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"Positive Thinking" and "Law of Attraction" are Malarky! Here's why...

I think some of the "Positive Thinking" and "law of attraction" ideas have been taken a little too far.  Don't get me wrong...  I completely understand AND  implement the concepts, but IT DOESN'T WORK if you're sitting on the sofa watching TV at the time!

"Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity"  Seneca

Some people have said that I'm "just lucky".  I don't agree with that statement.  My "luck" would not exist if I didn't spend so much time at networking groups, learning new skills, and implementing new ideas in my business.  I attribute my success in this crazy market to several things:  good marketing, good thinking, and yes, a dose of good luck.

"I'm a great believer in luck, and I find the harder I work the more I have"  Thomas Jefferson

I know many agents are struggling right now and many more have left the business.  But for those of you that are left, it's your DUTY to your clients to be the best you can be and to serve them well.  You can't do that if you're worried and stressed and full of "Stinkin Thinkin".  If you think everything's going to go wrong in a transaction...guess what?  It will!!!  Then when something does pop up on a deal you are going to make it a bigger problem than it really is.

I think that's one of the strengths in myself, my husband, Tim (the mortgage guy) and my brokerage partner, Jeff.  When one of our agents comes to us with a problem on a deal-we  just find a way to solve it!  Every deal is closeable-it's sometimes just a matter of looking at it 3 different  ways before you see the solution-but you'll only see it if your eyes are open and looking for it!

"PATIENCE AND PERSEVERANCE have a magical effect before which difficulties disappear and obstacles vanish"  John Quincy Adams

SO YES I want you to think positive.  But I also want you to ACT positive!  Surround yourself with people that are doing and thinking good things-and you'll find yourself doing great!

One last thought...

"Opportunity is missed  by most because it is dressed in overalls and looks like work."  Thomas Edison

 

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8 Comments on "Positive Thinking" and "Law of Attraction" are Malarky! Here's why...

JUN
30
2010
336,339 Points 11 Featured Posts Outside Blog Attended Rain Camp Called Shot Master

Hi Andy,

Great post!  Very appropriate - we always find that when we really put in a solid effort on a problem, it magically seems to disappear.  How lucky is that?

~Lisa

9:34am • #1
107,884 Points

Andy,  Nicely put on what needs to be done daily.  Be solution based, results driven and pack your lunch every day. 

9:39am • #2
232,789 Points 6 Featured Posts Called Shot Master

Andy, well said and I agree completely, that having a "can do" attitude really works.   ~ Susan

9:47am • #3

Thanks for the post Andy- a lot of people are always asking me for help in one way or another-business & personal. They don't understand that it takes time, dedication and networking as you said.  I (as you ) take as many classes as I can, belong to charities, Chambers and Networking Organizations to learn what I now know.   I love the Tomas Jefferson quote-if we work hard we shall reap the benefits! Thank you for all you do and keep on being "lucky!"

9:58am • #4
456,103 Points 6 Featured Posts Outside Blog

Having a positive attitude is just the first component of success.  You also have to have a realistic workable strategy and then you have to put that strategy into action - typically requiring you to work your tail off especially in the beginning. Excellent post!

11:04am • #5
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Like I always say... everything rubs off...negativity breeds the same..positive attitudes bring positive. No matter what...there is always a light at the end of the tunnel....

 

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10:32pm • #6
JUL
01
2010
168,521 Points 4 Featured Posts Outside Blog Called Shot Master

Andy,  Amen!  Success is usually found at the intersection of hard work and opportunity!  Have a Great Weekend and a Wonderful Independence Day Holiday!

8:26am • #7
JUL
28
2010
125,770 Points Attended Rain Camp

Nice post Andy.

I got rid of the stinkin thinkin years ago, and surrounded myself with positive people.  That was a good start.  Then I began lookin for solutions rather than complain about the problems.  My mentality shifted.  Finally I kicked into high gear with hard work and like Jefferson, my "luck" began to abound.

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