We like to think of ourselves as smart, creative people, with good minds for marketing and the ability to negotiate a deal.  After all, these are the character traits of a good REALTOR®, right?  But sometimes we tend to get so caught up in the latest and greatest things that can give us an edge on the competition (technology, marketing tools, etc.) that we lose sight of the most important thing that we can offer to people - Customer Service!

 

 

 Lost in the shuffle of striving to be the best that we can be, we sometimes forget that the smallest of gestures can be more powerful than even the most extraordinary marketing campaign.  It is widely accepted that the best business that any of us can do is repeat business with past clients and referral business from those same happy clients.  No marketing campaign can come close to the validation that one receives by getting a glowing referral from a past client, because the marketing campaign is self-serving, while a referral is given with the idea of someone helping someone else out.

I have read about some exceptional marketing ideas on Active Rain, but the marketing idea that inspired this blog did not come from something that I saw on Active Rain.  It didn't come from another real estate blogging site or anything related to the real estate industry for that matter.  The idea actually came from one of the kids that live on my block.  It is one of the most simple, yet effective ideas that I've come across in some time.

 During the summer months, kids on the block often set up a lemonade stand and charge something like $.50 / glass.  The price is certainly not expensive, but I would just as soon go into my house and pour myself something from my refrigerator before taking out some pocket change and buying a glass of lemonade from these kids knowing that the lemonade may not even be good.  They are just kids, not marketing or sales gurus, but their idea of marketing is screaming "ice cold lemonade!" to passers by and hoping that people will stop.

Today, our doorbell rang and it was a neighborhood kid that never set up a lemonade stand before.  My wife answered the door, and the young boy cheerfully greeted her by saying that he was going to be setting up a lemonade stand tomorrow and he'd like to invite us to come to his lemonade stand, and offered her a complimentary glass of lemonade and a handful of crackers at the door.  I, of course, was busy blogging when my wife came up and told me what had just transpired and I thought to myself - BRILLIANT! 

 

 

 I will go down the block tomorrow and buy a glass of lemonade from this little entrepreneur-in-the-making, because he did something extraordinary and put our needs before his.  For all he knows we may have just eaten the crackers, drank the lemonade and forgotten that he ever came to the door today, but we won't because he made a lasting impression on us. 

 

There is a lot that can be learned from this budding entrepreneur, such as:

  • Don't underestimate the power of a simple gesture
  • Do the little things that capture peoples' attention and make them want to work with you
  • Put the needs of the client or customer before yourself and they will appreciate you for it, and pay you back with referrals and repeat business
  • Help people without the expectation of receiving something in return

 

 I believe that this is the mindset of the majority of Active Rainers when it comes to helping each other out.  Most of us give without ever thinking about what we will get back in return because we enjoy sharing and building relationships.

 

What would our business look like if we treated all buyers and sellers the way that we treat other Active Rainers? 

 

What simple gesture can you offer a buyer or seller that would allow you to differentiate yourself from the competition?

 

 

 Just think of the impact that "a couple of crackers and some lemonade" can make on your business.

 

 

 

Please share your thoughts on this concept and also any simple gestures that you've done for clients that have had a positive effect on your business.

**If you'd like to read about the negotiation tactics as taught by a different child, please check out The Power Of Being A Good Negotiator.**

 

135 Comments on A Brilliant Sales Technique – So Simple, Even A Child Can Do It

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Great post...gave it a 5
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JULIE:  Thank you for the kind words and the rating.  I really appreciate it.
9:14pm • #3
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STEVE:  Thank you for the compliment.  I put a lot of thought into getting the right graphics to help tell the story and I really appreciate it when it gets noticed.
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I can't agree with you more.  While some try to impress with designations from A to Z, the most important thing is realtionship building, service and listening.  ou are absolutely on target with this post.
9:54pm • #5

Ah, the imagination and simpleness of kids!  Isn't it amazing what kids unknowingly teach us sometimes?

