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The Race Can Be Better Than The Victory - Never Let Go of a Dream!

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Education & Training with Retired Executive Director of Education at eXp Non-Licensed

When I was seven years old, I was inspired by a movie to wanna grow up one day and be a race car driver.  My parents took me to a Century theater for my very first "Big Screen" experience to watch James Garner and Brian Bedford in the movie Grand Prix.  Mom used to tell me that during the movie, I sat there in the seat holding the tips of my shoes as if they were a steering wheel, and believed I was racing down that track with the other drivers in the movie.  I don't really remember that, but I do remember that childhood dream of one day wanting to be on the race track to feel that thrill and to experience the excitement of the "race!"

Last week, my good friends Diana Turnbloom and her husband Steve invited me to join them at Infineon Raceway, (formerly Sears Point) to watch Steve and his boys (Brian and Brad) race.  I've never actually been to this race track even though I have passed by it many times in my travels to Santa Rosa, Napa, Sonoma etc.  I decided to take them up on the offer since this may be as close as I'd ever get to achieving that one small and almost forgotten childhood dream.  Getting to go down in the pit's and be part of the behind the scenes action sounded exciting not to mention that getting to see some old friends would be awesome, so I went.

Diana and Steve are very good friends I met in this business many years ago, and are also active here on ActiveRain.  When they invited me out, I don't think they knew or realized the significance this day would have on me.  It was like a conection with an inner child's dream that had been couped up inside me all these years.  Racing down a long straight-away, sliding into those tire protected corners, and crossing that line to a waving checkered flag!  I could only imagine (in my dreams) what that would really feel like. The thrill, the excitement, the fear, the danger, and the challenge of it all.  Then there's the potential of a victory lap!?!  Oh what I wouldn't give.....


Never let go of a dream folks, the wait is worth it, and the Race can be better than a Victory.

This past Sunday, the stars and planets must have aligned perfectly because this was the day that one of my dreams would become a reality.  When I arrived at the track, Steve and Diana's son Brad, escorted me over to the area where passes are given to the guests and racers.  I signed a form releasing liability in the case of my accidental death, and the next thing I know, I'm putting on a helmet, climbing into the passenger seat of a Spec Miata race-car, fastening down a 5-point seat belt restraint, and realizing that I am about to head out onto a "live" race track where speed, thrills, risk, danger, and dreams become reality! OMG!!


Brad and Steve banking the High Speed Turns at Infineon Raceway

I can't put into words what this experience was like.  I'm still speechless and in shock that this even happened yesterday.  More importantly, I am forever grateful to my dearest friends Steve and Diana and their family for inviting me out and making one of my life dreams come true.  Thanks you guys so much.  Being out on that track, literally flying around those corners at top speeds and feeling those g-forces, was one of the most exhilarating experiences of my life and it was just as I had dreamed it would be as a young child. AWESOME!!!!

Watching that checkered flag wave after 20 minutes of heart throbbing intensity was INCREDIBLE!  The race really was as good or better than a victory, and I learned a couple very valuable life lessons:  Never Let Go of your dreams, and remember that the relationships you establish in life are so valuable, in fact priceless.  It was these friends that helped make one of my dreams come true.

Diana and Steve, you guys are the BEST!  Thank you again, and next time......I'll be driving!  :-)

Never Let Go of A Dream - This Race WAS A Victory!!

Esperanza Butler® 818 926 5425
Your Home Sold Guaranteed Realty - West Hills, CA
Homes For Sale in West Hills, Ca (818) 926-5425

Brad

Congrats on your dream come true

I picture you finishing the race with a baby smile....

 your legs and whole body shaking with emotion, your hart pumping hard..butterflies in your stomach

What a feeling! :)

 

Jun 28, 2010 11:31 AM
Liz Flint
Century 21 Hardee-Team Realty - Houston, TX
Houston\Tomball Realtor (832)816-8066

Hi Brad, what an awesome experience.  I think we all have the urge to go fast.  Glad your dream came true.

Jun 28, 2010 11:42 AM
Carl Winters
Canyon Lake, TX

Brad: Glad your "dream" finally came true. Enjoy the memory.

Jun 28, 2010 01:16 PM
Steve Shatsky
Dallas, TX

Hi Brad... One item checked off your Bucket List!  It's a magical feeling when any dream becomes a reality!

Jun 28, 2010 01:28 PM
Lane Bailey
Century 21 Results Realty - Suwanee, GA
Realtor & Car Guy

SCCA Solo II...  You can do it.  I was just looking for some pics from when I ran Solo, but didn't have any scanned...  It was a ball. 

Jun 28, 2010 03:06 PM
Richard Byron Smith, NMLS #184479
Mortgage Loan Officer, Fairway Independent Mortgage Corporation NMLS #2289 - Chattanooga, TN
Mortgage Loan Officer

What a great treat. Running a fast car on a fast track.

Jun 28, 2010 03:51 PM
Dr. Paula McDonald
Beam & Branch Realty - Granbury, TX
Granbury, TX 936-203-0279

Wow!  What great fun!  I love the saying, "Never let go of a dream!"  True inspiration.

