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Home Buyers, Please Don't be Offended... Just get Pre-Qualified.

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Real Estate Agent with Integrity Real Estate Services 116 SE AVE N, Idabel, OK 74745 141871

Home Buyers, Please Don't be Offended... Just get Pre-Qualified. 

Save Yourself Some Time.  It Really Is For Your Own Good.  


 

I've "lost" more showings due to one particular reason, more than any other.  In fact, 90% of the time if I "lose" a showing, it's due to this reason.  A buyer does not want to get pre-qualified. 

 

 



I live and work in an area that is abundant with folks that are:

  • hard working,
  • resilient,
  • bill-paying,
  • been doing business with the local bank all their life,
  • never been turned down for a loan,
  • got good credit,
  • family been here forever, may even own half the town...


                                                                         .....kind of people. 

 

I know these things.

 

When they call about looking at a home, they'll tell me these things.  

I know, I come from a family that was the same way. 

The salt of the earth, that's what my area has. 

 

I love Southeast Oklahoma and I wouldn't want to live anywhere else. 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

BUT things have changed over the years.  Some of those changes have come about more recently,

 

  • like since you bought your home about 15 years ago..
  • or that last 40 acres you added onto the place 4 years ago.
  • They've even changed since you helped your daughter and new son-in-law buy their place 18 months ago.
  • Or if you have never bought a home...it doesn't matter that grandpa's got money in the bank unless grandpa is going to co-sign your loan, or give you some of his money.  His good credit does is not an inherited asset that he will pass to you.


SO PLEASE DON'T BE OFFENDED when I say to you,

  "There's one thing that the seller has requested I get before I show you the house.  I need a copy of your pre-qualification letter from a lender". 

 

Like I said, don't get offended.  Nothing personal. I have to say that to you, make that request, or I wouldn't be doing my job. 

  • I want to show you the house. I love showing houses.  I love my job.  I love helping folks buy a home.
  • You want to see the house (or at least you say you do).  You say you are seriously shopping for a home.  You say you are going to buy one.


So why do you not want to get a pre-qualification letter?   Do you believe that I doubt that you can borrow the money?  Is that the way you're going to take it,  as an insult?

THAT'S NOT IT.

 

If you've turned the tv on to a news broadcast during the last year or picked up a newspaper and read more than the headlines... well even reading the headlines might do the trick...

you should have figured out that the lending situation, including credit score requirements, down payment requirements, assets to close, etc etc have all gotten more difficult than it used to be.

 

Even your local bank where a hand shake got the deal done will take a lot more than that now.  The documentation that your loan officer is going to ask you for, quite frankly is proably going to surprise you.

Now you ask me, "How is getting a pre-qualification letter going to save me time?"  and "Why do you, the real estate agent, or the sellers want me get one?"

First question - How will it save you time? 

  • If you're serious about buying, you're going to have to get a loan.  Getting a pre-qual letter from a reputable lender... a lender that you WOULD borrow money from.. is the first step in that process.  (I'll even give you contact information for several lenders.)

The lender will check to see if you're credit worthy.  When you find a home that you want, most financing supplementals to contracts default to a 10 day period to get pre-approval on your loan.  Of course all things in a contract are negotiable but the seller is probably not going to want to allow much more time than that when/if they accept your offer.  That 10 days can go by fast and you're going to have a lot on your mind at that time, like inspections, appraisals, moving... "  If you're serious about buying a home, then act like it and get a pre-qual letter. Get the ball rolling for a loan pre-approval. It's just a matter of tending to your business.


  • Second Question - Why do I and the seller want you to do it?  See the the paragraph above...  If you're serious about buying a home...  why would I want to take my time to show you homes if you're not serious?  There are only so many hours in the day and we're all limited, please don't waste mine.  I'll go out of my way to help you with your transaction.. to the nth degree.. if you're serious about purchasing.  BUT you gotta' do your part...get the pre-qual letter.    The seller wants you to because they are going to make sure that the home is ready for you to look at and are going to have you, a stranger, in amongst their stuff.  Getting pre-qualed tells them that you are a serious buyer and not just a lookey-loo wanting to see how they live or because you're curious and you've always wanted to see the inside of that house. A buyer with a pre-qual letter is probably going to get their offer looked at in a better light.  :)


Now you tell me, doesn't it make sense to get at least a pre-qualification letter before you start looking at homes?
 