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JOAN:  Thank you for your comment.  While I am interested in pursuing designations, I have often found it comical to just list these as part of who you are with no explanation.  One of the items in my listing presentation is a brief blurb about what an e-PRO is and also about what being an SRES means to them.  Otherwise, I may as well just show up to the appointment with a can of alphabet soup and let them pick out some letter combos that mean nothing to them.  I've always believed in the relationship build much more than the "look at me" marketing campaigns that are so pervasive in our industry.  I'd rather subscribe to the WIIFM (what's in it for me - the clients) mentality.  Thanks again for commenting.
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DAVID AND KRISTIN:  Being the parent of a child about to enter Kindergarten in a few weeks, there isn't a day that goes by that I don't smile in awe at the mind of a child.  If we could all tap into that instinct, I think that we'd be better off for it.  Thanks for your comments.
10:05pm • #8
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Great graphics in your post Adam.  Can you tell a newbie (me!) where to find that "subscribe to my blog" thing at the bottom?
10:19pm • #9
Great post. Very insightful.
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LISA:  Thanks for your comment, and welcome to Active Rain.  I actually spent a long time searching for something like this after seeing it on a few blogs.  It is not something that is readily available on Active Rain.  You need to do a Google search for "website buttons."  Find one that you like and create it.  Once you create it, you can save it as an image, or you can try to find a ready-made one, but I didn't have much success with that.  Once you save the image, you need to insert it manually into each blog.  At that point, it is just a graphic with no link.  By a lot of trial and error and research, I found that you then have to click on the image so that it is highlighted.  You then need to click on the link button (it's the one right next to the 1,2,3 bullet points on the bar where you can bold, italicize or underline something).  A box will pop up.  At that point you need to attach a link to your blog page.  It's a bit confusing, so if this didn't help, please feel free to call me and I'll try to walk you through it.
10:26pm • #11
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DEB:  Thanks for the compliment.  I really appreciate it.  It's amazing what we can learn from children.
10:27pm • #12
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Thanks for the directions Adam.  Hopefully I can get it to work!
10:53pm • #13

Great post -- I don't have children yet, but when I do... I want MY son to be that kid someday!!

(until then, I'll have to work on being more like him myself)  :)

11:00pm • #14
You are so right.  When it comes down to it you have to get out and  be in front of people every day.  Not in the office pecking away on the computer.  This child had the basics down.  Human contact.  He went to your door and ask you to buy his lemonade.  I have gotten listings the same way.  I ask.
11:16pm • #15
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Hi Adam. You're right. So often, we trydo outdo ourselves and reinvent the wheel unnecessarily.
11:27pm • #16
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Adam - great post.  Great reminder too. 

Jackie  

11:29pm • #17
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Adam,

What a great story! I agree, its all about relationships and the little things that make a big difference. :)

11:39pm • #18
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I need to make a habit of reading this board more often.  Great stuff here tonight.  In this time of transistion, relationships are where it's at.  We need to relearn how to builid them.  Thanks for the story.

11:59pm • #19
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Adam, Kids are such creative little creatures!   I think we "squash" them too much and tried not to do that with my kids while they were growing up.  The world is so different when you get down to their level....Wonderful post!
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Adam - You are getting very prolific with your writings.  I enjoyed this post a lot.  You may be destined to be a sales trainer if you haven't already done this.  By the way, I have a stupid question - how do you get the photos next to the text in your posts?  I am not great with html - just curious.  I can get a photo above or below text, but not next to it.

I also rated this post a "5".  It should be required reading for those looking to market themselves in any business. 

12:52am • #21
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Adam

Isn't it funny how the little things always matter.  These little things, I feel help define us as who we are and how we enjoy helping others.  For example, I had a client who called me today in need of my help.  He bought his home about 9 months ago, closed had a home warranty etc.  Well his A/C Unit went out.  Now in Long Island, that may not be a big deal, however in the Phoenix, Arizona Market, this is life or death.  I helped him track down through his closing papers who the home warranty company was so he could get it fixed.  Its the little things and he will remember that.  People always remember the little things.

Great Post and Pictures. 

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LISA:  If you can't get it to work, please feel free to contact me for help.  Good luck.
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DAN:  Thanks for your comment.  We can all stand to be a little more like this kid and many others like him.  Simplicity + Enthusiasm often = Success.
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VICKY: If you don't ask you don't receive.  One of the things that I like about Brian Buffini (just getting started with his concepts) is that he teaches you to "gently" remind people that you're never too busy for referrals.  We probably all had this in us at one point in time, but somehow it gets lost when life gets in the way.  I'm glad that you liked this.  Thank you for your comments.

