So here we are, almost halfway to that special date when my head gets a trimming. Its been quite an experience so far and i can't wait to ride this out and see what else pops up, whether its a thought in my head or an opportunity or experience in real life.
Some things can be explained and others you just have to feel to understand. I can tell you what its like to surf a 6 foot wave, but it won't compare at all to you experiencing it first hand. ok, maybe something you folks can relate to a little better....
...you have a child and your love for that child is all encompassing and it has no end. Your love can extend from one end of this universe to another.. and it will be clear to you. I may think i understand, by relating to the love for my parents or my dog,. but do i really feel what you're feeling.? Now you can tell me about this deepness of love and explain it until you're blue in the face, and the day I have a child it will become clear.. almost instantly.
So getting back on track.. this experience is great for the families and the organization. There is no doubt about that. Nothing makes me happier to hear that they are benefiting from this fundraiser. To give without expecting anything in return in a big thing. You have to give to experience it.. i just can transmit the feeling through words on this blog.. or in person.
So here is the bonus out of all this... Feelings, emotions and thoughts that I had not experienced before, the perspective has changed. Yes, a shift in perspective because of the experience. I've always been grateful, as my first post on AR shows. I've always have compassion for others, without a desire to hurt anyone. But now the experience has taught me something.. well a few things. And i'm sure it will teach me more things as the date approaches, as the hair comes out and then as i'm walking around with a new look. Other people's reactions, my ego and other factors will influence my thinking and cause me to grow, as situations arise.
So it seems that this is a WIN, WIN, WIN, WIN. WIN for the families.. first and foremost. WIN for the non-profit agency helping these families. WIN for the people who donated and got that love buzz.. and WIN for me, as little Nicky grows a bit more (figuratively speaking of course;)
Look at these posts below that the AR members have written.. it shows how much they care and want to help.
There has got to be something in there.. and there is.. the feeling of giving, helping and doing something good or great for another human being without expecting something in return.
aahhh... gotta love it! but you gotta DO it to experience it..!!! You can find a way to give if you really want to!
Ruth & Jim Jacobs - Nicolas, Our Hero, Shaving His Head for "Hugs for Kids"
Rick & Ines - Shave your head for charity - Let's help Nick's fund raiser
Fran White - Bald in the Rain
Maggie Dokic - Will You Give Up 1 Dinner Out To Help A Child?
Sarah Cooper - Time to Strap On Your Wings!
Sarah Cooper - Is That All You Got?!
Celeste 'Sally' Cheeseman - A Broader Look at Our Active Rain Community: Support and Aid for those in Need
Shane Leady - Apella's Friday Community Connection - Active Rain Members Support Their Communities
I'm looking for guest writers at the ShaveyourHeadforCharity blog.. got any feelings or thoughts related to donating or charity that you want to share? Just register and I'll grant you author access within the day.
** I also want to mention that Karen George can use your help too.. **
Contributions For Karen George: Response To What You Can Do To Help
The Outpouring Of Love for Karen George
We Have The Power To Raise Over $400K For Karen George
Calie Waterhouse's Post - PLEASE PRAY FOR KAREN GEORGE
the compassion of Active Rain, a few kind words would mean so much
Karen gave of her knowledge in a selfless manner. I think she knows the feeling i'm talking about. Time to help her out as well. I know i cut two checks this month, one for Karen and one for HUGS for Kids.
is this a great community or what? come on, group hug!! ;^)
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Maybe you should have two fund raisers:
1 to keep your hair, the other to shave it. Which ever raises the most cash wins.
So, do you have a pretty scalp or boo-boo scars?