What is going to be most different next year is the reshaping of our systems and team.  My partner and I have logo bcworked together about five years and both of us are control freaks in our own way.  The most amazing phenomenon is that if we substitute on an appointment for each other or cover while the other is away - our clients seem just as happy and satisfied if we had shown up ourselves.  We like to be independent and are moving towards an integrated team model - simply because our luck has presented some really great people for us to work with and ways to improve our ability to service our clients.

Another consideration is the ability to streamline costs and that is a huge discussion.  We both like our technology toys, our internet toys, and our complete independence.  There are a lot of duplicated expenses and we are looking towards a method of eliminating those and perhaps investing in systems that will minimize duplication of efforts.

We have come to the conclusion that we are ready to do more together and less apart.  I guess it is easier for the husband/wife team - they are all coming out of one bucket.  What that means is one of us has to give up our ego and the quid pro quo is that the other has to give up control.  One of us will be the managing partner and the other will have the gloryof the production awards .

So, I ask you...EGO or CONTROL...which would you choose and why?

 

 

7 Comments on What is more important EGO or CONTROL?

AUG
25
2007
124,268 Points 3 Featured Posts Outside Blog
I don't think it's easier for husband/wife teams. I think that if you have a partner that you can get away from for part of the day, it keeps things fresher. I know a lot of very succesful husband/wife teams, but I would prefer to keep business-business and personal-personal.
9:21am • #1
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I meant is is easier financial for the husband/wife team...probably not emotionally!

9:27am • #2
7 Featured Posts
Yvette, I would have to say, "Ego", because I am just too much of a control freak. Either way, you'll have to make sure you have things very clearly spelled out in your contract. Otherwise, it could all turn bad sooner or later and you won't be protected.
9:29am • #3
130,028 Points Outside Blog
As long as you both know where you are and not stepping on toes you do not have to give up either, just respect the other. I know certain times of the month are more challenging than others and if you finally cannot respect the other then part and try to still be friends.
9:35am • #4
AUG
26
2007
105,410 Points 12 Featured Posts

I would sleep with one eye open. Nobody can breeze through life like Bruzee and be so dog gone likeable. He is like the real estate agent equivalent of "ghostbuster". Any problems in that group can be easily resolved. Just have the lovely Miss Kim walk in and smile. Everything will be o.k.

jmac

8:01am • #5

EGO is an over-compensation for insecurity. Overt CONTROL is an overcompensation for weakness.

A husband and wife team? The word is 'team' - and the answer is mindset. Are you truly ready to play to your strengths?

9:35pm • #6
 sounds like you may have a problem with both since they go hand in hand.  Neither is good.
10:20pm • #7

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