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ILYCE:  I am guilty of trying to reinvent the wheel at times myself.  Sometimes we get these "A-Ha" moments, and this was one of them.  Thank you for your comment.
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JACKIE:  Thank you for your compliment.  Sometimes we all need a little reminder to put us back on track.  I'm glad that you found this helpful.
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SUZANNE:  Thank you for your comment.  Sometimes the little things go a lot further than the big things that we thought would have a huge impact.  The nice part is that when you do a little thing you don't have an expectation anyway.  Big things tend to make us more anxious about the results.
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KATE:  You are absolutely right.  In this market we have no choice but to be the best that we can be.  It truly is the silver lining of the market, because it will weed out the ones that don't do the right thing.  Thanks for your comment.
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CAROLE:  Thank you for your comments.  I also have tried to inspire my child to reach for the stars, and tell him that he can do whatever he sets his mind to.  Not a day goes by that he doesn't say something that has me beaming with pride.  We can always learn something new, and kids are great teachers.  I'm glad that you liked this post.  Thanks again for your comments, Carole.
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JASON:  Thank you so much for that very flattering comment.  I really feel that I've "found my voice" as they say in the blogosphere.  I have thought about getting into the training field at some point, and I am going to be writing a book in the very near future.  I really had no idea what I was going to do with it once it's finished, but I'm hoping that maybe the Active Rain community can help steer me in the right direction.  Thanks for the rating too.  I really appreciate it.  I actually was planning on posting something else and then this moment of inspiration happened.

As far as the photos are concerned, this is what I do.  I place the cursor on the line that I want the photos to appear on.  Once I've downloaded the photo, I click on the "appearance" tab.  Use the alignment pull down box and set it to either "left" or "right."  It doesn't always work, and it does get a little frustrating at times when it needs to be redone.  I had this set up perfectly on your worst photos contest and then for some reason the photos disappeared and I had to change the format.  If you have any issues with it, please call me and I'll help you through it on the phone.

3:26am • #31
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GARY:  Great story of making a difference just by putting in a little extra effort.  I'm sure that it was greatly appreciated.  By the way, it definitely matters on Long Island.  We don't have the triple digit temps, but we do have 90's and very humid.  If my AC broke, I'm leaving the house until it's fixed.  Thanks for your comments, Gary.
3:30am • #32
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Nice post Adam. Seems like the lemonade business is getting tougher too.
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JOE:  (LOL) Yes, I guess in these tightening times when gas is hovering at around $3 per gallon, the money has to be saved someplace else, and the "little guy" is the first one to feel the pinch.  Thanks for your comment, Joe.
3:33am • #34
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Adam, remember the kids name, I'd be willing to bet he's going to be famous.  Then you can tell the "Guess what he did?" story years from now.  

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Adam:   Excellent post and how true!  That bright kid may trump the Donald! I especially liked this comment, " Help people without the expectation of receiving something in return".  This is what I was taught growing up and I've got to say, I've been totally unprepared that this seems to be right the opposite in real estate.  Very, very rarely if ever, now that I think about it, has anyone in real estate helped me out without the expectation of getting paid and I don't mean taking over a client or anything on a large scale, but  something as simple as a little advice.  That's one really great thing about Active Rainers, I have found so many helpful and kind people who don't expect a darn thing and they are the ones who deserve it the most.

 

6:48am • #36

I can not believe how much I have been learning from everyone. Adam that was great.. that has so inspired me to get moving and start to think out side of the box

Thanks so much

6:52am • #37
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Adam - Another great post man! I gave you a 5. It is so true when you get caught up in marketing, marketing plans, self promotion, and the like you forget about the most important things like building quality relationships. This is something I am sure lots of people overlook sometimes. I know I certainly have. As I already told you, I love how you are incorporating your pictures. You are doing a fanstastic job with this. I wish I had your talent. Where do you get all your great pictures?
7:09am • #38
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Adam, there are times we need to just go back to basics to realize how easy it is to be a great realtor. You have really outdone yourself on this one.  I gave you a high 5!
7:36am • #39
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Adam, many entrpreneurs started off doing lemonade stands. Great post, I always try to stop, it is such a BIG deal to the kids. Relationships and referrals are always the best way to build and grow a business.
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'Really enjoyed this, and gave it a "5" - You're right, a lot we can learn here.  Sometimes I think we take our past clients for granted, and just a little gesture would go a long way.
8:24am • #41

You are right.  It is often the simple things that leave a lasting impression.  I'm actually finding that my blog site is of service to my clients and past clients.  I've made a practice of wrting about things I'm interested in in real estate....especially things related to how the market is doing.  On a weekly basis I email my sphere of influence list with a list of that week's blog topics. The blog gets a lot of traffic that way and I get good comments from clients.

