real Estate

Some people just don't get it.  They think co-signing for a loan just helps the other person get the loan.  They don't fully understand that they are on the hook for the loan as much as the person they are helping out!

Jun 19, 2010 05:24 AM
Laurie Gibson
Windermere Powerhouse Group - Caldwell, ID
SFR, Canyon County Real Estate

Such good information for people. Co-signed for my kid for collage, but never again!

Jun 19, 2010 05:43 AM
Mark Smith
Cherry Creek Properties, LLC - Erie, CO

Great post- i think FHA loans are great for allowing blood relatives to help someone buy a home and gift the down payment. I do see that in most other situations which includes car loans that it can come back in bite people.

Jun 19, 2010 06:13 AM
Ted Tyndall
Davidson Realty Inc. - Saint Augustine, FL
I will help You find the Home YOU want to Buy

Matt, great advice. It is easy to want to help someone but it could very easily come back to haunt you as in the above case.

Jun 19, 2010 06:19 AM
Renée Donohue~Home Photography
Savvy Home Pix - Allegan, MI
Western Michigan Real Estate Photographer

Oh boy!  That really hurts especially when you are walking a tight rope to begin with.  Sorry to hear it pushed him down :(

Jun 19, 2010 06:35 AM
Matt Grohe
RE/MAX Concepts - Des Moines, IA
Serving the metro since 2003

Logging in to find a feature: Serendipity!

Tim: The train can leave the track even though it's not supposed to.

Christie: Best intentions aside, life intervenes.

Mark: My parents cosigned for me, but there were only 3 of us. They've lived in the same house 43 years!

Len:It's hard to say how I'll react when my kids are older. My wife found her birth mother a few years back and a half sister. Half sis was getting divorced and needed money...it doesn't end well.

Fernando: My kid, maybe, just maybe.

Sally & David: Remodeling our home we hired lots of "friends" some of them are not as a result.

Jennifer: You are a very kind soul, and in the minority it appears. Glad it worked out for you.

Brian: Guy I helped buy a house last year lent his boss-partner $10,000, month later he was fired, boss went bankrupt. Not good thing happened to a generous guy.

Missy: I'm sure a mistake is in my future, despite my resolve.

Claudette: In times of struggle it often comes down to self preservation. That's pretty universal.

Jun 19, 2010 06:42 AM
Matt Grohe
RE/MAX Concepts - Des Moines, IA
Serving the metro since 2003

Kathy: 2 weeks! Methinks he did not carefully think it through.

Roy: I don't know about ingoring. There night be another way to handle it.

Richard: The credit bureaus all have us by the you know what's.

Lanre: Thanks Lanre! Most will never care about your realm as passionately as yourself.

Sarah: That is a great move for getting out of the cosign.

Joe: Me too. But I think now credit scoring and reporting is in hyper-overdrive.

Val: The experiment ended badly for this guy, the sellers and me as a result. Oi vay!

Michael: Tomorrow the sund will rise for sure.

Kathryn: The gift can be a good way to help with having your goods on the chopping block.

Rodney: I did not know that. Thanks for enlarging my knowledge of the topic.

Lorraine: Always a downer when a well intentioned person falls prey to a bum.

Bob: Price cap! Another good way to avoid signing.

Ann: Luckily I haven't come across it too much. Hopefully this post will saved someone future problems.

Mark: Save me from myself!

Marc: There but for the fickle pick of fate go I......

John: A referral I received through Active Rain did not result in a transaction because of a past girlfriend on the deed who was not cooperative. Don't do it!

Roy: Appears anlagous to Russian roulette.

Richard: The lender has it figured out, that's for sure.

Laurie: Samaritanism aside, we are buffeted by societal forces from Equifax, TransUnion, and Experian.

Mark: As above, gifts can cut your losses and be a lifeline.

Ted: Haunt is right. A bad, scary haunting.

Renee: It's a shame because he really needs the property to avoid paying some large storage fees.

Jun 19, 2010 06:55 AM
Jen Wing
JPW Field Inspections - Chico, CA
Field Inspections Since 2007

A lot can change in the 6 years that it takes to pay off a car loan. 

I co-signed for a friend and he lapsed payments and I got calls all the time, at home, at work, on my cell, letters in the mail.  Of course it's hurt my credit too. This is the Last person on the planet I would've thought would have problems. I can't wait until 1.5 years from now to be done with this finally.

The funny thing about co-signing for a car is that you can get tricked into it (I know excuses).  The car salesperson suggested one year from now my friend would refinance at a lower rate and take me off as co-signer (Short Term).  He would have his own credit that he got from making payments for a year.  One thing he forgot to mention was that 1 year later, he would have to pay $3K (Which he didn't have) for the loss in value of the vehicle in order to refinance, because cars devalue so much when they get off the lot.  It wasn't as easy as just transferring a loan.  I hate this kind of deception (I swear I am not making excuses).

It really is a hard lesson, but sometimes that is what it takes to never do it again.  Makes you financially grow up fast.  I have gotten pro at saying No.

Jen Wing

Jun 19, 2010 08:28 AM
Jon Zolsky, Daytona Beach, FL
Daytona Condo Realty, 386-405-4408 - Daytona Beach, FL
Buy Daytona condos for heavenly good prices

matt,

This happens way more often than we may think. I have dealt with it many times where parents would cosign on a car loan, and their adult "child" stops paying and never says a word to his parents, and then they find that when they are rejected, while they are so sure they have impeccable credit.

And this is often not when thhey do not have the money, it is simply irresponsible behavior

Jun 19, 2010 09:53 AM
Chris Olsen
Olsen Ziegler Realty - Cleveland, OH
Broker Owner Cleveland Ohio Real Estate

Hi matt -- That is so sad and it really pays to proactively prepare for purchasing a home to ensure a good loan officer can help one with dos and donts.

Jun 19, 2010 11:45 AM
Kay Van Kampen
RE/MAX Broker, RE/MAX - Springfield, MO
Realtor®, Springfield Mo Real Estate

No matter whether it's family or friends, you have to be very careful who you cosign for.  That's too bad for your client.  Sure makes one stop and think about their own credit.

Jun 19, 2010 02:48 PM
Christine Donovan
Donovan Blatt Realty - Costa Mesa, CA
Broker/Attorney 714-319-9751 DRE01267479 - Costa M

This is hard for some people to realize.  It's also true when they believe the person will do their best to make payments and then something happens.

Jun 19, 2010 04:26 PM
Jenny Kotulak
RE/MAX Real Estate Centre Inc., Brokerage - Oakville, ON
Broker - Oakville Ontario Real Estate

Hi Matt, that is excellent advice and definitely worthy of the feature.  Thanks for reminding everyone.

Jun 22, 2010 05:57 PM
Troy Pappas
Safe House Property Inspections - Virginia Beach, VA
Virginia Beach Home Inspector

I had a friend find out recently that he had been driving around on a suspended license for the last 10 months because of co-signed auto loan. So it's not just your credit that may be affected.

Jun 24, 2010 03:48 PM