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A Message To The Parasites - Go Back Into Your Worm Holes Because I'm Not Biting

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Real Estate Agent with RE/MAX Real Estate Centre Inc., Brokerage

They're everywhere.  They're everywhere.  In my e-mail, on my website, on Twitter,  even on my blogging site.  I've had to disallow public comments on my blog posts due to them.

Who am I talking about, you ask?

Parasites - "An organism that grows, feeds, and is sheltered on or in a different organism while contributing nothing to the survival of its host."   Parasite

I am a host organism.  I am an independent contractor working in sales so I understand prospecting. What I do have a problem with is these parasitic spammers who are intruding on my business platforms, hoping that I will notice them and give them my business.

Yes, I notice them and NO I will not be giving them my business.  The most common parasites of late have been those appearing as prospects on my website.  They are promising to increase my presence on the Web and get me onto page one of Google.

Hello, I'm already there and that's how they found me I guess.  I got there on my own, organically without their help.  I look at the people who are following me on Twitter (@oakvilleontario).  I would say the good majority of them are wanting my $$$$ for some reason or another.

 Even on my Active Rain blog I received today not once but twice this message from a fellow blogger via the Contact Form.

"I'd appreciate a response to this question. I have a reason for asking and it may be a no brainer but I'm collecting data for a project.

If you sold a house worth $200,000 and it was a co-broke you would make $6,000 commission.

If you sold $200,000 worth of Fractional Real Estate (Like a Timeshare) you would make $80,000 Commission.

Question is, which would you rather do?"

Puleeze - Even if this real estate professional is sincere in this request, it comes across as spam in my humble opinion.

I don't sell fractional real estate or time shares and know nothing about them so have no interest in being part of this "project". Even my little pea brain knows that if a buyer is paying $200,000 for a piece of property and there is enough profit to pay the real estate professional $80,000 and the builder makes his cut, the buyer is seriously overpaying.

Parasites don't just go away.  They like to hang onto their host making them listless and fatigued.  You have to decide whether to accept them and just hope they go away over time, or to do battle with them. I'm tired of being tired.

I'm ready to fight.

Parasites be gone!

Comments(20)

Ken Tracy
Coldwell Banker Residential - Naperville, IL
Helping clients buy and sell since 2005

Hi Jenny.  Tell us how you really feel...

Keep smiling!

Ken

Jun 25, 2010 04:48 AM
Deborah Byron Leffler BzyBee Real Estate Lady!
Keller Williams Realty Boise - Nampa, ID

Jenny...good post...>LOL  I am starting to put telemarketers phone numbers in my phone...then when they call I don't answer...I love my ignore button!  LOL

Jun 25, 2010 05:06 AM
Jenny Kotulak
RE/MAX Real Estate Centre Inc., Brokerage - Oakville, ON
Broker - Oakville Ontario Real Estate

Hi Ken, you mean my point came across?

Hi Deborah - I forgot that I had a call this week also.  I googled the number and when I saw it was a Las Vegas number and it wasn't any of my AR blogging buddies from there calling me with a referral I didn't bother returning the call lol.  It said it was yet another SEO company that would take us to the ends of the earth with their help.  Well not those exact words. :)

Jun 25, 2010 05:15 AM
Wanda Kubat-Nerdin - Wanda Can!
Red Rock Real Estate (435) 632-9374 - St. George, UT
St. George Utah Area Residential Sales Agent

I agree with you wholeheartedly Jenny and have started doing what Deborah does regarding naming the number source...ignore! One thing that I have been getting a lot of lately are the intrusive recorded messages and they just start blasting away with their product...click! I just have to hang up! Frustrating, for sure!

Jun 25, 2010 05:35 AM
Bruce Walter
Keller Williams Realty Lafayette/West Lafayette, Indiana - West Lafayette, IN

Hi Jenny, and I wish you well in your fight against these spammers, for they have messed with the wrong person!!!

(Us "secret agents" mired in obscurity don't seem to have this problem!)      ^_~

 

Jun 25, 2010 05:55 AM
Jenny Kotulak
RE/MAX Real Estate Centre Inc., Brokerage - Oakville, ON
Broker - Oakville Ontario Real Estate

Hi Wanda, I never answer the phone when it's an 800 number.  Never good news lol.  Oh wait maybe it is.  I may have won a cruise, or a holiday to some wonderful island.

Oh but Bruce they will find you eventually.  They will wiggle their way up from the bowels of the earth and start nibbling at you.

Jun 25, 2010 06:01 AM
Not In Real Estate Any Longer
Autaugaville, AL

Hi Jenny,

I hate to the bearer of bad news, but you will never get rid of them. They have spawn from the invention of the phone and with every new technology, every new method of communication they will continue to grow.

The best way to deal with them is to ignore them. Give them the attention they want, any attention, and they'll start paying even more interest in  you, for you've gone from being a cold lead to a warm one.

As Ken says, just keep smiling!

Jun 25, 2010 06:01 AM
Jenny Kotulak
RE/MAX Real Estate Centre Inc., Brokerage - Oakville, ON
Broker - Oakville Ontario Real Estate

Hi Pam,

I know.  I'm just venting lol.  My bark is worse than my bite.  You  are right they aren't worth the attention.