 

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It is an excellent lesson. Thanks for sharing and have a great weekend. Its a Fiver.
10:58am • #43
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KRIS:  I will write it down so that I don't forget him.  Thanks for your comment.
11:32am • #44
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DONNA:  I believe that Acitve Rain is so popular because of the fact that you give and give, and yet you get more in return than you ever could have hoped for.  It's like having a huge consulting firm working for you at no charge.  The best part is that we not only get the great advice, but we also become educated about the entire real estate market, and not just our local community.  It's very powerful when you think about it.  Thank you very much for your comments.
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ANITA:  I'm glad that I was able to share my inspiration with my friends on Active Rain.  I get so much great information here, that I'm happy when I can do something to give back.  Thank you for your comments.
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BILL:  Thank you very much for the compliment.  I am truly humbled.  I've been inspired to write for so long, but never had an outlet.  Active Rain has given me the perfect outlet.  I think that for all of us, sometimes it takes the mind of a child to inspire us to just do something simple.  That being said, I find your blogs very informative and helpful and you shouldn't diminish the talent that you have.  I'm sure that others would agree.  We all contribute in our own way.  Let's set aside some time to talk on the phone this week do discuss some of the thing that take up too much space in the comments section.  Thanks for your rating, it is greatly appreciated.
11:41am • #47
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KAY:  I truly believe that I am amongst greatness everyday on Active Rain.  There are a lot of REALTORS out there, but many of them don't share the same values and that's ok, because there are enough of us that do share these values right here.  The more time on spend on AR, the more I realize that this profession really does have some amazing people.  Often times, I don't get that feeling when I see some of the shady dealings and misrepresentation that goes on.  It doesn't seem so difficult to me to hold high values, but I guess that it goes deeper than the profession, it's a part of the fabric of who we are as individuals.  Thank you very much for your comments, Kay, and for the rating.  It is greatly appreciated.
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MISSY:  I couldn't have said it better.  I think that it's great to see the entrepreneurial spirit in a child.  It's nice to see one that is willing to go the extra mile and not just stand on the street shouting and you.  I'm always looking for inspiration.  I find a great deal of it on AR, and this was just one more reminder that it can come from anywhere.  Thanks for your comments Missy.
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MARGARET:  Thank you for your comments and for the rating. I really appreciate it.  You're right about taking past clients for granted, which is why I am in the process of learning the Buffini systems.  It doesn't allow you to take anyone or anything for granted.  It is very powerful, and I'm looking forward to fully implementing it into my business.  Thanks again for your comment, Margaret.
11:55am • #50
Hope you gave that Kid your card!  Who knows, he may be calling you in a few years after he makes his first million in quarters.  Good post. 
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DON:  Great idea using the blog to show your real estate knowledge.  I will get to the point where I do the same.  It's something to aspire to.  I'm in the process of working in some systems, but this will definitely be part of it.  Thanks for your comments and the great idea.

11:56am • #52
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HERB:  Thanks for your comments and for the "fiver."  I really appreciate it.  I'm happy to share, and I'm glad that my fellow Active Rainers saw value in this post.  Have a great weekend too, Herb.
11:58am • #53
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CHAD:  Thanks for your comments.  Maybe I'll recruit the kid to head my marketing department.  I'm sure he's well on his way to becoming successful.
12:00pm • #54
Adam - Normally the simplest ideas pay off the biggest return.  I think that in our market, getting back to the basics will insure your survival.
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Adam, what a very well written post!  A very enterprising young neighbor you have there.  Simplicity is key in many things in life!

5:15pm • #56
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JOE:  It's definitely time to get back to basics.  It's good to be creative and come up with new things, as progress should never be intentionally stifled, but sometimes we get so caught up the "new" that we forget about the "old."  Thanks for your comments.
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Adam, wow!  I'm gone for a weekend of Class 5 rapids whitewater rafting and on returning my condo has been struck by lightning, my wife evacuated, we're staying with my in-laws, I was interviewed on the local news, and and you've written several GREAT posts!  Stay tuned for more details on these exciting developments.  Still blogging away through it all.
9:13pm • #58
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BRIAN:  First of all, I hope that everything is ok with you, your wife and your home.  I hope that you had a good time on your trip.  Whitewater rafting is very cool.  I can't believe your dedication to blogging.  It's astounding!  Thanks for the compliment on my posts.  You are the inspiration for my first 2-part blog, so I hope that you enjoy it.  I'll talk to you soon to check in and see how you and your wife are doing.
10:03pm • #59
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At any time inspiration can come in any variety of circumstance or event. Isn't it amazing that a child can teach us, "the professionals" such an amazing lesson on marketing and service

11:15pm • #60
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Adam... I read this a few days ago, but then got busy. At that time, there was 4 comments... now, 60.  lol   So here I am....

