I supposed it's always been there, but maybe I either didn't notice it or my clients were, in the main, all above it. I suspect it's a smidgen of both. But I've started to notice it lately with startling frequency, especially in the Question and Answer section of our nearly 43,000 member Active Rain blogs. Here it is:
"How do I break my contract without cost or repercussion to me?"
Yes, that's it. "How do I get out of my earnest money contract?" or "How do I get out of my lease? It has four months to run." I've noticed a plethora of post like these in the Question and Answer section of Active Rain.
And I admit that my blood boils when I see them, not because of the question, but because of the answer that is usually given.
It's, "See an attorney right away."
They don't need to see an attorney. They don't need to see their minister. The answer is simple. Here it is. It's very straight forward:
"You don't," followed with "Why would you think you should or could?"
"Well there must be a way." OK, if you insist, here it is:
RULE 1. HOW TO BREAK A CONTRACT. If you want out of your contract, you offer to buy it back. That's right, you contact the other party and you say, "I no longer want to do what I said I would when I executed our contract. Would you please sell me your position in it in consideration for the imposition I am putting you in?"
If the price quoted is acceptable, write your check. If it's not, you abide by the terms of the agreement. That's totally as it should be.
"There are enough weasels already out there without adding you to the list."
Well said. Written contracts came into existance because someone a long time ago broke their WORD. We live in a day where it is common to lie and common to break commitments. Our society has suffered because of it.
If you don't keep your word, how can anyone trust anything you say or sign?