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When was the last time you REALLY played?

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Real Estate Agent with BlueCoast Realty Corporation

Children's Museum of Wilmington

 

This quote hangs on the wall at the Children's Museum of Wilmington.  The museum is a great place for young and old alike, encouraging learning through play.  When I took my granddaughters last week I wasn't sure who had more fun, them or me.

As such things will do, this got me thinking about how little play I have in my life.  There are so many things to accomplish in a day.  Play rarely makes the list.  I've been better about it lately, but for many years I was all work and no play.

I love real estate.  It has afforded me opportunities that I'm sure would never have even been a blip on my radar screen had I not discovered this great way to make a living.  Most of the time, it doesn't even feel like work.

But it can be all encompassing.  Sometimes because I let it be, and sometimes because that's just the way it is.  You know what I'm talking about, we've all had those transactions that almost suck the life out of you.  No matter how hard you try to control them, they just take over.  Thankfully, at least for me, they are few and far between.

And then there are those times when business is so good you can't stop working!  I'm old school -- make hay while the sun shines!  So sometimes I work 7 days a week, 6am to 9pm.  Whew!  Doesn't seem that bad when I'm doing it, but when I write it -- WOW!  What the he#$ is wrong with me?  What does my lack of play say about what kind of person I am?

Have you found yourself in this position?  Have you forgotten to play?  When was the last time you did something playful?  I don't mean tooRunning through the sprinklerk time off -- I mean played!  Have you lost touch with your inner child?  The one that just wants to chuck it all and go run through a sprinkler?

I highly suggest you find that child and let him/her out!!  Go ride a roller coaster, blow bubbles in the backyard, pitch a tent and sleep outside with the kids.  Just do something for the sheer fun of it.  You may discover something new about yourself. 

Give yourself the gift of play -- you've earned it, you deserve it!

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Tish Lloyd, REALTOR®

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Realty World Cape Fear

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Wilmington NC 28405

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Linda Scofield
Toccoa, GA

Good Morning Tish, I like this blog. Doesn't happen enough does it.

Aug 31, 2010 01:27 AM
Liz and Bill Spear
Transaction Alliance 513.520.5305 www.LizTour.com - Mason, OH
Transaction Alliance Cincinnati & Dayton suburbs

Tish, Guilty as charged Yer Honor!  The dual job thing often doesn't leave a lot of idle time.  Once I had to retire from rec league soccer, the couple of hours of play time that was reserved for each week went by the way side.  In some ways, Active Rain is now my play time!

Aug 31, 2010 01:39 AM
Lora "Leah" Stern 914-772-4528
Coldwell Banker, 170 N Main Street, New City NY 10956 - New City, NY
Real Estate Salesperson

Tish, it definitely is amazing how energized you feel after taking time off to play.  I propbably don't do it often enough, but I definitely do do it.  I could't survive happily without it.  For me, it's time spent with family and friends.  What we do is never as important as just being together and putting business and everyday concerns behind us for the time we're together.

Aug 31, 2010 02:41 AM
Glenn Roberts
Retired - Seattle, WA

Fortunately, my wife is an agent and we don't work evey client together, so occasionally one of us says, let's go have fun...and it works for us.

Aug 31, 2010 02:56 AM
Mary Kay Hopkins
Mary Kay Hopkins, LLC e-PRO, GRI, CRS, CRB - Lake Charles, LA
e-PRO,GRI,CRS

Tish, I sooooooo relate to the sentiments in your post!  Before I sold my residential company, it was easier to "play" at work as I was surrounded by a dynamic and FUN group.  While I wanted to sell and move on to my current situation, I do miss the work-fun. 

Having observed through your blogs how you take time to spend with your grandchildren, I wonder if you are being a bit hard on yourself, especially given how much you love your work. 

Aug 31, 2010 03:32 AM
Marian Goetzinger
Pine Knoll Shores Realty 252-422-9000 - Pine Knoll Shores, NC
Crystal Coast Real Estate NC

Tish, since becoming a grandmother, I've definitely learned to play more.  I cherish every moment with those children, so I'm learning to play more.

I love my work as it seems you do too, but work is not the most important thing.  I think we should all take at least a little time for play every day.

Great blog.

Aug 31, 2010 09:38 AM
Tish Lloyd
BlueCoast Realty Corporation - Wilmington, NC
Broker - Wilmington NC and Surrounding Beaches

Linda:  Happy Tuesday!  It really doesn't happen enough and I'm really trying to keep my priorities in line.

Liz & Bill:  Well, take it from me -- life is too short.  Please take time to play together and make memories of non-sensical things!  The Rain is my personal time and I love it!

Leah: This time is very precious to me.  Besides, they're the reason for work in the first place.  Many thanks.

Glenn:  I always loved those spontaneous times off when my husband and I would just venture out together and end up where the wind took us.

Mary Kay:  I do miss having my own company on so many levels, but I have been making a concerted effort to build memories with my grandchildren -- it's priceless.

Marian:  Amazing what we learn from our Grandchildren.  I have to admit there are times I start out wondering how quickly I can wrap things up and get back to work, but before you know it, I've managed to get over myself.  Thanks.

Aug 31, 2010 10:09 AM
Steve Baklaich
RE/MAX Results St Cloud Mn real estate - Saint Cloud, MN
Treating Buyers & Sellers to Full Service Always.

What a fabulous reminder! This is why we work so hard, (and what it says about us is that we are motivated self starters who understand that there are no lost opportunities only ones that someone else got. I am from the "make hay" school of thought too.) :-) Thanks!

Aug 31, 2010 01:33 PM
Will Nesbitt
Nesbitt Realty at Condo Alexandria - Alexandria, VA
Nesbitt Realty is a family-run brokerage.

If only these moments would happen often....

Sep 01, 2010 04:58 AM