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I don't want to write this..........

Here is a blog I sure don't want to write. My Ent guy wanted to do some laser surgery to get the last of the cancer out of my throat. I wanted a second opinion and found the number 1 Ent Dr in the state. My wife and I met with her this morning. She looked at all of my records, tests, x-rays, scans etc and then looked in my throat. She said the cancer could not be removed with laser surgery and I would have to have a complete layrngectomy . That is not the news I wanted to start my weekend.

She did say that, when she removed my layrnex she could install an artificial voice box that will allow me to talk and will allow me to continue my career. The operation and recovery will require me to be in the hospital for about 2 weeks.

We are looking at doing this operation around the 1^st of Sept. I will keep you all posted and I really appreciate your thoughts and prayers.

Good Luck, Good Lending and Aloha

Posted by Bruce Bourgault, Vice President, Mpro on 08/10/2007 07:53 PM

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55 Comments on I don't want to write this..........

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2007

oh Bruce, so sorry about the news. I can't imagine what you're going through. I will definitely keep you in my prayers.

I know that it must be scary, but not how scary. Know that my thoughts are with you, full of the hope that you'll not only make the best of this, but make it better for others.

Bruce, you know Randy and I are right there along with ya! And when you get out and able to have one...we'll have a hot dog together...okay?

All the best for you, Bruce!!! You will be in my thoughts and prayers!!!

Hi Maggie and Laurie -- Thanks so much for your thoughts and prayers. You will never no how much I appreciate them. Aloha

Thanks Sally -- That's a deal! Aloha

Thanks Chris--Thanks so much. Aloha

Bruce - I am so sorry to hear of this development, but know that my prayers and best wishes are with you and your family as you face this situation head on. I will ask those in the prayer circle to include you when they ask for good health for those in need. Please keep us posted.

Thanks so much Carol -- I cherish your thoughts and prayers and will keep all posted. Aloha

Hi Dianne -- I cannot find you on AR but thanks so much for your thoghts and prayers. Aloha

I wish you all the best and a speedy recovery. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers as well.

My prayers are with you!!!!

Kelly an d Jeannette -- Thanks so much for your thoughts and prayers. Aloha

Sorry to hear this news. You have such great spirit and you are an inspiration to all of us. My thoughts and prayers are with you. May you have a speedy and full recovery.

Dear Bruce, My heart and prayers go out to you. I am so sorry for your news. You will be in my prayers and know that no matter what, we are all here to live the life experience and so many have so many obstacles to bear. Here is my best wishes that yours will be lightened a little knowing others out here care very much.

My prayers will be for you!

Sincerely,
William

Brue, my prayers are with you....keep the faith!

Everyone: I'm Linda, Bruce's wife, which means we're facing this incredible challenge with together. He's a very brave man and has been my rock.

Activerain has been good for Bruce professionally, but I think he has benefited personally as well. Blogging has become a special means of communication. It's the perfect venue for self expression, learning, sharing and broadening one's world in countless ways. I'm grateful to activerain for providing this exceptional opportunity and to all of you supporting and praying for him.

Mahalo from the bottom of my heart to each and everyone of you.

Hi Joan and William -- Thanks for your thoughts and prayers. I truly cherish them. Aloha

Hi Angel -- Thanks for your love and support and for always being there foro me. I love you soooooooooooo. Aloha

Dear Bruce and Linda,

I know this can't be easy for either of you, but I can tell by both of your writings how strong you are and what wonderful people you are.

The fact that you are still able to work Bruce and be "healed" with this surgery is a very good thing even though I realize it was not what you wanted. But again, if this is what it takes to get well, I am sure this is better than the alternative.

My prayers are with you both,

Be well and be happy, Wendy

Linda, thank you for "training" a GREAT GUY! Best wishes to you both- my thoughts are with you.

Hey Bruce - I have a good friend who was just declared "cancer free" about a month ago (also throat cancer). You are in my prayers.

Wow, Bruce! I just read your post and am sending all my best wishes and prayers. And a big hug!

Even with a voice, there are times when nothing can be said. My heart goes out to both of you and I wish you a full recovery. I look forward to your return to AR!

Bruce: Your strength and resolve will get you through this. You just keep tapping on that keyboard and keep us informed and we will keep you in our prayers. Keep the faith.

Carl

HI Wendy and Laurie-- Thanks so much for your kind words and thoughts and prayers. Today is the most difficult day I have had since this whole ordeal began. But this too will pass and I will be fine again in the morning. I have to be as I have a loan app at 9:00. Aloha

Hi Jason and Patricia -- Thanks so much for your thoughts and prayers. I too will be cancer free shortly. Aloha

Hi Jennifer and Carl -- Thanks for your kind words and thoughts and prayers. You have no idea how much I cherish them. Aloha

Bruce, Definitely the worst of the best news you could get. Hope your surgery goes and well and that you'll be back in business real soon. I'll whisper prayers for you as well.

