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Some Things I Wish I had Said to You

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Mortgage and Lending with C2 Financial NMLS #279125


I cherish quotes, poems, articles and books that inspire and motivate.   And, I save a select few that resonate with me in a special way.  Today I was going through my file of favorites saved over the years and because I was so moved by Karen Anne Stone's post "My brother would have been 63 today...... I feel compelled to post a "letter" I gave to my clients and friends back in 1992. 



Some Things I Wish I had Said to You



"I Appreciate You"
You've done much that goes unthanked.  And much of what you have done is never recognized by others.  Someone should let you know that those unsung, unrecognized acts are appreciated.

"I Care"
There are times when we all need to hear those words.  Those "down days" when on the percentage scale, more goes wrong than right.  Had I said it, maybe things wouldn't have changes a whole lot, but you would have known that someone does genuinely car.

"Forgive Me"
Forgotten by me now, I know there were times when my insensitivity contributed to your hut.  I may do that again, but for now, anyway, know that I'm sorry.

"Tell Me About It"
When it was obvious you had some genuine desire to share a part of you, the special part when something unique was happening in your life, I was too busy.  I should have listened.

"Thank You"
I can't tell you how your kindnesses and generous considerations have affected me.  If I didn't say thanks, I thought it.  Now I'm letting you know.

"I Miss You"
There were many times when your absence hurt and your presence would have made life better.

"I Love You"
I really do.  And though our paths might cross at crazy times and our agendas are often different, and the possibility of disagreement might loom between us, I am sincerely interested in what contributes to making up your days.

I can't promise I'll say those things to you every time I should.  But I can promise that somehow I'll know that I should have.  It's that which motivates me to say one more time with a hear full of love and respect:  I appreciate you!



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Deborah "Dee Dee" Garvin

NMLS #279125

 

 

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Paige Walker
Paige Walker - Pineville, LA
Real Estate Guru - Alexandria Pineville LA

Wonderful words to share with those you care about! Beautiful!

Aug 15, 2010 11:22 AM
Li Read
Sea to Sky Premier Properties (Salt Spring) - Salt Spring Island, BC
Caring expertise...knowledge for you!

Very important words...thanks for sharing this.

Aug 15, 2010 12:10 PM
Dorie Dillard Austin TX
Coldwell Banker Realty ~ 512.750.6899 - Austin, TX
NW Austin ~ Canyon Creek and Spicewood/Balcones

Deborah,

Great words.  What a wonderful way to reach out to those who mean something to you - friends, family and clients.

Aug 15, 2010 12:52 PM
Karen Bernetti
Southington, CT

Deborah - I too am a collector of motivational/inspirational quotes.  I am so moved by your words! Right now I feel that I need to send this letter to my children after a particularly crazy week.  Thanks for the reminder we all need sometimes to let the people around us know how much they mean to us.   

Aug 15, 2010 04:54 PM
Terry Chenier
Homelife Glenayre Realty - Mission, BC

Deborah,

That is beautiful. I shall print this because I need it.

Aug 15, 2010 05:11 PM
Deborah "Dee Dee" Garvin
C2 Financial - San Diego, CA
C2 Financial

Paige, Thanks so much!

Sea to Sky:  You are very welcome~

Dorie,  It was a pleasure to dust off this letter and to share!

Karen,  Equally nice that you recognize the need to connect after your week....a lot of us wait years to take that step.  Blessings....

Terry, The highest of compliments...thank you!

 

Aug 15, 2010 06:05 PM
Gene Riemenschneider
Home Point Real Estate - Brentwood, CA
Turning Houses into Homes

When moving I found all my old letters and cards saved from my dad and my grandmother, all dead now.  I cried just reading them.

Aug 16, 2010 11:58 AM
Renée Donohue~Home Photography
Savvy Home Pix - Allegan, MI
Western Michigan Real Estate Photographer

Posts like this put a smile on your face after such a brutal day, thank you - you are appreciated!

Aug 16, 2010 02:35 PM
Deborah "Dee Dee" Garvin
C2 Financial - San Diego, CA
C2 Financial

Gene,  As the only daughter in the family, I have all of the photos, letters, cards and documents from Grandmother and Mother.  And, they kept every letter/card ever written to them.  I am in the process of sorting and separating to return the letters, etc.  to my cousins, daughters and son, nieces and nephews...I think it is important for each of them to know how important their contact with their Grandmother and Aunt were.  I have handled all the family pictures throughout my life and I am quite sure there is not a one left untouched.  Thanks for the nice comment.

Renee, Thank you so much!  Hope your Tuesday is not quite as brutal!

Aug 17, 2010 06:48 AM
Lisa Orme
The Master's Key Realty LLC -Windsor, CT - HARTFORD COUNTY - Windsor, CT
Broker/Realtor, ABR, CRS,GRI, PSCS, SFR, Notary Pu

Wonderful thoughts, Deborah.  A great reminder that if we think these things, we need to take the time out to SAY them when it counts!  Thanks for sharing it with us.

Aug 17, 2010 07:39 AM
Deborah "Dee Dee" Garvin
C2 Financial - San Diego, CA
C2 Financial

Lisa,  How true!  All to often we never get around to saying the things that really matter....and, from personal experience I can tell youi that we don't always get a second chance.

Aug 17, 2010 08:08 AM