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Why Your Listing Agent Wants You Out Of The House At Showings!

Reblogger Patricia Aulson
Real Estate Agent with BERKSHIRE HATHAWAY HOME SERVICES Verani Realty NH Real Estate

 

Original content by Patricia Kennedy AB95346

Today, I showed several houses to a favorite buyer.  And due to a thunderstorm that blew through town while we were out looking, all these sellers were home for at least part of the showing.  And all of them committed the one mortal sin of real estate.  They chatted with me and my buyer.  Some were more discrete than others.

Now, if your house is for sale, and if you are home when any agent shows up, zip your lip! 

What you think of as pleasant banter is the agent trying to pump you for information she knows your agent would never tell. 

Do you have another place to go.  Have you purchased another house?  Are you being transferred?  Is this a happy move or a stress move?

Are you selling because of a happy new addition to your family?  Or are you in the middle of a mean divorce?  Are you moving to a new city for your dream job?  Or are you selling because your job moved to China without you and you can no longer afford your place?

It goes to motivation.  If you show up as needy and anxious and tell all, the agent showing your home will think you are more motivated than you might be, and the offer might come in a lot lower than what you'd like to see.

Your agent would never volunteer any of this information out of the blue.  

Neither should you!

Sharon Tara
Sharon Tara Transformations - Portsmouth, NH
Retired New Hampshire Home Stager

Great post!  So many sellers just don't get this and they really need to be educated!

Aug 07, 2010 08:41 AM
John Sweeney
Crye-Leike Elite Realtors - Jackson, TN

VEry good information!  I think most of the time seller are not aware of what they should or should not say.  The best advice is to leave the house if that is not possible say as little as possible.

Aug 07, 2010 08:53 AM
Janet Sebile
Coldwell Banker Apex, Realtors - Rowlett, TX

So many sellers think they are actually helping the sell.  I respect every seller's right to make their own decision about their own house.  That's being said - in the sweetest voice possible - please go!

Aug 07, 2010 10:12 AM
William Feela
WHISPERING PINES REALTY - North Branch, MN
Realtor, Whispering Pines Realty 651-674-5999 No.

Boy...no kidding.  I had a second showing on one of my listings.  They wre going to write right after checking acouple of things out.  The sellers were home and teh buyers changed their minds.

The agent told me the sellers talked the buyers right out of making an offer

Aug 07, 2010 03:38 PM
Bill Somerset
Re/Max Realty Group - Dover, NH
ABR, e-PRO - Realtor - NH Real Estate Agent

Great post.  Some people just don't understand it's our job to find out that information.  Trying to be nice or not, we need to find it out.

Aug 08, 2010 02:33 AM
Karen Anne Stone
New Home Hunters of Fort Worth and Tarrant County - Fort Worth, TX
Fort Worth Real Estate

Interesting, thanks for getting it out to us today. It's appreciated.  LOL <smile>

Aug 08, 2010 05:05 AM
Patricia Aulson
BERKSHIRE HATHAWAY HOME SERVICES Verani Realty NH Real Estate - Exeter, NH
Realtor - Portsmouth NH Homes-Hampton NH Homes

Hey John, thanks for stopping by to comment. Glad you liked the post

Aug 09, 2010 03:12 AM
Patricia Aulson
BERKSHIRE HATHAWAY HOME SERVICES Verani Realty NH Real Estate - Exeter, NH
Realtor - Portsmouth NH Homes-Hampton NH Homes

Sharon, I appreciate your taking the time to comment today.

Aug 09, 2010 03:13 AM
Patricia Aulson
BERKSHIRE HATHAWAY HOME SERVICES Verani Realty NH Real Estate - Exeter, NH
Realtor - Portsmouth NH Homes-Hampton NH Homes

Janet,

My favorite saying, "less is more" applies in this case.

Aug 09, 2010 03:13 AM
Patricia Aulson
BERKSHIRE HATHAWAY HOME SERVICES Verani Realty NH Real Estate - Exeter, NH
Realtor - Portsmouth NH Homes-Hampton NH Homes

Good to hear from you William, wow!! What did the sellers say to "talk the buyers out of making an offer?"

Aug 09, 2010 03:14 AM
Patricia Aulson
BERKSHIRE HATHAWAY HOME SERVICES Verani Realty NH Real Estate - Exeter, NH
Realtor - Portsmouth NH Homes-Hampton NH Homes

Hi Bill, Good to hear from you today.

 

Aug 09, 2010 03:15 AM
Patricia Aulson
BERKSHIRE HATHAWAY HOME SERVICES Verani Realty NH Real Estate - Exeter, NH
Realtor - Portsmouth NH Homes-Hampton NH Homes

Thanks for stopping by Karen

Aug 09, 2010 03:16 AM