Pre-qualification letters are the best way to get scheduled to see the homes that you want to see and in a timely manner.  They are an excellent boost to getting your offer taken seriously when you do find the perfect home, investment property, or land. They probably will help you get a seller to take an offer more seriously.

Got that pre-qual letter?  Want to look at that house today?  Call me... I'll be more than happy to show it to you.

Some photos courtesy of Morguefile.

Leesa Finley
RED Properties - Wake Forest, NC
RED Properties - Raleigh NC Real Estate

Absolutely spot on, Judi!  You have really nailed all of the finer points why it is absolutely critical for a buyer in todays real estate market to obtain a pre-qualification letter prior to looking at homes!  Congrats on this VERY well deserved feature!

Jul 22, 2010 01:14 PM
Mike Jones
SUNSTREET MORTGAGE, LLC (BK-0907366, NMLS 145171) - Tucson, AZ
Mike Jones NMLS 223495

Judi,

Arizona Real Estate Commissioner's rules require the buyer to come in with a Loan Status Report (prequal) before an offer can be made.  Makes it easier on the Agent asking the buyer to get prequal'd.

Mike in tucson

Jul 22, 2010 01:43 PM
John Novak
Keller Williams Realty The Marketplace - Las Vegas, NV
Henderson, Las Vegas and Summerlin Real Estate

Very well-written and thorough explanation, Judi. A serious buyer can save so much of their time and ours by just spending a few minutes up front.

Jul 22, 2010 02:27 PM
Terry Chenier
Homelife Glenayre Realty - Mission, BC

I do it all the time. I wom't waste my time unless they are pre-qualified AND locked in at a rate.

Jul 22, 2010 03:07 PM
Dagny Eason
Dagny's Real Estate - Wilton, CT
Fairfield County CT, CDPE Homes For Sale and Condo

I try not to take any buyers out to see homes until they have a pre approval letter.   Great post, Judi!!!

Jul 22, 2010 04:01 PM
Robert Slick
Beach and River Homes - Georgetown, SC
NRBA, RDCPro, Trident/CCAR MLS

You think it tough getting 'em pre-qualified. How about getting them to sign buyer's agency. I let them sign that before I open the door or I leave without showing. Too many buyers don't disclose that they already have an agent.

Good blog on the importance or pre-qual.

Jul 22, 2010 05:51 PM
Nancy Milton Holtzscher
RE/MAX Alliance in St.Louis' Illinois suburbs - Edwardsville, IL
Edwardsville/Glen Carbon, Illinois Broker, REALTOR

Great reminder for our clients, Judi. I have re-blogged.

Jul 22, 2010 06:13 PM
Elite Home Sales Team
Elite Home Sales Team OC - Corona del Mar, CA
A Tenacious and Skilled Real Estate Team

It does not make sense to put a person in the car to show property if they have not been pre-qualified.

Jul 22, 2010 06:36 PM
Home Design
Alpharetta, GA
Home Design and Real Estate

Well done Judi!!  Wonderfully written and to the point. 

Jul 23, 2010 12:11 AM
Margaret Rome Baltimore 410-530-2400
HomeRome Realty 410-530-2400 - Pikesville, MD
Sell Your Home With Margaret Rome

Beautiful post. Just one addition that has been beneficial over the years and has gotten me cash buyers that other agents did not question. Don't forget to ask: "Are you able to purchase without a loan?"

Margaret

Jul 23, 2010 02:11 AM
Carra Riley & Declan Kenyon
Brokers Guild Cherry Creek Ltd - Westminster, CO
Helping people Transition at all ages!

Judi....Great post and really on point.  Buyers have to take an active role in the purchasing process and it starts with the pre-qualification letter!

