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How My Pitbull, Roxie, Healed My Broken Heart!

By
Real Estate Agent with Prudential YSU Realty

                                                                        

I am a dog fanatic! I can't get enough of my dog, watching other people's dogs, and watching tear jerkers about heroic and sweet dogs! I personally don't feel that my house is a home without a dog in it.

 

My new girl, Roxie!

I recently adopted Roxie from a local rescue, and could not be happier with the addition to my family. She is incredibly energetic (understatement of epic proportions!), and smart, and oh-so cuddly. And, she has mended my broken heart.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Missing Traveler and Gabriel...

I lost my two dogs, Gabriel and Traveler, in the past year. Both had cancer. Traveler had lymphoma, which was not curable, but with treatment was able to live happily and comfortably for an additional year to the age of 11. Gabriel had cancer also, but after treatment was cured. He eventually became too pain-ridden with arthritis to live comfortably, and at 12 years old, I decided to let him go. Both of their deaths were traumatic beyond belief, and I still mourn them and miss them incredibly.

When I heard that Roxie was available for adoption, I was skeptical. First, I wasn't sure that my heart was ready for a new dog. The pain of losing Traveler and Gabriel seemed too fresh, too raw. And secondly, I wasn't sure that I could handle an energetic pup. To me, adopting a dog means that you are willing to do any and everything you can to ensure that they have the happiest, healthiest life possible. I knew I could provide for her, and love her, but I asked myself if I could give her the kind of exercise she needs. And finally, I wasn't sure that I could emotionally handle the eventual loss of another beloved family member.

After much deliberating, I decided that the pros outweighed the cons, and I welcomed Roxie into my family on 7/20/10. She was just over a year old, had been very well-loved in her previous home, and showed all the signs of being a great dog.

                                                   Photo courtesy Sue Rakes Photography!

She has not disappointed! She is all that I had hoped for and more! She has made lots of dog and human friends in the past couple months.

She has regular play dates with dogs she has met. It is such a sight to see the pure joy of dogs playing and just being dogs! Their rituals, their games, and their energy fascinate me.

She has also enjoyed making new human friends. Some of my friends who are runners have generously taken her on as a running buddy. She runs with them 4 or 5 times a week. They report that she is quite the athlete, and as is typical of her breed, she runs with determination!

But, my favorite time with her is when she settles in at night and cuddles. That's when I know my heart is no longer broken. Just having her with me, knowing she trusts me, loves me, and depends on me, has given me new energy for both my personal and professional real estate life.

I know that I'm not alone in my passion for dogs - there are lots of us out there. And, that's a good thing!

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"It's a new day in Triangle Real Estate!"

Dawn Grasty, Broker

Prudential YSU

919-210-5418

www.dgrasty.com

Jane Peters
Home Jane Realty - Los Angeles, CA
Los Angeles real estate concierge services

I am a huge dog lover.  Won't own one because I don't want the responsibility and it would kill me to see them die.  But I undertand the feeling.  Roxie looks so adorable and I wish I could give her a hug.

Sep 17, 2010 06:56 AM
Dawn Grasty
Prudential YSU Realty - Durham, NC
Durham NC Real Estate

Thanks, Jane! Roxie would give you more doggy kisses than you ever wanted! :-) I think it's a testament to all that dogs bring into my life that I willingly head for certain heart break just for the chance to love a pup again. If you're ever in Durham, look me and Roxie up - we'll make sure you get a dog fix!

Sep 17, 2010 07:03 AM
Wallace S. Gibson, CPM
Gibson Management Group, Ltd. - Charlottesville, VA
LandlordWhisperer

My 3rd ESS died in May, 2008 * he had a tumor and vet indicated it was too large to remove so I had him go to sleep.  I Googled ESS puppies for sale in VA and found a litter in Va Beach and had these brother/sister pups in my car within 24 hours....we do walks and loads of fun stuff.  They have their own car for vet and spa appts and I moved my office from 2nd to 1st floor because they "don't do stairs"....

Cici and Pico live at Springer Lodge in Keswick, VA!!!

Sep 17, 2010 07:17 AM
Dawn Grasty
Prudential YSU Realty - Durham, NC
Durham NC Real Estate

Oh, gracious, Cici - they are adorable! They do look a little pampered! :-) I love that they "don't do stairs"! HA! Roxie "doesn't do leashes", but we're working on that! Thanks for sharing your story!

Sep 17, 2010 07:23 AM
Mike Carlier
Lakeville, MN
More opinions than you want to hear about.

Roxie looks like a great companion.  For a high energy dog, you may want to consider some formal training classes for obedience and agility.  It's a good socialization opportunity, and it can develop into an enjoyable hobby for you and Roxie.  You may even pick up a prospect or two at obedience and agility trials.

Sep 17, 2010 07:35 AM
Dawn Grasty
Prudential YSU Realty - Durham, NC
Durham NC Real Estate

Thanks for the compliments, Mike! She will definitely get enrolled next session in either agility or flyball. I can't wait - it will be fun for both of us, and like you said - you never know where you might meet your next client!

Sep 17, 2010 07:48 AM
Mary Yonkers
Alan Kells School of Real Estate/Howard Hanna Real Estate - Erie, PA
Erie/PA Real Estate Instructor

Dawn--what touching story.  Almost a love story in reverse.  I enjoyed reading about Roxie and hope to see more of her in the future.  Other AR members share their pets' often.

These days my pets are the birds and squirrels that I feed every morning.  At times we have turkey, raccoons and deer visit our feeders.

Have a great weekend.

Sep 17, 2010 08:02 AM
Dawn Grasty
Prudential YSU Realty - Durham, NC
Durham NC Real Estate

Thanks so much, Mary! It is totally a "love story in reverse"! I love that! I have lots of stories planned for Miss Roxie... stay tuned! I've been off AR for quite a while, and upon returning, I have rediscovered what a warm and friendly place this is. I'm so happy to be back!

Sep 17, 2010 08:10 AM
Rick Wellington
Fonville Morisey - Raleigh, NC

My boxer was killed by a car in 2000. I waited eight years to get another dog and I am so glad that I did. I actually got two, Bookie and Max  I should have done it so much sooner.

Sep 19, 2010 01:32 AM
Dawn Grasty
Prudential YSU Realty - Durham, NC
Durham NC Real Estate

Rick - I can't imagine how hard it would be to lose one in an accident, so suddenly. Healing takes how long it takes, I think it's different for everyone. And, look at your two precious pups now! So cute! Thanks for sharing!

Sep 19, 2010 01:43 AM