In any case, a very good blog. I soooo agree that so many of us forget about past clients as referrals. This could be your number one source of business. Networking is so key.  Again, good job.

jeff belonger

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IRINA:  You're right about simplicity being the key to so many things in life.  Thank you for your compliment and comments.
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STEPHEN:  Truly amazing in deed that children can be such good educators.  We as adults, just need to be open to learning from them and not just praising them for good ideas.  Thanks for your comments.
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JEFF:  Thanks for coming back to comment.  I really appreciate it.  I'm also a fan of networking, although I need to kick it up a notch.  Thanks for that reminder.
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Most of my quality business comes from the referrals I get on the smaller jobs. I know later on the bigger deals will come if they remember how you treated them. I left alot of those on Long Island when I moved to Florida. Hey ...I was at a wedding last week and stayed at thew Hyatt near you!
6:44am • #65
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NEAL:  Great advice for everyone.  I treat the first time homebuyer the same as the million dollar seller.  You never know what will lead to more business down the road.  Where did you live on LI?  That Hyatt is about a mile from my home.  Next time you're in town, let me know and we'll grab a beer or something.
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Adam,  I absolutely love this post of yours !  A 5-er for sure.  Thanks for the great reminder of how important the little things are ......you've prompted me to dig out my old Joe Stumpf tapes and manual....

Jo 

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Doing the little things ALWAYS makes an impression.  Just recently, I had a couple from out of the area come into town for a few days.  They wanted to see some homes while here on other business.  The husband was unexpectedly called back home on business emergency and called to cancel the showings.  His wife was staying for a couple of more days, but did not want to look at homes without her husband.  I offered to show the wife around, so that they would be a bit more familiar with the different areas and which would appeal to them more.  During these few hours of the tour, I got to know her better and found out in more detail what they exactly were looking for.  Overall, it helped us both out.  

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JO:  Thanks for your comments and the ranking.  I really appreciate it.  I haven't heard of Joe Stumpf, but I'll do some research on him.  Sometimest the little things make the big things look small in comparison.  Thanks again for your comment.
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BRIGITA:  Smart move showing her around anyway.  People that are relocating probably don't get to see as much because it revolves mainly around homes and not just touring areas because they have limited time.  Good for you for going the extra mile.  I'm sure that they'll remember you for it and refer you to others.  Thanks for your comment.
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Really well done post Adam.  Engaging story line and very effective reminder of the basics.
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MIKE: Thanks for your comment.  I hope that you found this story useful.
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BILL:  Thank you for your comments.  I think that we could all use a refresher course on the basics from time to time.  It's just the nature of who we are and what we do.  I'm glad that you enjoyed this post.

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Adam: Gee. Now you've ruined it for me. I was going to go out and stand on the street corner yelling "I'll sell your house!" Actually, what I am going to do is sponsor the n'hood garage sale, buy signs and pay for the ads. It's a great opportunity to meet & greet as well. Very cute story & another wonderful blog. You do have a gift. I think I'll hand out graham crackers at my next closing. :)
7:49pm • #75
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KELLY:  You're hysterical.  I'm picuting you wearing a sandwich board as you're yelling "I'll sell your house!"  In lieu of that, your neighborhood garage sale is a good idea too ;-).  Thank you for your kind words.  I really do appreciate it. By the way, I think that your business will increase exponentially if you go with the graham crackers at the closing idea.  When word gets out about that, you're going to need to expand your team to handle all of the extra business!
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Adam- What a great post. Such a little gesture could go a long way.
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ROBERT:  Thank you for your comments.  A little bit really does go a long way, in the real estate business and in life in general.