Jun 28, 2010 04:09 PM
Virginia Hepp - Mesquite NV REALTOR
Desert Gold Realty - Mesquite NV Homes For Sale - Mesquite, NV
Mesquite NV Homes and Neighborhoods - Search MLS

What a special gift your friends gave you - I can see you in that car grinning with eyes wide open.

I once dreamed of riding a horse at breakneck speeds through the mountains, jumping over fences, charging through the river - what a thrill that would be, I would be in control of this incredible power of a huge animal - a force of nature, in the elements of the rough terrain of the Truckee River and mountain area....

I should have learned to ride first - or at least had a couple of shots of Tequila.  I was scared to death and sore for weeks.  The saddle was loose and slipped sideways, I was hanging on for dear life down the last hill - someone finally grabbed the horse's bridle and slowed him down to a stop.  THEN I fell off.

Glad yours turned out good.  :)

 

Jun 28, 2010 05:25 PM
Gerry Michaels
Glasswork Media Arts - Gettysburg, PA
GettysburgGerry Social Meida

Brad, great post, you are right on the money with your advice about relationships, your while you don't know came at a very timely manner for me...thanks man, Iam still dreaming

Jun 29, 2010 12:31 AM
Josef Katz
Digital and Direct Response Marketing - Manhattan, NY
{Marketing Maestro}

That is very cool.  How fast did you go?  Was the reality as good or better than the dream?

Jun 29, 2010 01:07 AM
Missy Caulk
Missy Caulk TEAM - Ann Arbor, MI
Savvy Realtor - Ann Arbor Real Estate

I read this the AM on your other blog that I rss feed from. What an exciting time for you.

Jun 29, 2010 01:15 AM
Tammie White, Broker
Franklin Homes Realty LLC - Franklin, TN
Franklin TN Homes for Sale

Brad, I agree that it's the journey not the victory that matters.

Jun 29, 2010 03:21 AM
Fred Carver Real Estate Consulant
Retired BC Realtor - Victoria, BC
Accredited Real Estate Consultant

Hey Brad...what a neat surpise, looks like you had fun out there.

Cheers

Jun 29, 2010 03:29 AM
Brad Andersohn
Retired Executive Director of Education at eXp - Boulder Creek, CA
ActiveBrad - 707.646.1876

Esperanza - you totally nailed it!! 

Liz - it was awesome!

Carl & Ceil - You know i will.

Steve - that is so true, now i need to actually put a bucket list together..  (I loved that movie BTW)

Lane - somehow I knew you'd find this post and comment, I was thnking of you when I wrote it. :-)

Richard - it was exhilarating!! 

Paula - Not only "never let go", but chase those dreams always.

Virginia - OMG! Dare I say get back on that horse and ride again?  Don't give up, that dream is still there so don't let the experience you had remove the desire to still have that dream come true.  That must have been scary as can be, but may also be why so many stop or give up on their dreams. Fear and circumstance can really mess with our heads and keep us from doing and being all that we want or can be.

Gerry - keep dreaming friend, and while you do, make sure those relationships are the highest priority.

Josef - we hauled a$$, and yes, the reality was more than the dream ever expected.

John - just being a passenger in that car was enough to get me feeling "alive" and now wanting more.  

Missy - you know me so you totally understand how exciting it was.  Even better than the simpsons ride in Orlando! lol~

Tammie - enjoying the journey is one of my "life" motto's.

Fred - Best fun I've had since watching that movie!!  lol~

Jun 29, 2010 04:57 AM
Ted Tyndall
Davidson Realty Inc. - Saint Augustine, FL
I will help You find the Home YOU want to Buy

Brad, I not nly agree 100% but the pictures are great.

Jun 29, 2010 10:27 AM
DeeDee Riley
Lyon Real Estate - El Dorado Hills CA - El Dorado Hills, CA
Realtor - El Dorado Hills & the Surrounding Areas

Good for you Brad!  You deserve it. 

DeeDee

PS  I liked your Disconnecting to Reconnect post too.  Great list!  And great reminder to us all.

Jun 29, 2010 05:24 PM
Alice C. Wilson
VirtualExec-Assist - New Albany, IN
virtualexec-assist

Brad,

Sounds like it was a great day.  Thanks for sharing.

-Alice

Jun 30, 2010 01:49 AM
Lane Bailey
Century 21 Results Realty - Suwanee, GA
Realtor & Car Guy

Brad, you can do it...  I had a blast.  And it is still fun surprising my wife (she was busy with high school when I was racing... I married a youngster) with my skills...  She was busy thinking I drove like an old man with a diesel pick-up truck, and I scared the crap out of her with a Mazda 3...

Jun 30, 2010 03:29 PM
John Cannata
214-728-0449 http://TexasLoanGuy.com - Frisco, TX
Texas Home Mortgage - Purchase or Refinance

Looks like a ton of fun. For some reason I was just talking about this with a friend of mine. Im not sure I could sit in the passenger seat while the speed around but Im sure they would allow me to drive either.

Jun 30, 2010 04:37 PM
Not a real person
San Diego, CA

Happy Independence Day!

Jul 04, 2010 12:16 AM