Hi Monica -- Thanks so much. You have no idea how much I appreciate your thughts and prayers. Aloha

Bruce, My thoughts and prayers are with you. We will all be sending positive energy your way!

Bruce, I definitely keep you and your family in my prayers. Best wishes to you and I hope you have a speedy recovery and come back to be with us soon!!

Bruce-Our thoughts are with you for a successful procedure and speedy recovery. Much aloha to you and Linda.

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2007

Bruce, I'm sorry to hear about this. You'll be in my thoughts and prayers--please keep us posted.

Good luck Bruce. Let me know when you are ready for that Loco Moco!

Bruce, not the news any of us wanted to read either. You and Linda are in my thoughts and prayers. Once you're 100% again, we'll schedule the Active Rain Bruce Bourgault Hot Dog Celebration! :) You once mentioned the name of a loan officer you worked with here in San Antonio -- what is her name and how to I contact her?

Bruce, my heart goes out to you and your family. It seems like this is the week for cancer on the AR community. I have been writing good wishes to many of our brothers and sisters here. I pray that you have great success with the surgery and a speedy recovery. My thoughts are with you.

God bless

Bruce, you stay in my prayers. I expect you to be one of those amazing success stories of someone who has come back and triumphed when all looked lost. (Actually, all doesn't look lost -- it sounds hopeful to me!) You have the spirit for it, and a huge fanbase in AR. Hang in there!!

the Lord will give you strength and guide you.

me, i will pray for you.

Hi Bruce,
I really did not want to read this. So sorry that this is the route you have to take. Please know that you and your family are in my prayers and thoughts. I know you are in good hands and all will go well.

Bruce & Linda, I saw the title and knew this wasn't the best of news, but relieved once I read it that it wasn't the worst of news either. I read Linda's comment and am confident with her love & support and the love, support and prayers of all your friends around the nation you will do just fine. My prayers are with you both also.
Aloha :)

We will all keep you in our prayers and ask your wonderful wife Linda to keep us all updated on your condition.

Pam and Kimberly -- Thanks so much for your thoughts and prqyers. You hve no idea how much they are appreciated. Aloha

David and Tonya -- Thanks for your comments and friendship. Aloha

Yolanda and Pete- Thanks so much. Pete we'll go across the street to C&G's for that Loco Moco!! Aloha

Judi -- The Dr said that after the surgery I should be able to eat again within 30 days. The AR Hot Dog feast may be coming soon. The LO I mentioned is named Trish. You can reach her at pkosmalski@sonterreamortgage.com. You will not regret working with her. She is terrific and she had a pretty good mentor. Aloha

Darrel and Sarah-- I am humbled to recieve so many thoughts and prayers and I cherish them. Aloha

Jay and Cynthia--Thanks so much for your prayers and support and your friendship. Aloha

Lysa and Paul -- Thanks so much for your kind words and prayers. You have no idea how much we appreciate them. Aloha

Bruce, I'm looking forward to our hot dog feast -- I will contact Trish to see if we can work together.

Thanks Judi. Tell Trish if she doesn't take good care of you. i'll come back and kick her butt! Aloha

Hello Bruce,

I wish you a speedy recovery and prayers out for you.

Have a speedy and full recovery and I'll be watching for your blogs after the procedure

Hi Stacey and Jamie -- Thanks for your thoughts and prayers. You have no idea how much they are appreciated. Aloha

I will be thinking of you and wishing you and your wife well.

Hi lizz -- Thanks so much for your kind words and thoughts. Aloha

Howdy Bruce

I am so sorry for this news you got. Your good people Bruce. Your one of the very best people here on ActiveRain. Your always helpful to folks. Your posts have helpful info and are very good reading.

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Have a good one

Bruce although I can not fathom what you are experiencing I have seen another friend who had cancer of her nasal cavity. She had to have her palate removed. This was 36 years ago. As technology increased over the many years her prognosis got better and better as did her prosthetic palate. Technology today is so advanced that there is so much out there that we just don't know about. I am sure your doctor is doing her best as she know you want to continue your career and will only provide you with the latest technology available. I wish you luck and you are in my prayers.

Dale and Penny -- Thanks so much for your thought and prayers. I truly cherish them. Aloha

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2007

Hi Bruce, I can't tell you how sorry I am that you didn't get the news you were hoping for. I will continue to keep you and your family in my prayers.

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2007

Bruce, I will continue to keep you in my talks with the universe and trust that you will sail through this and be talking up a storm again in no time. I'm glad it is operable and that you have good medical professionals looking after you.

Mellisa and Jo-Anne -- Thanks so much for your thoughts and prayers, you do not knw how much I cherish them. Aloha

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