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Best Advice Ever

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Real Estate Agent with Private Label Realty ( Denver metro area, Colorado EA1321548

The Best Advice Ever...

I could have asked this question as a mind bender, but decided to use it as an interactive blog.  When people were asked what the most valuable advice they have been given was, the #1 answer was "don't sweat the small stuff".  I agree with don't sweat the things you can't control, but the small stuff or details, especially in our business, is extremely important and should be sweat-ed and a priority.  So my personal view on this advice is conditional on what the "small stuff" really is.  Now if the advice was don't sweat the things you have no control over, I would happily agree.

We have all been given advice throughout our lives and our careers.  What do you feel the best advice you have ever received is and why.  I am interested in what you have to say.

Some silly advice all moms give their kids is "make sure you are wearing clean underwear".  Really?  I will probably wet my pants in fear if I were to get into an accident, so will the paramedics really know if my underwear started out clean...before the accident.  And would they really care?

You get my drift.  I'm looking forward to hearing the sage advice you have been given.

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Ralph Gorgoglione
Metro Life Homes - Palm Springs, CA
California and Hawaii Real Estate (310) 497-9407

The best advice on being a sales agent is:

"Know your stuff cold, and look each client straight in the eye"

Translation:  Do your homework and be transparent.....

Jun 23, 2010 01:26 PM
Li Read
Sea to Sky Premier Properties (Salt Spring) - Salt Spring Island, BC
Caring expertise...knowledge for you!

Always put the customer first...that's how one enjoys repeat business.

Jun 23, 2010 01:27 PM
Andrew Herren
Craig Massee Real Estate - Milledgeville, GA

Don't let it hurt your feelings when people you've know all of you life do business with another agent.

Jun 23, 2010 01:29 PM
Lisa Orme
The Master's Key Realty LLC -Windsor, CT - HARTFORD COUNTY - Windsor, CT
Broker/Realtor, ABR, CRS,GRI, PSCS, SFR, Notary Pu

A close second to "don't sweat the small stuff" is one of my faves:  "major on the majors and minor on the minors".  The small stuff is important, and must be dealt with, but when the hours in the day are shorter than the time to finish your to-do list, keep everything in perspective!

Jun 23, 2010 01:29 PM
Deborah "Dee Dee" Garvin
C2 Financial - San Diego, CA
C2 Financial

Dawn:  Two:

"You might get frustrated with the client, the agent, the underwriter, the processor, the appraiser, the escrow agent...or anyone else...but it is YOUR loan and the buck stops with you".  I understood my accountabilty with that statement.

"Put a loan package together as if you were answering every question the underwriter was going to ask.  Then, turn it (the package) around, go sit on the other side of the desk and try to find every possible reason to decline the file."  Attention to the details is how you close loans...it is all small stull in finance.

Jun 23, 2010 01:29 PM
Geri Sonkin
Douglas Elliman Real Estate 516-457-7103 - Merrick, NY
Long Island Real Estate & Staging Expert

The best advice I ever got in my life came from my (at the time) brand new mother-in-law.  She said, think about what you're going to say before the words come out of your mouth because once you utter them you no longer own them and you can never take them back.  That one has served me well all my adult life.

Jun 23, 2010 01:38 PM
Dawn A Fabiszak
Private Label Realty ( Denver metro area, Colorado - Aurora, CO
The Dawn of a New Real Estate Experience!

Ralph ~ excellent advice.  It shows confidence.

 

Jun 23, 2010 01:44 PM
Bob Willis
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices California Properties - Orange, CA
Orange County & L.A. County Real Estate Agent

"If you take care of your pennies, the nickels will take care of themselves."

Jun 23, 2010 02:23 PM
Dawn A Fabiszak
Private Label Realty ( Denver metro area, Colorado - Aurora, CO
The Dawn of a New Real Estate Experience!

Li ~ great advice

Andrew ~ that happens all the time, feelings get hurt and folks we know do business with someone else

Lisa ~ perspective is so important

Deborah ~ sounds like you are one terrific lender!  I wish more lenders were like you, but then again, that's what makes you stand out above the crowd.

Geri ~ great advice, from a mother-in-law no less!  Like a stone, once it is thrown, it can never be taken back.

Bob ~ I like that!

Jun 23, 2010 02:35 PM
Nick T Pappas
Assoc. Broker ABR, CRS, SFR, e-Pro, @Homes Realty Group, Broker/Providence Property Mgmnt, LLC Huntsville AL - Huntsville, AL
Madison & Huntsville Alabama Real Estate Resource

Dawn, although all of the above is great advice and I do live by them...the one thing my father told me was "be a man of your word".  When you say you are going to do something then do it!  So, when I shake someones hand...it's a done deal...no written contracts needed.  People know this about me which makes for a huge relationship of trust.  Great question.

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I had to come back and agree with Paul below...very good advice.

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Jun 23, 2010 03:33 PM
Paul Warkow
Paul Warkow-D.G. Weber Law Associates - Hauppauge, NY

Never argue with idiots.  They will drag you down to their level and then beat you with experience.

Jun 24, 2010 02:17 AM
Dawn A Fabiszak
Private Label Realty ( Denver metro area, Colorado - Aurora, CO
The Dawn of a New Real Estate Experience!

Oh, Paul, I so agree with you.  It's just not worth the time or energy.

Jun 24, 2010 05:24 AM
Michael "Bear" Barry
ClearSpring Loan Services / Halo Portfolio Advisors - Prosper, TX

Simple:  Live, Laugh, Love

Jun 24, 2010 11:30 AM
Michael "Bear" Barry
ClearSpring Loan Services / Halo Portfolio Advisors - Prosper, TX

Oh, and "Don't forget to flush"

Jun 24, 2010 11:30 AM
William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

A guy who I rented a retail space from years ago told me to watch teh small items.  The big stuff, rent, lights heat ins.  are constants and you have control.  But it is the small out lay of cash for odd ads and supplies that will doom you!

This man was and still is a self made millionaire.  I wathced him do business over several years and he followed his own advice.   Why shouldn't I!

Jun 24, 2010 02:17 PM
Dawn A Fabiszak
Private Label Realty ( Denver metro area, Colorado - Aurora, CO
The Dawn of a New Real Estate Experience!

Michael ~ I always flush, do you?

Bill ~ that is fabulous advice.  Often, throwing a few bucks here and there adds up and before you know it, it's way more than just a few bucks.

Jun 24, 2010 04:03 PM
Shanna Hall
Real Estate Solutions - Kirkwood, MO
I love selling houses!!!St. Louis, MO 314-703-1311

It is always nice to have that reminder;)  I really like the one don't stress over things you cannot change...

Jun 28, 2010 02:48 AM
Dawn A Fabiszak
Private Label Realty ( Denver metro area, Colorado - Aurora, CO
The Dawn of a New Real Estate Experience!

Shanna ~ my dad always says that.  And if you can't change or control it, you just have to wait for the outcome!

Jun 28, 2010 08:35 AM
Ross Quintana
Real E Smarter - Spokane, WA
Real E Smarter Real Estate Coach - 509-362-1966

I met a very successful man and he said look at what everyone else is doing and do the opposite. It has generally been true.

Jun 28, 2010 04:24 PM
Dawn A Fabiszak
Private Label Realty ( Denver metro area, Colorado - Aurora, CO
The Dawn of a New Real Estate Experience!

Ross ~ I can see how that may work.

Jun 29, 2010 04:32 PM