8:13pm • #78
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Adam - That's so true. I find myself doing little things for people and never expect anything in return. I feel it gives me good Karma and sometimes I think it really pays off.  
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ROBERT:  I think that this is something that is more than a good business practice.  It is really something that is inside of you, and it must be genuine to be meaningful to others.  Thanks again for your comments.
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Adam :  Once again, an excellent post.  The power of a simple gesture.  As I scrolled down and read through all of these 80 comments on your post, I noticed that you very politely and very thoroughly and thoughtfully answered EVERY comment your readers made.  Ahhh... the power of a simple gesture.
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KAREN ANNE:  It's really funny that you say that.  I never thought about it being a gesture at all, which I guess is the point of the blog in the first place.  It's just something that I started doing because I really appreciate it whenever someone takes the time to comment on something that I've written.  Thank you for YOUR comments, and for noticing the little things.  By the way, you should check out the other blog comments where you challenged me to find a photo.  I think that you'll be pleasantly surprised.
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Adam: I am repeating some of the sentiments in other comments, but the small gestures of people on AR really add up to a Big Gesture. Up to now I found real estate to be a bit of a lonely place,but AR makes it all different. As for clients, on almost each transaction we do so much more then what we are payed for, the list is endless: from watering plants, to checking broken pipes, to walking their pets, to even giving up part of the commission, so the sale can happen.
11:41pm • #83
Great post...sometimes it is the little gestures that get the greatest result!
11:48pm • #84
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2007
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FAINA:  You're so right.  There are probably so many little things that we do that we don't even think of because it just comes naturally to many of us.  Real estate can be a somewhat lonely profession if you don't go to an office all of the time (which I don't).  Now that I've found AR, I have all of the company that I want at the times that I want it.  Conversations are not forced upon me the way that they were when I worked in an office with a lot of agents.  Thank you very much for your comments, Faina.
12:00am • #85
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ANN MARIE:  Thank you for your compliment.  It's true that the little things add up to become big things to others without us even realizing it.
12:02am • #86

Adam,

great post...it always blows me away when someone offers up some sort of gesture as this kid has done.  great reminder to unwind from myself and look for opportunities to do just as this kid has done....

9:47am • #87
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Fantastic Post and should be a wake up call for many people in the service business.
9:52am • #88
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You are absolutely right, Adam! That's why we started writing educational articles for our clients who are landlords & property managers. Another way of showing our thanks was by creating a member rewards section on our website - after a client places an order, we send them to a resource section where they can get discounts and special offers from other vendors who provide property management or home improvement services -- our way of saying thanks for their business....

Thanks for sharing this positive story! It made my day,

Lisa

6:00pm • #89
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BRIAN:  Thank you for your comments and compliment.  The opportunities for small gestures are all around us.  We just need to step back from trying to keep up with the Joneses, and focus on doing something memorable.  Children are a great reminder of what we can do if we put our minds to it.  Thanks again for your comments Brian.
6:14pm • #90
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DAVID:  Thank you for your comment and compliment.  We all should focus on these things in the service industry.  If you'd like to read a great book that talks about this in detail, I highly recommend The E-Myth by Michael Gerber.  It will change the way that you see things.  Thanks again for your comment David.
6:16pm • #91
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LISA:  Great comment!  It's nice to hear the stories about this concept in action.  Your comments should inspire us all to think outside the box when dealing with clients and customers.  I will check out your site to learn more about the things that you are doing.  Thank you very much for sharing this with everyone.  Keep up the great work!
6:18pm • #92
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2007
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This boils it down to the basics. We all get caught up in our days and forget the small stuff. What a great post and fun graphics...
7:37am • #93
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AL:  Thanks for your comments.  You're right about us getting caught up in the busy days and forgetting about doing the little things that people appreciate.  I have tried to focus on doing more of that now.  I'm glad that you enjoyed the post and the graphic.
7:42am • #94
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Adam, Do your clients know how brilliant you are because it's pretty apparent your Active Rain friends do. That was an excellent, sweet and compelling post. 
7:45am • #95
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SHANNON:  Thank you for your accolades.  I'm glad that this post hit home with so many other Rainers.  As far as the first part of your comment, I'm going to let a picture be worth a 1000 words for my feelings.

7:54am • #96

I gave your post a 5.  Very well written and a pleasure to read.  I actually love to give without expecting something in return.  I will admit that I actually do receive something in return, though.  It's the great feeling I walk away with knowing I did something good.

