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Joe Ferrara: God Takes His Best Work Back Early

Reblogger Matt Stigliano
Real Estate Agent with Kimberly Howell Properties (210) 646-HOME

Joe Ferrara - @jfsellius

A lot has been written about Joe Ferrara today and this piece is an excellent example of why Joe mattered to so many.  As I mentioned in the comments, I didn't have the chance to meet Joe in real life, but I knew through others, his blog, and Twitter.  I was enough to have me wake up and feel sad for his family and the RE.net community.  If you get a chance, read his Sellsius blog, stop by the AgentGenius post about Joe, and send some thoughts (or donations) to his family as they cope with the loss of a great man.

Original content by J. Philip Faranda License # 49FA1074963

Joe Ferrara, perhaps at Rocco's in ManhattanHave you ever known, perhaps when there is a death in the family, the kind of kind soul who steps up and generously gives of themselves? Dinner, picking people up at the airport, a shoulder to cry on, they just seem like an angel in a time of need. Those people have our gratitude.

Now...have you ever known someone who was like that every day? Selfless, kind, generous, supportive and good natured, just because they are? That sort of "angel" is rarer still. In my humble opinion, Joe Ferrara, who passed away last night at the young age of 55, was that kind of guy

If you don't know who Joe was, you should. He was the author of the Sellsius real estate blog and was a real trailblazer on the cutting edge of technology, social media and real estate. I had the privilege of meeting Joe through our shared membership in the Lucky Striker Social Media club in New York City last year and he was a source of support and encouragement. I went to my first Lucky Striker meeting last summer at a time when my blogging efforts had begun to tail off. I felt that I didn't have the time. Knowing Joe's notoriety as a blogger, I spoke with him at some of the meetings and he encouraged me to have fun with it and break some rules. It was just a few brief conversations, but I appreciated his warmth, and by the time I saw him again in December of 2009 at Triple Play in Atlantic City, I had jumped back into blogging headfirst. He noticed, and that was gratifying. 

Triple Play was where I had the opportunity to spend the most time I have ever spent with him, and he was committed to raising the bar in the real estate industry. I loved his observations and insights, and I was proud that he was friendly with me. In the ensuing months, whenever he spoke at a local event, such as Westchester Real Estate professionals (which Joe co-founded with Scott Forcino), I was there. I still have notes on my Droid from the January Seminar in White Plains that was almost snowed out. He wasn't charging any money. He wasn't selling anything. He was sharing his knowledge. That was Joe. 

Westchester Real Estate professionals first meeting January 2010. Joe is on the far right.

As recently as this past month, Joe was in the REALTOR magazine with a piece encouraging agents to take on pro-bono projects- this was something he spoke with passion about in Atlantic City. I wasn't the only one who noticed what a happy enigma this man was (I can count on one hand the number of attorneys I actually like. Joe deserved to be counted twice at that). When he got sick earlier this year, there was an outpouring of support

And now that he has passed away, we should mourn his leaving us. I really hoped I could have been around him more. We are all- all of us- diminished without Joe Ferrara. 

 

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Jim & Cathy Wood Greater Nashville Area Real Estate
Crye-Leike Realtors, Inc. - Mount Juliet, TN

I met him once, he was very knowlegeable and I'm shocked to hear he has let us so soon.

Aug 04, 2010 01:01 PM
J. Philip Faranda
Howard Hanna Rand Realty - Yorktown Heights, NY
Associate Broker / Office Manager

Matt- great idea to reblog. I am actually kind of stumped as to how Active Rain could be so silent on the passing of this good man. 

Aug 04, 2010 02:09 PM
Christine Hooks
Pino Agency - Pennsville, NJ
Celebrating 25 Years in Real Estate!

So sorry for everyone's loss, Matt.  Thanks for bringing this to my attention.  I didn't have the opportunity to read Joe's blogs, but I will now.

Take care,

Aug 04, 2010 03:36 PM
Fred Cope
Reliant Realty in Nashville, TN - Nashville, TN
Looking For Homes With A Smile

With sympathies to Joe's family, perhaps a fitting tribute to Joe would be to take time today to speak well of someone like Joe while that person is still with us.  Everyone can use an unsolicited word of praise & kindness.  Let us plant a garden of kind words in Joe's honor.  It sounds like something he would have been more than happy to do...

Aug 04, 2010 05:24 PM
Terrie Leighton
Ferrari-Lund Real Estate - Reno, NV
Reno Real Estate Agent ~ Selling Homes in Reno

This is why the AR re-blog feature is so great. I would have missed hearing of Joe's passing. Never met him but definitely read some of the things he wrote. I feel for his family!

Aug 12, 2010 09:42 AM
Not a real person
San Diego, CA

My best friend drowned in the community swimming pool when we were 12. My best friend from college died of leukemia when we were 32. Sometimes I just think that God needs a little extra help up there in Heaven.

Aug 20, 2010 02:16 PM
Lee & Pamela St. Peter
Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices YSU Realty: (919) 645-2522 - Raleigh, NC
Making Connections to Success in Real Estate

Celebrations in heaven today as sadness engulfs Joe's family and friends here on earth.  Very kind of you to think of one of his posts to reblog Matt.

Dec 14, 2010 02:24 AM