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I Went on Vacation and the World Did Not End

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Real Estate Agent with GreatNorfolkHomes.com (757) 560-0881

In August, I went on vacation to England.  My husband is a first generation American and we were all dying to see the aunts and cousins we love but rarely get to see.  This is not a unique story, however, this time I handled my work in a manner which was totally new to me.  I turned my business over to a trusted colleague and never once checked voice mail or called back to the US to make sure that all was under control.  And guess what?  When I returned, everything WAS under control!  She even managed to move up the closing on one of my listings so that we closed several days early.  (Sue, you are my hero!)

I have to admit that I am, at heart, a control freak.  Usually, when I go on vacation with my family, I am the annoying person who is constantly checking emails or calling back to the office.  I have called back while in the middle of Disney World, on a boat in the Caribbean, and at a ranch in Colorado. My family resents it but they have learned to tolerate my foibles.  This time, I was determined to really BE THERE for my family.  And the world did not end and I came back to happy clients.  I did learn some lessons along the way that will help me to make sure that I can repeat this experiment.

  1. I prepared my clients well in advance.  I started talking to my clients a month before the trip and let them know that I would be leaving the country and told them all about the person who would be handling my business while I was gone.  My colleague informed me that my clients were great about calling her when they had an issue and did not treat her in any way that would indicate that they were uncomfortable with the arrangement.
  2. I chose someone that I trust implicitly and admire for her professionalism.  I am not a member of a team so picking the right person was one of the most important decisions.
  3. I organized my files and provided instructions for each file so that it was easy for her to see at a glance where we were with each listing and buyer.  I did not want her to have to search for anything. All contact information and status was highlighted.
  4. We agreed to all options for compensating her for the work she performed, including sharing a percentage of several transactions.  In July, Gloria Valvasori wrote a great blog about a Vacation Agreement to use so that there are no grey areas when you go on vacation.  I used this as the basis to have this discussion with my colleague.  Thank you Gloria!
  5. I did not micromanage her or second guess her when I returned.  She did a great job of handling my business while I was away.  Did she handle it exactly as I would have? No.  But did she do a great job and were my clients happy?  A resounding YES.  And that is all that matters.

The moral to this story is a little preparation and the willingness to let go allowed me to have FUN with my family and create some lasting memories.  And isn't that a big reason why we are all working so hard in the first place?

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Sure it's possible if you let it.  However being across the pond like you were almost forces you to let go.  Thanks for a great blog post.  I did the same when I went to VT for a couple weeks.  Being proactive is a good way to be and it's respectful to the person that is backing you up while you're gone.

Sep 06, 2010 12:26 PM
Kathryn Maguire
GreatNorfolkHomes.com (757) 560-0881 - Chesapeake, VA
Serving Chesapeake, Norfolk, VA Beach

Josee:  Thanks for stopping by!!  It was definitely a new experience and my eyes were opened to the fact that I can actually let go and the world will not end.  The time with my family was much better as a result.

Sep 06, 2010 12:33 PM
Cynthia Larsen
Cotati, CA
Independent Broker In Sonoma County, CA

Now that takes raw courage! I too am a control freak and I don't know that I could do that. Good for you, you are a vacation inspiration!

Sep 06, 2010 01:00 PM
Jennifer Dulmaine
Keller Williams Realty - Spencer, MA
Seth Campbell Realty Group

Kathryn glad to hear your vacation was wonderful and your business didn't fall apart:)

Sep 06, 2010 03:05 PM
Emily Medvec
eXp Realty LLC - Santa Fe, NM
Broker | Realtor | Serving Santa Fe & Northern NM

Congratulations! We have the business we create and it does include vacations and time away to re-charge!

Sep 06, 2010 03:42 PM
Deborah "Dee Dee" Garvin
C2 Financial - San Diego, CA
C2 Financial

Kathryn,  From one control freak to another, this post makes my day!  I am finally "there" and will be looking for someone who will share the love and cover me in the coming months.  I think you hit it perfectly with the advance preparation and the advance expectation/agreements....Wonderful example that we CAN step back and have a life!!  Thank you, Thank you, Thank you!

Sep 06, 2010 04:12 PM
Scott Hayes
(512) 786-8300 - Austin, TX
Realty Austin, Broker Associate

Great post Kathryn. I used to travel a lot, and one of the biggest fears in this business is being gone too long. But you have suggested a nice blueprint.

Sep 06, 2010 05:17 PM
Kathryn Maguire
GreatNorfolkHomes.com (757) 560-0881 - Chesapeake, VA
Serving Chesapeake, Norfolk, VA Beach

Scott:  I was only gone for ten days but it did teach me that I may be good but I am not indispensable.  (Shh...don't tell anyone else!)

Deborah:  And it made my family so much happier. That was the best part!

Emily:  Recharging is so important and it makes my work so much more effective when I returned.

Jennifer:  It was a good thing...I did not think it was possible but it seemed to work.  From now on, my vacations will truly be a vacation.

Cynthia:  I do admit that I was scared when I returned and was practically hyper-ventilating when I checked voice mail.  But it was all for naught...my colleague had it all covered!

Sep 07, 2010 02:41 AM
Carra Riley & Declan Kenyon
Brokers Guild Cherry Creek Ltd - Westminster, CO
Helping people Transition at all ages!

Kathryn.....I'm so happy that your experiment worked out so well.  I agree that we must be able to go on vacation and turn our business over to a trusted colleague.  Our family deserves to have us really with them and not on the phone or email.

Sep 07, 2010 05:59 AM