8:16am • #97
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DEB:  It's funny that you say that, because it's so true about the great feelings that you get.  There was a great episode of "Friends" about that very subject.  Phoebe was convinced that she could perform a totally selfless act, and tried to do so by giving a donation to a PBS telethon when she had an issue with them for a reason I can't remember.  She said that it was selfless because she gave to a cause that she didn't believe in.  But ultimately it helped Joey (who was answering phones at the telethon) to get on TV, which made her feel good, thus no act is truly selfless.  Whew!  This was a long way to go to say that I agree with you.  Thanks as always for your comments and compliments.  I appreciate you rating this post as well. 
8:28am • #98
What a wonderful post.  As real estate agents our job is to do things to initiate excitement about the homes we are selling.  Thanks for ideas.
1:25pm • #99
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LAURA:  Thank you for the comments and the compliment.  I really appreciate it.  I'm glad that you found this useful.  Another story inspired by a child will be posted shortly.  It's all about negotiating.  If you liked this post, I think that you'll really enjoy the next one too.  Thanks again for commenting, Laura.
2:50pm • #100
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Hello Adam:  Great Post,  Children can be great teachers if we just pay attention. 

I also am a true believer that the smallest gestures of appreciation or kindness for others, often will have the biggest impact.

Thanks for the reminder.

3:28pm • #101
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THERESE:  Thank you for your comments and compliment.  I agree that children are often times the best teachers if we allow them to be.  Small gestures can go unnoticed at times, but also can be very powerful.  If they are done with no expectation of payback, there is a good feeling just for doing something that may make a difference in a person's life.  Thanks again for your comments, Therese.
10:20pm • #102
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2007
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Such an uplifting post---I really enjoyed your graphics too.
11:33am • #103
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DIANE:  Thank you for your kind words.  I'm glad that it uplifted you and that you enjoyed the graphics.  If you liked this post, I would check out my more recent post, also inspired by a child, called The Power Of Being A Good Negotiator.  It's also got some pretty cool graphics.  If you read it, please let me know what you think.  Thanks Diane.
1:39pm • #104
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Hi Adam...loved the post...now I wish that my fellow Virginia agent shared that same thought.....I have noticed that information flows freely here on active rain, I have gotten some great advice, and information from this site...information I would not have gotten from an agnent here...and while I am still learning about this business..it is great that I have a resource to bounce things off of people...thanks again..
7:30pm • #105
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KONNIE:  Thank you for your kind words.  Information is the greatest resource of Active Rain, that and the people that provide it.  I have found this to be an excellent source of both information and support.

8:22pm • #106
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2007
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Hi Adam,

Sound advise and agreed that the simple gestures are the ones that make the biggest impact.

11:32am • #107
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Forest for the trees.....yes....perfect!

Cheers, Adam, from DC!

   Jaynee
 

11:39am • #108
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LISA & ROBERT:  Thanks for your comment and for believing in the concept of simple gestures.
11:49am • #109
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JAYNEE:  Even when you are brief, you get your point across.  Thanks for your comment.
11:49am • #110
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I totally believe in this idea and use it frequently! It really does work. It says you're paying attention to them, not just using them to make a buck.
12:10pm • #111
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JENNIFER:  Thanks for your comment.  Putting the customer or client before yourself, even in the smallest way, shows that you are there for them, and not just the money.  You're very smart to use this idea frequently.  If you feel like it, feel free to some of your tips into this comment section so that others can see of ideas how to apply it to real estate.  Thanks Jennifer.
6:53pm • #112
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I keep seeing this title and it reminds me of the Geico commercials.  It's a good thing this post is about kids instead of cavemen, they're already angry.
9:43pm • #113
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Shannon - I hadn't even thought of that.  Not to sound too much like Seinfeld, but what is the deal with the new "Caveman" sitcom?  Is anyone expecting that to succeed?
10:49pm • #114
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2007
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SHANNON:  Now I want to change the title of the blog.  I'm so sick of those guys.  I promise not to do any caveman blogs.

JASON:  I've discussed this sitcom with my wife.  My prediction is that it will be the first show in the history of TV to get cancelled during the showing of the first epidsode, and they will finish out the show by just doing a string of Geico commercials instead of the sitcom. 