Jun 25, 2010 06:10 AM
Maureen McCabe
HER Realtors - Columbus, OH
Columbus Ohio Real Estate

Did you use the  Contact ActiveRain  with the member spamming through ActiveRain?  That's against the guidelines. There's a limit something like 10 an hour but that is not the intention of being able to email one another.   In an 8 hour day they can irritate a lot of members.  

I ignore a lot of spam but spam from other members via ActiveRain could be a nightmare.  It has to be dealt with.  Most of us would NEVER think to use it in that way.

 

Jun 25, 2010 06:44 AM
Jenny Kotulak
RE/MAX Real Estate Centre Inc., Brokerage - Oakville, ON
Broker - Oakville Ontario Real Estate

Hi I did Maureen, and I don't know how many he sent it to.  He wrote a post saying the same thing and got points and it wasn't even 50 words. 

Now with the flag gone many members wouldn't even know how to let AR staff know.  Plus on the AR Facebook page Bob mentioned to one member that there is only 2 or 3 (can't remember which) support staff to handle all member's emails.

Jun 25, 2010 07:00 AM
Robert L. Brown
www.mrbrownsellsgr.com - Grand Rapids, MI
Grand Rapids Real Estate Bellabay Realty, West Mic

I get those through my website as well. And yes like you i do it on my own.

Jun 25, 2010 08:54 AM
Ed Silva, 203-206-0754
Mapleridge Realty, CT 203-206-0754 - Waterbury, CT
Central CT Real Estate Broker Serving all equally

Jenny, they can be very annoying. Depending on which phone number they call me on, I will politely ask them to wait a second while I finish something and then just let them sit there. Pretty soon I hear the dial tone again. The emails just get noted as spam and they also disappear as well.

Jun 25, 2010 09:37 AM
Al & Peggy Cunningham, Brokers
RE/MAX West Realty Inc., Brokerage - Brampton, ON
Our Family Wants To Help Your Family!

Whoo Hoo Jenny! Round one a KO over spammers. Now can we give the list of spammers calling us on our cell? How annoying!!! 

Jun 25, 2010 02:30 PM
Jennifer Fivelsdal
JFIVE Home Realty LLC | 845-758-6842|162 Deer Run Rd Red Hook NY 12571 - Rhinebeck, NY
Mid Hudson Valley real estate connection

Jenny I feel your pain, it does get annoying.  Since I am usually interrupted I think I will adopt Ed's tactic.  The other day I was literally running out the door, told this to the telemarketer who wanted to help with my site.  His response was somethings are more important that running out the door.

Jun 25, 2010 02:57 PM
FN LN
Toronto, ON

Hi Jenny - I have never allowed public comments.  So far, I have only deleted one or two comments that were what I call "targeted real estate spam" and a very small amount of the other types of spam on my AR blog.

I also saw the fractional ownership query on someone's blog yesterday or today once or twice.  I couldn't figure out why someone would pay such a large commission.  In any event, I have no interest in timeshares.  They are quite popular in Florida and elsewhere.

Jun 25, 2010 03:39 PM
Carra Riley & Declan Kenyon
Brokers Guild Cherry Creek Ltd - Westminster, CO
Helping people Transition at all ages!

Jenny.....It is such a shame and very annoying to have the parasites continually trying to get into your pocket.  They have nor redeeming quality and are only interested in making a profit from you.  I love your point.

cosmic cow

Jun 26, 2010 06:28 AM
Debbie Walsh
SHAHAR Management - Middletown, NY
Hudson Valley NY Real Estate 845.283-3036

Jenny where are those Bahama Mama's??  LOL

Jun 27, 2010 10:07 AM
Mary Douglas
United Country Ponderosa Realty, Red Feather Lakes, Colorado - Red Feather Lakes, CO
REALTOR, Red Feather Lakes, Colorado

Hi Jenny, I hope you feel better now! LOL  It is so aggravating to be spammed, thank goodness for the delete key.  Think of all the time that's wasted and I wonder if they actually sell anything with the method?  Well, good news...tomorrow is another day :-)

Jun 27, 2010 04:05 PM
Nick T Pappas
Assoc. Broker ABR, CRS, SFR, e-Pro, @Homes Realty Group, Broker/Providence Property Mgmnt, LLC Huntsville AL - Huntsville, AL
Madison & Huntsville Alabama Real Estate Resource

Jenny, I get a lot of the same stuff and have just resigned myself to the fact that we're never going to get rid of it.  My spam filters out on my server usually catch most of it but still a fair amount makes it's way to me and through ActiveRain contacts as well.  It's annoying, frustrating and I'd love to reach through the computer screen and choke the ever loving *&/#!! out of the individual that sent it.

Jun 29, 2010 04:28 PM
Matt Grohe
RE/MAX Concepts - Des Moines, IA
Serving the metro since 2003

Jenny: I disabled public comments about a year ago. Most of them were of the spam or completely irreverant variety. It's amazing some of the stuff I still get through the network though.

Jun 30, 2010 04:44 PM