Jul 23, 2010 03:42 AM
Brad Rachielles
CENTURY 21 Peak, Ca BRE# 01489453 - Upland, CA
REALTOR, CDPE, Upland, CA

Thanks for the post. The industry HAS changed as has the world. Way too many sellers have gotten down to the final stages of the transaction only to find that good, well intending people do not meet the new credit worthiness standards and are left holding the bag. They have lost other buyers because they were "in a transaction". They have lost valuable time - the stress amplified if the sellers are relocating due to transfer, family situations, health or finances. Getting the lender's commitment to lend the buyer money needs to pave the way for the transaction... not happen as an afterthought or a necessary "evil" obligatory during the pending transaction.

Besides, lenders are taking longer to fund because of regulations and appraisal times. There is really no good reason not to get the preliminaries out of the way... "if you are serious about buying".

Jul 23, 2010 05:04 AM
Rob Magnotta
Huntington Beach, Newport Beach, Seal Beach, Irvine REALTOR - Huntington Beach, CA
Huntington Beach & Newport Beach Coastal Specialist

It's so important for everyone involved in the transaction! Great post, Judi.

Jul 23, 2010 05:56 AM
Anonymous
Vicky Amaro

Thanks for a great and entertaining post! Time is taken by granted by too many and this just makes it that much easier for everyone involved! Thanks again, Vicky

Jul 23, 2010 06:25 AM
#62
Lawrence "Larry" & Sheila Agranoff. Cell: 631-805-4400
The Top Team @ Charles Rutenberg Realty 255 Executive Dr, Plainview NY 11803 - Plainview, NY
Long Island Condo and Home Specialists

Oh my, we have a hard enough time here on Long Island getting buyers to sign agency disclosures.  We do agree though that we don't want to waste our time with un-qualified buyers and when we ask if they are pre-qualified and they say no but want to see properties first, we just say....Pass!

Larry & Sheila

Jul 23, 2010 01:42 PM
Sharon Alters
Coldwell Banker Vanguard Realty - 904-673-2308 - Fleming Island, FL
Realtor - Homes for Sale Fleming Island FL

Judi, I know this wastes alot of time for many real estate agents, but in my experience, the buyers we work with are well able to purchase and requiring a pre-qualification up front just isn't necessary. That may change in the future, but for not it hasn't been a problem.

Jul 23, 2010 04:32 PM
Anonymous
Verne

Hi Judi,  This is one of my pet peeves with Buyers, and probably the thing that started the "Buyers are Liars" thoughts.  I get so tired of a "would-be" buyer saying "I have no problem with money".; then after an extensive effort with and for them I find out that the Mortgage Company says "Sorry Charlie"!  Thanks for the good post! We get too soon old, and too late smart!

Jul 24, 2010 12:25 PM
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Christine Donovan
Donovan Blatt Realty - Costa Mesa, CA
Broker/Attorney 714-319-9751 DRE01267479 - Costa M

You can't buy a house without being pre-qualified, and it's unlikely that your offer will be accepted without it.  So, why not just get it done?

Jul 27, 2010 08:29 AM
Barbara Adamson
Keller Williams Realty Atlanta Partners - McDonough, GA
Realtor, Henry Co GA & Owner Adamson & Associates

Judi, I was searching for a blog on AR just now about getting buyers pre-qualified....because it is so difficult here  in GA too!!  They just don't want to hear it, and they don't want to do it.  they just want to see some homes to get a "feel" for what's out there.  Well, I have had ENOUGH!!  I will no longer entertain anyone's fantasy of home ownership unless they have something to back it up...

I just needed some motivation, and thanks to your post and all of the great comments, I now have it!

 

Thanks :)

Sep 19, 2010 06:44 AM
Nick T Pappas
Assoc. Broker ABR, CRS, SFR, e-Pro, @Homes Realty Group, Broker/Providence Property Mgmnt, LLC Huntsville AL - Huntsville, AL
Madison & Huntsville Alabama Real Estate Resource

Judi, wish I got here sooner to suggest...congrats on the feature.  You're quite right when you say things have change.  Sometimes it seems as if lender requirements and financing options change daily.  In my area it's standard to submit a pre-approval/pre-qualification letter with an offer.  Usually, much higher end properties require them to show properties.  I wish all buyers could read this.

Jun 26, 2011 08:32 AM