 

9:55am • #115
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Adam - Your comment was the first thing I read this morning, and my family was looking at me because I suddenly laughed out loud (real loud).  I don't often do that when I am on AR.  Thanks for the laugh!
10:10am • #116
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Thanks Jason.  Imagine if it comes true?  We'd all have a great laugh then!
10:25am • #117
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One can only hope...It seems like the type of show that will actually drain IQ points from the general populace.
10:28am • #118
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It's true.  I feel a little dopey just talking about it.
10:30am • #119
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2007
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That young man knows a lot about marketing, AND about people. Thanks, Adam, for introducing us. Yesterday one of our sellers was in our office and commented to me about my son, Rob. Earlier that afternoon was over at a client’s home and the house was a bit chaotic – an air conditioning repairman, a structural inspector, the buyer and his wife, the seller and his wife, a termite inspector, my son Rob and the seller’s 10 month old daughter. Certainly not a typical or comforting environment for the young girl. The seller was so impressed with Rob. Out of all the people in the room, the baby crawled over and put her arm around Rob’s leg. He immediately got down on the floor and started to play with the little girl. That small gesture of reaching out endeared him more to the sellers than any coordination of all the people could have done. Yes, it’s all about the smallest gestures. Thanks for reminding us of that.
2:25pm • #120
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SHARON:  Thank you for sharing your small gesture story.  It's great when older kids will try and help entertain the little ones.  You're son did a great thing, and I'm sure that those people like you even more than before because you're not just a REALTOR now, but a mom with a good son.  Thanks for your comments, Sharon.
7:33pm • #121
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I agree with you points here especially on being rewarded for those small gestures.
11:20pm • #122
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2007
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STANLEY:  Thanks for your comments. 
5:07am • #123
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2007
Small gestures - that's what it's all about are they are so rare in this day and age.
Didn't your mother always tell you to send "thank you" notes? How many of us actually take the time and effort these days to send handwritten greeting cards to express appreciation or just to say "thinking of you"?
Shameless plug - take a test drive on my simple system at www.SendOutSpecialCards.com . I'd love to know what you think.
3:15pm • #124
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PHILIP: I checked out your site and it looks pretty interesting.  I do send handwritten thank you notes, so this may work for me. Please feel free to contact me.  Thank you.  And thanks for your comments.
4:09pm • #125
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Wow - what a cute kid. But also the mother in me wonders...was his parent at the door with him also??? 

Great concept though...have to agree.  The little guy is going to be a great success if he puts forth that effort for all of his future jobs.

All the best,

Beth

 

1:00pm • #126
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BETH:  He only lives 2 doors down and I think that he's around 9 or so.  This is definitely a nice reminder to all of us to go the extra mile.  Thanks for your comment.
1:54pm • #127
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Adam, You do need to go that extra mile for a customer and add a little personal touch to each person.  I have been in customer service my whole life and learned that years ago.   Since I am new to this industry, I just have to learn the real estate business and then add my customer service skills.
11:19pm • #128
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2007
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ROBERTA:  You are already doing a great job by being on Active Rain and realizing that you can apply your customer service background to the real estate industry.  I'm sure that you'll be very successful.  Please feel free to post any questions or tips that you have inside of Active Rain Addicts.  Thank you for your comments.

9:13am • #129
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30
2007

Adam,

Great post!  Not only does this show the importance of doing the little things, but it shows the enthusiasm of little children.  That child was proud to knock on your door and ask for your business.  Think of the excitement little chilren display about "prospecting" on Halloween.  They can't wait to run to the next house, knowing there is a reward if all they do is knock on the door and say "Trick or Treat."

What if we prospect every day with the same enthusiasm?  How great would be the rewards?

Thanks for sharing and reminding me of the simplicity of a child's mind.

Valerie

11:01am • #130
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2007
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VALERIE:  Maybe if we all prospected dressed as super heroes it would be more fun and more would get done (LOL).  I love the Halloween analogy.  Kids are the most relentless salespeople in the world.  This one just happened to add a touch of creativity.  Thank you for sharing your thoughts and for commenting, Valerie.
8:46am • #131
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Great post! What a future successful entreprenuer neighbor you have!

Sounds like my son upselling at our recent yard sale we had. He demonstrated items, sold in groups, threw in additional items if they purchased larger items. Needless to say I was so proud of him! He did all of this with the mindset of helping each person find the perfect items for them at our event. He was so satisfied that each person left with everything that they needed.

Keep an eye on that kiddo and keep us all posted of his future endeavors! We all can learn from each other.

9:50am • #132
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CHARITY:  It's always great when we get inspired by the things that children do.  Your son sounds like quite an entrepreneur in his own right!  You have a lot to be proud of, as your son is already doing the right thing by people.  Thank you very much for your comments, Charity.  Keep us posted on your son's endeavors as well.
6:52pm • #133
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2007
Great post!  Sometimes the simple basics work the best.
3:52am • #134
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DARREL:  Thank you for your compliment and comment.  I agree that simplicity is vastly underused in our society.
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