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Keeping a positive in a negative setting.....it comes down to choices

By Daniel J. Brudnok, REALTOR

Real Estate Agent with Berkshire Hathaway Home Services Fox & Roach, REALTORS - Exton - PA License #RS-225179-L / Delaware License #RS-0025038 225179

July 16, 2010 04:10 AM

We all learn in business to network, use your close resources to the max and keep yourself out in our social groups as much as possible.

We also need to remember when we do this we surround ourselves with may different points of view, and some that really make us uncomfortable.

We need to realize that some who we see as a source of business can at times be a source of professional, personal and ethical detriment.

PLEASE remember that it is not always about the money, and remove yourself before you get sucked into a situation you do not want to be in or get out of.

I sleep well at night because I have made choices that on the surface seems like I am being rude, yet I make every effort to socialize with those who not only can be a business resource but more importantly an ethical match.

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Lori Bowers

La Quinta, CA

The Lori Bowers Group

Daniel, I loved reading your post! It is so crucial to surround ourselves with as many positive people as we can. Letting go of a client who is not aligned with you is far better then facing stress, frustration and anger down the road. Your right money is not the only motivating factor, our health and happiness matters.

Jul 16, 2010 04:18 AM

Dawn A Fabiszak

Private Label Realty ( Denver metro area, Colorado - Aurora, CO

The Dawn of a New Real Estate Experience!

Dan ~ both on personal and professional levels, we need to be cognizant of those we allow into our circles.

Jul 16, 2010 10:39 AM

Cal Yoder

Keller Williams Elite - Lititz, PA

Homes For Sale in Lancaster PA - 717.413.0744

It is a challenge to resist listening to people who are negative and seem to suck the life out of us. But it is worth it. Thanks for the reminder of this important truth.

Cal

Jul 16, 2010 01:45 PM

Bill Gassett

RE/MAX Executive Realty - Hopkinton, MA

Metrowest Massachusetts Real Estate

Dan I hear ya. I have caught myself a few times maybe being a little over the top because I was passionate about a certain subject.

Jul 17, 2010 09:32 AM

Daniel J. Brudnok, REALTOR

Berkshire Hathaway Home Services Fox & Roach, REALTORS - Exton - PA License #RS-225179-L / Delaware License #RS-0025038 - Downingtown, PA

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Lori,

Keeping the stress at a low point in our lives makes for achieving our goals much easier.

Oct 11, 2010 01:43 AM

Dawn,

We meet so many people in our jobs, not to mention our sphere of influence.....making sure you have a great connection is key to a good overall relationship.

Oct 11, 2010 01:47 AM

Cal,

I try not to jump off too soon, yet with the years of experience behind me I find that I at times I may jump the gun a bit too fast, a tough balance for sure.

Oct 11, 2010 01:54 AM

Bill,

I appreciate the passionate......I know that we all get that way on what is important to us.

Oct 11, 2010 01:57 AM

Keeping a positive in a negative setting.....it comes down to choices

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