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Is There a 100 Screw-Ups in You?

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Real Estate Broker/Owner with Envelope Real Estate Brokerage Inc

This morning I was looking for a document to send to a newer real estate agent that would inspire her and help her get through some tough times she was experiencing. I came across this piece and I did not record who wrote it. I wish I has because this is very sound advice.

"The real estate business is a hands-on business.  No matter how much schooling and education you put yourself through, the only way to really learn this business is to get out into the field and start interacting with buyers and sellers.  Now here's the thing, some things you can only learn by having gone through the experience.  Since you don't presently know many of the things that you need to learn, you are going to make many, many mistakes.  The question is whether you want to make those mistakes quickly, so that you can begin doing things right, or whether you want to make those mistakes slowly, so that it takes you forever to get up to speed.

The bottom line is that you have 100 screw-ups in you!  There is no way around it, so don't even try!  You have got to ask yourself if you are going to be timid and afraid of screwing up, or if you are going to get it over with quickly?
My advice to you is to get out there and "screw-up massively" and as quickly as possible!  If you can get all of your screw-ups out of the way in a week then go for it!"

This may sound harsh but this can be a harsh business , so get out there and get business. It beats moping around, complaining, crying, drinking, swearing or whatever else we do when business is slow.

 

Posted by

Ty Lacroix Broker of Record & Owner

          

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Jeanne Dufort
Coldwell Banker Lake Country - Madison, GA
Madison and Lake Oconee GA

Well said.  Reminds me of the wisdom imparted by the Dad of one of my daughter's friends.

"you will not be ready to recognize the one you will spend the rest of your life with until you have dated at least 5 people.  So get started, and be ready to move on".

Aug 29, 2010 03:35 AM
Ben Benita
Ben Benita - Gainesville, VA
Speaker, Author, Game Changer, Coach

something I learned, when you do screw up, make it MASSIVE, screw up big time, you are MUCH more likely to learn from the big screw ups than the smaller ones!!!

Now get out there, make it happen, and, if you do screw, learn from it!!!!

there is NO SUCH THING AS FAILURE.....failure is "perceived", rather than saying I "failed", say to yourself, I jsut learned what does not work.....nothing wrong with LEARNING!!!!

:-)

Aug 29, 2010 03:36 AM
Larry Bergstrom
Crescent Realty, Inc. Spanaway, WA. - Spanaway, WA
CNE, CRS, GRI

Ty, I like it. Thanks for the post.

Aug 29, 2010 03:37 AM
Bill Gillhespy
16 Sunview Blvd - Fort Myers Beach, FL
Fort Myers Beach Realtor, Fort Myers Beach Agent - Homes & Condos

Good morning Ty,  I will admit that I seem to learn a lot more from making and correcting mistakes than when things are humming along !

Aug 29, 2010 03:43 AM
Don MacLean
New England Real Estate Center Inc. - Easton, MA
Realtor-Homes for Sale- Easton, Mass 02356

Mistakes are nothing more than corrective footsteps to the correct path.

Blaze your own

Enjoy the day

Aug 29, 2010 03:52 AM
Ty Lacroix
Envelope Real Estate Brokerage Inc - London, ON

Jeanne: That makes sense when you are middle aged but to a love struck teen-ager?

Ty

Aug 29, 2010 03:53 AM
Ty Lacroix
Envelope Real Estate Brokerage Inc - London, ON

Ben: Babe Ruth struck out more than the others but he hit more home runs!

Ty

Aug 29, 2010 03:55 AM
Ty Lacroix
Envelope Real Estate Brokerage Inc - London, ON

Larry, Bill and Don: Mistakes are one of the greatest teachers, I for one have been taught alot.

Ty

Aug 29, 2010 03:57 AM
Kathy Clulow
Uxbridge, ON
Trusted For Experience - Respected For Results

Ty - the only person who does not stand a chance of screwing something up is the person who is doing nothing ..... on second thought they are, because they screwed up the opportunity to earn a living at it.

Aug 29, 2010 02:24 PM
Ty Lacroix
Envelope Real Estate Brokerage Inc - London, ON

Kathy, what a great observation, and so true.

Ty

Aug 30, 2010 04:27 AM
Connie Harvey
Pilkerton Realtors - Brentwood, TN
Realtor - Nashville TN Real Estate

Ty, after almost 20 years in Real Estate, I'm still finding new mistakes to learn from! They tend to be more complicated but...

Aug 30, 2010 04:55 AM
Ty Lacroix
Envelope Real Estate Brokerage Inc - London, ON

Connie: Only dead people avoid mistakes so keep making them, it means we are human and alive!

Ty

Aug 30, 2010 12:49 PM
Brian Madigan
RE/MAX West Realty Inc., Brokerage (Toronto) - Toronto, ON
LL.B., Broker

This is very true. Trial and error really reinforces the learning experience.

I spent a lot of time and money on coloured brochures years ago.

Aug 30, 2010 01:26 PM
Ty Lacroix
Envelope Real Estate Brokerage Inc - London, ON

Brian: Trial and Error are not necessarily mistakes, a mistake is if you keep doing it!

Ty

Aug 30, 2010 01:34 PM
Ty Lacroix
Envelope Real Estate Brokerage Inc - London, ON

David: Thanks for your comments

Ty

Aug 31, 2010 07:51 AM
1~Judi Barrett
Integrity Real Estate Services 116 SE AVE N, Idabel, OK 74745 - Idabel, OK
BS Ed, Integrity Real Estate Services -IDABEL OK

I hate mistakes.

I make them.

Everyone does...

I hate mistakes (did I say that already? :)  )

Aug 31, 2010 08:53 AM
Ty Lacroix
Envelope Real Estate Brokerage Inc - London, ON

Judi, mistakes can be good in the long run

Ty

Aug 31, 2010 08:57 AM
Chris Smith
Re/Max Chay Realty Inc., Brokerage - New Tecumseth, ON
South Simcoe, Caledon, King, Orangeville Real Esta

I try to learn from every experience, the good and the bad... mistakes are just learning opportunities

Aug 31, 2010 03:56 PM
Ty Lacroix
Envelope Real Estate Brokerage Inc - London, ON

Chris, so true and learning can be a good thing!

Ty

Sep 01, 2010 05:15 AM