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Just when I thought I could do a blog post rant about what I don't like about NAR, they up and go do something noble. Those industry  jerks just got my love back. NAR expanded the Code of Ethics to include sexual orientation as something that REALTORs® should not pratice discrimination on. This gors for professional service, agreements, or employment practices. With all the anti-gay legislation marriage legislation despite the fact that most Americans feel fine with homosexuality, I never thought that NAR would do something like this. I thought they would play it sale, and not "rock the boat". They did. I know the cynics will say well this is purely about business but I am not cynical here. Although the tide has been turning on peoples attitude about sexual orientation, there is still a sizable portion of the country that does not. Remember how California was considered the new state of tolerance in all things? There is an intriguing court battle on gay marriage going on right now.

I should add I am from the Bible Belt, Oklahoma. This is the place where many REALTORS® will gladly but not gayly take a copmmission from a gay, lesbian, or transgender client, then go to church on Sunday and consider it an abomination. Their choice, not mine. I know it is too much to ask NAR, and probably not their job either, to push even harder so that at the very least this sizable group of Americans will have at the very least spousal rights. Growing up in the 1950's I am astounded how far this country has come in 4 decades. We have more equal rights for women, African-Americans have the legal  right to vote without discrimination, Lobotomies are no longer considered one of the  first options for psychological care, and something happened I never thought I would see in my lifetime, an African-American President. We have come a long way baby. Now I would love to see REALTORS® lead the charge for marriage rights for all people. Besides, I have been divorced twice, give someone else a crack at that! 

 
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12 Comments on My Kudos to NAR on their stand on Equal Rights

JUL
19
2010
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Your post on this topic is RIGHT ON Joe.  Good for you for not keeping quiet about your honest hopes, desires, dreams for all folks to be treated equally under the law of our land regardless of their sexual orientation! 

I hadn't even heard NAR revised/expanded our Code of Ethics either.  Where have I been?  Thanks for passing the word and this IS A NOBLE EFFORT on the part of NAR.  Right on to them too!

10:47pm • #1
JUL
20
2010
122,226 Points Hit Router Called Shot Master

Joe, I reblogged your post and there is a small conversation going on over on my blog about your post and topic.  You might want to go over there and check it out! 

9:58am • #2
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Thanks for the reblog Kent. I am headed over to your site.

10:03am • #3
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Joe,

What's the old joke, "They have just as much right to be miserable as the rest of us!" 

You know the divorce attorneys are all for it!

6:37pm • #4
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Liz and Bill, I think you are righ, but I know gay couples who have been together for a long time. It is all in the committment. 

7:56pm • #5
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Joe,

I saw where Russel said he and Jim had been together for like 20 years?  Liz and I only have 5 extra on them!  Had our 25th in June.

11:16pm • #6
JUL
22
2010
778,609 Points 53 Featured Posts Outside Blog Called Shot Master

Joe:  NAR has not created a "new" right.  They have simply recognized that the right for inclusion of gays, lesbians and the transgendered was there all along, and was being ignored.  Same with same sex marriage.  What part of "equal treatment" do those who are against it... not understand ?

9:51pm • #7
JUL
23
2010
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Joe, I was stunned and pleased at NAR's expansion of the code of ethics. Yes it would be great if Realtors would lead the charge in legalizing same-sex marriage, but don't expect more than a dozen Realtors from Tulsa to help! :-(

7:28am • #8
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Joe, I'm in agreement. I think the NAR has made the right choice

7:39am • #9
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Lori:  I honestly do not know HOW you can stand it... with your Progressive attitude... doing business in the middle such a mis-guided state as Oklahoma.

And ok... this calls for my ONLY Oklahoma joke.  Why do Oklahoma license plates have "Oklahoma is OK" on them ?  Because nobody in Oklahoma is smart enough to spell "mediocre."

By the way, I am a fan of Ian and Sylvia... the old singing duo... and one of my favorite tunes of theirs was/is "Twenty-Four Hours From Tulsa."  Are you familiar with it ?

9:03am • #10
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Hi Joe ~ It's exciting news for sure. And you're right - there's been enormous changes in this country in such a short time.  I think, given our incredibly short historic memory, that many forget or are unaware just how recently it was that overt discrimination was the daily reality.  I'm blown away when I think how recently it was that people were prohibited from voting, from staying in hotels, from eating at restaurants, from buying the house that they wanted, etc. - based on skin color.

Liz

9:54am • #11
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Karen, I saw Ian & Silvia in DC in 1967 when I was a college student there. I still love to hear Four Strong Winds, and I followed Ian's career afterwords with his band, The great Speckled Bird. I will also not reciprocate with texas jokes.

Elizabeth, I gres up in the 1950's and 1960's in Oklahoma City when the schools were segregrated and homosexuals were in the closet and considered deviant. To some people in my state they still are. It has been a struggle for me to overcome my prejudices that I grew up with. I remeber going to a party in DC of middle class people and there were 4 of us white and everyone else was black. For the first time I saw a bit of what they saw and it opened my eyes. This is a great country and hopefully we will become more open with freedom for all. I do not scream my beliefs at other agents here but my beliefs are well known. I have the opportunity next year as President of my Board to do a lot more good.

Bill, decisions like NAR made is a blow to my cynicism about what it does and does not do. I am going to NAR training for Board executives next month, and NAR in New Orleans. No organization is perfect, and of course their first responsibility is to preserve themselves. it is the layers behind that wall we need to keep working on. 

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